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You’re Starting to Relax

Channeled by Brenda Hoffman for LifeTapestryCreations.com

Summary of Brenda’s May 29, 2020, channeled “Creation Energies” show at BlogTalkRadio.com/brenda-hoffman: Perhaps you’re uncovering a significant fear. Perhaps not. But in all likelihood, your emotional ups and downs are similar to a 3D teen. For sometimes, you react as you did in 3D and at other times as new you. Those people and things who blend with your frequencies will weather the storm with you. Those who do not will not. You’re the creator of your life – one of your current fears.

“You’re Your Fairy Godmother” is the title of last week’s “Brenda’s Blog” – her weekly channeled blog for LifeTapestryCreations.com.

Brenda’s “Creation Energies” show and “Brenda’s Blog” contain different channeled information.

Dear Ones,

You are shifting so rapidly that what was is no more. Of course, you are concerned about the riots, the virus, and your seemingly never-ending life changes.

But all in all, you feel as if you have a handle on your life. Something you have not felt for some time. For you can commiserate with those enmeshed in the pain of all that is happening, but you are likely observing not participating. Even though you understand what is happening, you choose not to experience it.

So it is you are starting to relax. Not in the sense of negating your surroundings or needs, but instead feeling that others can protest, worry, or test themselves. You are not interested. For you are at a different place.

You know who you are or are beginning to be. Your new entity is no longer fully part of the 3D world.

The 3D world seems to be dramatically emphasized now – as if all the pain and suffering is before your eyes. Areas of suffering you have ignored or tried to ignore. At the same time, you realize that such pain and suffering is no longer your job, your business.

You forerunners are the ones with clear heads and concise ideas. Not necessarily to save the world, but instead to live your life in comfort.

How can you live your life in comfort when so many are suffering? Such is so because you are no longer participating in the pain of others.

Of course, such a stance seems to be wrong. For are you not your brother’s keeper? In 3D, you most definitely were your brother’s keeper for clearing the pain of others was instrumental in your caretaking duties.

Those fully enmeshed in pain and suffering want you to join them. Not because you can save them, but instead, so everyone is suffering.

That last statement is difficult for many of you to understand. But then, remember your past suffering and need to have others understand you via similar feelings. And if they did not respond in kind, you searched for someone who could or would nurture you through the pain.

Such is what is happening now. Those fully enmeshed in pain and fear want you to feel the same.

Instead, you are pulling away for you no longer play by those 3D rules, nor do you have a need to suffer. You have cleared that path. As the week goes on, you will experience more of the observer role – a new piece for you. Yes, it is happening, but it is not your problem.

Many of you are feeling twinges of guilt with that last statement, for you should be protecting or supporting them even if you do not feel the need. A 3D role you are slipping away from. For you have other roles, you wish to play.

It is as if you once achieved greatness by performing a movie role only to turn down that same role after realizing you have nothing more to contribute or learn.

This is the week you begin distancing from all you once thought was imperative to contribute to either in person or emotionally.  A role that has become boring. A feeling of “same old.”

But then, this adjustment might not be as easy as you think. For your inner-being is declaring sovereignty at the same time your outer-being is clamoring for you to do something to make everything better.

Please remember that your inner-being is now your guide. So when those twinges of shame, guilt, or fear of not doing enough announce themselves via friends or relatives, know you are starting the rebuild of your structures and the world.

At the same time, you are focussing on creating a life of joy for yourself as you practice your creation skills.

Do you not see how guilt and shame might raise it’s 3D head if you are living in comfort, and the rest of the world seems to be in flames or emotional lock-down?

You are a forerunner and moved through this pain arena long ago. There is no need for you to continue. Yet, others will try to force you to do so. Which is no different than was true for many of you when you initiated your transition.

Those who attempt to return you to 3D angst will likely be some of those who tried to ignite your fears when you found your first crystal or started reading Tarot cards.

Those who are not forerunners have not understood your interests for some time. Allow that to be.

Just as you ignored their fears for you as you delved into your new being months or years ago, the same will happen now. They will catch up to you. But, for now, they need their fears to surface before they can clear them. You have completed that role.

Your new role is to follow your inner being, which most definitely includes a new life of joy. So be it. Amen.

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June 1, 2020 at 9:19 am 21 comments

You Have the Power

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Channeled by Brenda Hoffman for http://www.LifeTapestryCreations.com

Summary of Brenda’s March 30, 2018, channeled 15-minute “Creation Energies” show at BlogTalkRadio.com/brenda-hoffman:   The past few days or weeks, you’ve been like an infant knowing you want to walk, but not having the motor skills to do so without practice and help from others. You’re now comfortable enough with your skills to walk, even run to your new joys. Doing so will create your new you path.

