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Are You Shoulding 5D You?

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Summary of Brenda’s February 3, 2017, channeled 15-minute “Creation Energies” show at http://www.BlogTalkRadio.com/brenda-hoffman:  Maybe you’re concerned that you’re boxing yourself in with your preferences. Instead, you’re beginning to discover who you are without the shoulds of society – the first step in true acceptance of others, of being as one. Before, you created boundaries as dictated by your society. Boundaries you once accepted as truth, but now you’re discovering those boundaries are not who you are. In turn, your new preferences will likely evolve with inner growth.

“Reviewing Your 5D Global Actions” is the title of this week’s “Brenda’s Blog” – her weekly, channeled blog for www.LifeTapestryCreations.com.

Brenda’s “Creation Energies” show and “Brenda’s Blog” contain different channeled information.

Dear Ones,

The 3D world of anger, hate, and rage draw you in day after day because you are not noticing positive changes in your world. Instead, you are sensing more negative actions – in your terms – than ever in this lifetime.

All seems hopeless – creating a helpless feeling within you because of the fear and anger now seemingly rampant.

You have read and studied what is happening – that the rage and anger are clearing the last vestiges of outer-directed power. Even though you want to believe that such is true, your vision, your current world does not indicate that.

Your fear continues to include all you experienced in past times and lives – the fall of Atlantis and Lemuria, the Holocaust, dictatorships, and on and on. All of which are now displayed vibrantly via your governments and the actions of many.

Even though you wish to live in peace and joy, you are confused about your role in achieving that goal. Yes, you can create it within you – but you have tried. Only to discover yet another piece of anger, control, or rage displayed by others that you cannot ignore.

You feel you must interject yourself into the fray. Yet, when you do, you discover that your joy turns to anger, that you become part of the group you are trying to shift.

What are you to do? Allow the hate and anger to rage unabated – or jump in to save the world? That is your quandary now and will be for some weeks.

Such is so because you are jumping, if you will, between two worlds. In one you feel comfortable – your 3D world – so you know how to react. The other is your new 5D world in which you have no idea how to react. So you drift between the two, trying to find your comfort zone.

It will be some time before you are fully comfortable in 5D. Not because finding your 5D comfort zone needs to take time, but because you are leaving all that you know behind.

If you were to move to another country with different foods and language, you would most likely prepare foods of your native land and speak in your native tongue whenever possible – until you adjusted to your new home – or maybe forever.

Such is so now. You are choosing a home place with a new language and new incentives. But as you do so, you have a need to return to some of the comforts of 3D. Such is not bad or a step backward – merely you determining who you are.

Allow yourself to shift between the two worlds as much as you need. For putting parameters on your growth, your exploration is no different from following the dictates of society. There are no shoulds in the development of new you – including those you place upon yourself.

“I shouldn’t be upset by new laws, policies or actions because I am of 5D.” Or, “I should help others because they are so badly informed, they don’t understand they could have a better life.” Neither action or thought is of 5D. Both are of shoulds that have nothing to do with new you.

Perhaps you need to further explore pieces in 3D. Maybe you do not fully believe the possibilities of 5D. That is your right. That is who you are. To force yourself into something or someone different is placing unnecessary shoulds upon yourself.

Just as you cannot tell others how to live their life, you cannot force yourself to do so.

Many of you are starting to believe that you SHOULD be a different, more loving, more forgiving, and more 5D perfect being. By shoulding yourself, you force yourself into something that is not quite you. Like trying to force your feet into shoes that are a size too small.

Your only role now is to follow your heart, your inner-being – wherever that leads you. Perhaps you need to address pieces that surprise you. Perhaps you find yourself disliking a group of people, and that astounds you. Perhaps you do not wish to be with anyone now. So be it.

You cannot be someone you are not. Allow yourself to evolve at the pace that is correct for you. Trust yourself enough to know that when something is too unpleasant, too painful, too heavy or just not right for you, your internal being will shift your direction.

Such is about self-love. What is right for you – not the masses or your friends and family. What is right for you? You will know by the call to action in whatever form that takes. For you will feel good about the action even though it might not seem to be that of 5D.

Do not place borders around your 5D growth as you have for eons around your 3D being. There are no boundaries other than what makes you feel joyous and alive. And if that means speaking out or remaining silent; if that means eating or not eating certain foods; if that means action or inaction – allow that to be.

For your inner-being is directing you to a fully functioning 5D being – sometimes with big steps and at other times, with small steps forward or backward but always with creating a fully functioning 5D being.

Allow yourself to be – including rage if that is what you now require to unleash some of your 3D being.

Allow yourself to be in all your facets, and you will quickly adjust to 5D. Curtail your various facets, and you will continue to function in a 3D manner.

Shoulds are not appropriate for others or yourself. So be it. Amen.

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February 6, 2017 at 11:03 am 34 comments

Are You Gifting Everyone But You?

 

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Summary of Brenda’s December 19, 2014 free, 15-minute, channeled “Creation Energies” show at  http://www.BlogTalkRadio.com/brenda-hoffman:  “Is that all there is?” might be your theme this holiday season. Your new 3D segments don’t understand holidays to the depth you do after decades of celebrating. Your new totality is somewhat bored by holiday expectations – and much more interested in dimension hopping, frequency shifts and time travel than the required roles of the season. You know deep within your being that you no longer require special days with special rituals created by your 3D world to feel love and joy.

The title of last week’s “Brenda’s Blog” – her free, weekly, channeled blog for www.LifeTapestryCreations.com: “Saviors are SO Yesterday” 

Brenda’s “Creation Energies” show and “Brenda’s Blog” contain different channeled information.