“Are You in Nowhere Land?” is the title of last week’s “Brenda’s Blog” – her weekly channeled blog for LifeTapestryCreations.com.

Brenda’s “Creation Energies” show and “Brenda’s Blog” contain different channeled information.

Dear Ones,

The next few days will be noteworthy for many. For those of you who have tapped into your biggest fears or regrets will sense a shift in your being and outcomes you did not anticipate even a few days ago.

You are learning to direct your being to continue or create your path.

So it is pieces you do not remember or imagine were holding you to your present life will present themselves for review. Do you wish to berate yourself for that piece or do you wish to move beyond? That will be your decision for you have held yourself responsible for that “mistake” for years, maybe eons.

You might have already noted the whispers of that deeply hidden secret holding you in a place you no longer wish to be. The question is what do you do with that memory? The answer is whatever you want.

For if you wish to continue your penance, you can. Or you can move beyond that piece. You merely need to allow yourself to KNOW you no longer are that entity whether of the past, present, or future life.

If you are of a religious nature, you learned from early childhood that Jesus entered 3D earth to forgive your sins. In truth, you forgive yourself for you are part of all God interpretations.

It is time for you to truly understand one of your recently accepted powers. The power to forgive yourself the same way you once hoped someone outside of your being would.

Such a thought will make some angry. For you accept you are part of God, the Universes, or any entity you believe more powerful than you, but you cannot yet accept that you are equal.

So those of you who refuse to fully accept your new totality will continue to mire yourselves in self-blame waiting forever for someone outside of you to forgive and tell you that you are a good boy or girl.

You have always had the power to forgive yourself. You merely negated that power to fit within the confines of the 3D world that depended on any and all outside forces to teach you how to live, pray, forgive – how to be.

Once you declare yourself free from those self-made and self-accepted obstacles, you will allow yourself to grow into the powerful being you are. For those pieces that hold you in fear, those deepest secrets are yours to expose and clear – not God, your partner, friends, community, or family.

You also believe you have the power to shame or blame others as well as yourself. Such is not true and never was. You hold people like Adolf Hitler and Joseph Stalin in contempt, telling yourself that you are better than them. Not because you necessarily are, but because you need to blame someone for your discomfort.

You believe you are not as “bad” as they are so you can accept your fears. Whether that be a mass murderer, a financial or political thief, an abuser or on and on. Not because you accept their actions, but because you need them to prove to yourself that you are not as bad.

In truth, all of you have backgrounds with multiple occasions for shame. Most of which you have dissected and removed. But for many, there is that one deep shame that you have been afraid to explore for you believe that one shame is too terrible to expose or express.

That shame might be what you review the next few days. Not in the pain and remorse you have had about that issue, but in the sense of forgiving yourself. Knowing that forgiveness is your right and responsibility, and not that of any other person or entity. An understanding of who you were and what you felt you needed to explore at that time.

The following few days will be about self-forgiveness. A trait or skill you always had but did not use when you were a 3D entity believing that there was someone bigger or better than you.

Now you are concerned that this self-forgiveness, this rehash of something you are afraid or ashamed of will be too painful to contemplate.

Contrary to your fears, you merely have to expose the fear and then forgive yourself. Some of you might not even know what that fear is for it might have occurred in a different 3D life. You just need to allow yourself the power to know you are the one to forgive you.

You no longer need to rely on someone in the heavens to forgive you for that entity has always been you. Your 3D God concept was first experienced through religious stories you heard as a child encouraging you to believe someone had the power to forgive you.

Now that you are learning to accept your power in this lifetime, it is time to quash another 3D myth. You are the only entity who can forgive you. For your life is yours. It does not belong to another and never has even though you, en masse, created that myth to allow yourself to be of 3D.

Why do you suppose karma was created and that, according to your myths, once you transitioned beyond earth, you reviewed your 3D life and then re-entered to play out the karma you created? Do you see the difference in belief patterns? At one end, you must plead with God to forgive you. And at the other, you must leave earth to forgive yourself only to replay a similar role in reverse before you can forgive yourself and allow others to exit that storyline.

In a sense, the two forgiveness concepts are not compatible, and in another, they are completely compatible. For indeed, in both scenarios, you are not strong enough to forgive yourself while of the earth. Such has never been true.

Allow that deep shame to expose itself and know that you are the only entity who can clear that pain and always have been. The difference is you are starting to believe you can do so while of the earth. A large step forward indeed. So be it. Amen.

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April 2, 2018 at 9:45 am 31 comments

It’s Time to Negate Group Think

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Channeled by Brenda Hoffman for http://www.LifeTapestryCreations.com

Summary of Brenda’s April 19, 2014 free, 15-minute, channeled “Creation Energies” show at  http://www.BlogTalkRadio.com/brenda-hoffman: Even though you new earth scout masters may feel somewhat comfortable with pain because that is what you know, you don’t need to experience much pain for you’re more than half-way along the pain/joy continuum. Those newly awakened are requesting aid from angels, beings from other dimensions and/or anyone they can tap for help – just as you did. You’re now a co-creator with those beings you once needed to lead you to your new life/begged for help.

The title of last week’s “Brenda’s Blog” – her free, weekly, channeled blog for  www.LifeTapestryCreations.com: “Force is How NOT to Experience Creation”

Brenda’s “Creation Energies” BlogTalkRadio.com show and “Brenda’s Blog” contain different channeled information.

Dear Ones,

Do not become enmeshed in what might happen during the energy bursts of the next two weeks. You are finding materials relaying what will happen to you – raising your expectations or fears. Or that all are affected – which is correct – but not necessarily as you expect.

You are a unique individual, as is every entity on earth. So beliefs that all will be affected in a similar fashion are illogical. The stars and you are shifting so you can claim your uniqueness. Such is not possible if you prepare yourself for a group event. April astrological events are not group activities.

Granted, more earth entities will open their hearts – even if just a bit. But how that sensation changes their life remains to be noted. Some may react in fear, anger, joy or hundreds of other emotions that are not necessarily what you experienced or are experiencing.

All of you have roles to play in this transition – and all have unique paths. So you will claim and process these new energies uniquely.You have been in group think for eons. It is time to negate group think.

There are no guidelines – especially those developed in the Old Age. We cannot tell you how you are going to change, if at all – anymore than you know. You fully accept that something may be happening to others, as well as yourself. But how you address that something is yet unknown.

Perhaps this thought is frightening for you were excited that hearts were opening – relying on your 3D model of what heart opening meant. A definition no longer valid.

This is not to frighten you, but instead for you to develop and grow as you wish.

Whenever you feel guilt of any level, know that such is part of your Old Age/3D world. For how can you feel guilt if you are creating your new path? That is similar to making an infant feel guilty for not walking when they do not yet understand what walking means.

For you to establish expectations of what you should feel during these April astrological events based on 3D astrological models is for you to feel emotions that have little to do with your path – and much to do with shoulds and have tos.

Perhaps you beg to differ – knowing that you and your friend are experiencing similar sensations during this time. Even though such may be true, it is unlikely. Think in terms of the number of experiences you have had on earth and other places forever. Then compare those experiences to those of your friend. Some will mesh, most will not. You are approaching new earth with your individuality so you can best fulfill the role you created before entering earth in this lifetime. And even that role shifted as you moved deeper into new earth.

Baby Boomers were to build a bridge to the New Age. Their children were to walk across that bridge. And their grandchildren were to destroy that bridge and live the new life. But the ever belligerent, derring-do of Baby Boomers circumvented their own predicted role. They not only helped create the bridge, but are now expecting to live in new earth during this lifetime.

No one knows how much further you will expand your creation skills in this lifetime. Perhaps these April astrological events will propel you far beyond what you anticipate. Perhaps you are in a rest period and will ignore these events for now – or forever.

Granted, hearts will be opening. But as is the case with your new unique being, no one, least of all someone outside of your being, can predict how you will shift in the next couple of weeks – much less the next few months. The energies are there and are beaming at stronger levels daily. But you do not have to jump on those beams if you chose not to, nor do you need to accept the full level beam.

Freedom to be means exactly that. Not freedom to be after an astrological or energy event, nor during. Perhaps the most appropriate way for you to approach any event from now on is to note that something is happening that may or may not affect you and to note to yourself the results. No one else really needs to know.

That last thought may appear a bit harsh. What is meant by that is anyone can predict that something is happening, but no one – including you – can predict how it will affect you. And for you to feel guilt or shame or less than because you do not feel anything or something quite different from general predictions is little different from the past when you applied newspaper astrological predictions when they fit what you already were feeling – or wanted to feel.

This is not a cookie-cutter new earth. But instead a dynamic earth that is shifting more rapidly and uniquely every day. There are no rules. There are no shoulds. There is only glorious you discovering yourself in all your brilliant beingness. Allow yourself to create the new you without parameters established by others – the parameters so important  in your 3D fear-based world

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April 22, 2014 at 11:25 am 57 comments

Acknowledge Those Parts You’ve Been Ashamed of for Eons

Channeled by Brenda Hoffman for Life Tapestry Creations.com

Also listen to Brenda’s free, weekly 15-minute channeled “Creation Energies” show on blogtalkradio.com. Her radio show does not contain the same message as her weekly blogs.

Dear Ones,

We have not done this before but we wish to return to our message of Brenda’s radio show earlier this week. We stated during that channel that those of you listening would have completed most, if not all, of your blending of your beings – or those entities that make up your past, present and future lives and thereby, your soul.

We also stated that most of the recent energy shifts were designed for you to easily access and yes, invite those various parts of your being into the totality that is you. Such has happened and is happening. We also promised that most, if not all, of that merging would be complete by the end of March.

Such merging is a priority in this New Age transition. You have often heard the phrase, “You must love yourself before you can love another.” In truth, “yourself” is much larger in terms of entities and experiences than you can possibly comprehend.

You probably have had many lives on earth, but you may have also had a similar number of experiences on other planets and in other venues. Does that thought confuse you? Most of you diligently try to determine the number of past lives you have had on earth. You may have even succeeded in seeing or sensing a particular incident, time period or geographic location. Such pieces are the “tip of the iceberg” in terms of who you are.

Do you really suppose that someone who has experienced many lives on earth – given that pain and fear were the lesson plans for eons – would have the ability to suddenly become godlike or gods on earth as we and other channels have long proclaimed?

We have eased you into this bit of information by telling you that all parts of your being would join together to form the whole of who you are. We did not necessarily tell you where these parts were from. It is the time to do so. For within a few weeks, you will be joining with other entities and we do not wish for you to be frightened or to negate the joy possible when more than one of you join together.

The earth is indeed a shining jewel in the Universe. All of you reading these materials have had past lives on earth, and likely will have future lives on earth. But you have also experienced other planets, Universes and entities. You are not creating the New Age in a vacuum. You know exactly what you want and why. And you know this because you have sampled a life here and a life there. You have discussed the pros and cons of those lives with others – most notably in the spiritual realms – and you have entered the earth in this lifetime with a blueprint for what the New Age will be and why.

The New Age is not a “hit or miss” process. It is clearly delineated and already created in another dimension. You merely have to “plug” your entity into the correct socket – much as telephone operators in the mid 20th century – to fulfill your role. What if you refuse to cooperate, to plug into your socket? The same as was true for the telephone systems of yesteryear – telephones will continue to ring and the sockets will be filled – just not yours.

How will your empty socket impact the world, the Universe? Very little and yet a great deal. Returning to our telephone switchboard example, perhaps you have important information for a corporate executive that determines whether a contract  impacting the world is signed. Suppose you never make that call. In all likelihood that contract will eventually be signed, but not as easily or rapidly.

The New Age is here. And you have a key role to play. If you choose not to play your role, the New Age will continue with a bit less sparkle, a bit less charm and a bit less ease.

But let us return to the melding of your beings for that is the theme of this week’s channels both on the radio and in this blog.

You have long learned that you are all one. Most of you assumed that thought merely meant you needed to love a homeless man as yourself. That is true. But the piece that most of you have ignored or denied is that many of the lives you have lived on earth and in other environments are not necessarily shining examples of love and joy.

As you returned to earth or whatever environment after one of those “less than wonderful examples of love and kindness” most of you negated the experience to a hidden part of your being. It is quite easy to be horrified by the exploits of others knowing that you could never do another harm. In truth, all of you have done someone harm – including murder, torture or any other form of rage or hate you can imagine. How could you not if you wished to explore the Old Age fully? And the same is true for experiences in other environments.

The strange sensations, the discomfort you have felt for the last few months – or in some cases years – are those pieces of your being you hoped you had buried so completely that they would never appear again. But they are part of you. An extremely important part of you. You cannot love until you have felt the opposite. And so you have many, many, many times in many lifetimes on earth and in other environments. You have completed that work so that you would be fully prepared for this New Age of joy and love.

It is time to acknowledge those pieces you have hidden and been ashamed of for eons. You are all mass murders, as well as loving entities. That is the exhaustion and exhilaration you have felt. As you allow each piece of your being to return to you with love – the joy is almost overwhelming. And as you pretend that a mass murderer could never have been you, your exhaustion sets in.

Allow all of you to be loved and accepted. More importantly, invite all of you to return. For the next stage of the New Age that you will enter after March will require a complete entity, or as we discussed in our radio channel, a full glass. If you attempt to blend and meld with other complete entities while you continue to struggle with some of your pieces, the blend will not work.

The more complete your entity is, the more easily you will access your new tool kit of creation. We indeed are all one. Allow yourself to know that – more importantly to accept that. All of you moved through every stage of darkness possible, so that you could move into the light that is the New Age. Nothing you have ever done is worse than is true for anyone you meet on the street. All of us truly are one.

Now it is time for you to meld with those who wish to be part of the New Age, the light of the New Age. Allow yourself to accept who you are – and do so in joy. For that is how we view you. A miraculous, loving, courageous group of entities who fully accept all parts of their being even though doing so seems difficult at times, so they can move into the light. By doing so you will alter the earth and the Universe for evermore. So be it. Amen.

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February 17, 2011 at 3:58 pm 2 comments


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