Dear Ones,

This holiday season may be difficult for you. Not because you are not filled with love, but that society dictates what you should feel and do.

This is likely the last holiday season that 3D shoulds invade your being to this extent.

Some of you have moved beyond expectations and rituals created in your 3D world. Others of you continue to struggle with a continuum of shoulds from: “I wish I could share this loving season with someone.” to “Why do I play roles I don’t believe in?”

It is not bad or wrong to express love during this season – if you truly feel it. But to create sensations just because you should is confusing for many. You have moved beyond most of your 3D shoulds and beliefs and yet, this season pushes you into your old life.

This is indeed a wonderful season for love is expressed and shared in many ways. But this season lasts just a few days. The societal message is that you should turn on a love button during this season and not be that concerned or interested in love the remainder of the year.

Perhaps this is a harsh assessment for some. For you love the holiday baking, shopping, tree trimming, candle lighting and loving get-togethers.

Yet, love does not reign for others during this season. You feel a duty to bake, cook, decorate, purchase, gather with family and friends, maintain your 3D existence, as well as adjust to Universal shifts. It is too much. You are on overload and cannot wait until the holidays pass. You are not sharing a loving experience, you are merely sharing another 3D work experience. You should do this, feel that and remember everyone but yourself.

It is time to also gift yourself.

Perhaps such is not possible this year for you have already committed beyond your energy levels. This is the last year you will do so. For the shifts of the next few months will pull you further from 3D thoughts and obligations.

You have recently welcomed new segments into your being who wish to experience your 3D world. By doing so, the remainder of you is better able to play with new frequencies, time travel and dimension hopping.

By this time next year, your 3D segments will have adapted to new you and there will be little need to feed the shoulds of your 3D world.

But for now, for this year, your new 3D segments are confused and dismayed. They are not certain how they should act – pieces of this holiday season do not seem harmonious. Why are you expected to give money to others during this season and neglect them the remainder of the year? Are you giving gifts, time, energy and money because you should or because you feel joy doing so?

Your new 3D segments are bathed in love. So this ‘hit or miss’ holiday season does not compute for them.

And as the remainder of new you is called back into your 3D being to explain and coach, you are frustrated and not a little angry. The net effect is not necessarily one of joy, but of shoulds and have tos.

Such is not true for all. For indeed, many of you have cut back or cut down on your holiday festivities. Others of you have designated this time to share love.

But to believe that as a loving soul you must give and give, is to revert to 3D thinking – where giving is divine and receiving is selfish.

The new you – including your new 3D segments – wishes to share love.

Even though for some such has always been their holiday experience, many find themselves so exhausted, financially depleted or angry that it is not a season of love, but a season of shoulds. Give. Give. Give.

Few have yet addressed the complete continuum of giving and receiving.

But then, this is most likely your last year of emphasizing giving and ignoring or negating receiving. Claim yourself and your worth. And so you shall more and more with every passing day.

This holiday season is the cap as it were, the closure of 3D shoulds you have accepted for so long. So be it. Amen.

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December 21, 2014 at 9:26 am 17 comments

How Will NEW YOU React This Holiday Season?

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Summary of Brenda’s November 21, 2014 free, 15-minute, channeled “Creation Energies” show at  http://www.BlogTalkRadio.com/brenda-hoffman:  You’ll probably experience less trauma or sadness this holiday season. Perhaps you have experienced headaches, a lack of joy or energy, the last few days. Such is probably part of your transition, just as was true in adolescence when you welcomed your shift to adulthood, but had some emotional/physical shifts to adjust to before becoming a young adult.

The title of last week’s “Brenda’s Blog” – her free, weekly, channeled blog for  www.LifeTapestryCreations.com:  “You’re a Beacon – Not a Rescue Boat”

Brenda’s “Creation Energies” show and “Brenda’s Blog” contain different channeled information.

Dear Ones,

Perhaps you have many memories – both good and bad – of this family holiday season. How will new you react the next few weeks?

Will you wish to be surrounded by those you love? Will you prefer being alone? Will you accept whatever your family or friends wish to create? Or will you create new holiday traditions? All questions pointing to your discomfort with what should or should not happen in your heart during this season. And fears of Christmas or holidays past.

Your society trained you to create feelings you may or may not feel. Love is in the air – love created by society for this season. Even though you are a new being with new beliefs, your societal demanded heart actions are difficult for many of you to ignore.

It is as if the world conspires to insist you open your heart for a few hours of a specific date.

Your heart no longer functions as in the past. You may feel great love for a friend, relative or community based on celebrations. But you could as easily feel little or nothing – and become concerned as a result.

When you review your belief patterns, you most often shift your perceptions to better fit new you. But even new you probably has difficulties switching off expectations or fears when  surrounded by those insisting you experience an activity as dictated.

You are no longer of the norm.

But then, you are not so strongly enmeshed in your new being that you can easily brush aside society’s expectations – including new earth friends. Do not most, no matter what new earth stage they are in, continue to wish you happy holidays, prepare special foods and exchange gifts? Indicating that a day or days of your calendar year – a calendar created by your 3D world – has significance for new you.

Indeed this season might have significance, but somewhat different from the past – including healing or ignoring family wounds, creating new rituals or returning to rituals. You cannot be a new being and observe the same rituals with the same feelings as in the past.

Do not be surprised, confused or angry with yourself if you feel little or nothing. If past rituals seem somewhat boring – or if they have different or more significant meanings. You are a new being with new needs.

Such shifts do not make you a callous or bad person, merely a different person. An entity you are learning to love with your entire being – allowing yourself to be as is right for you this holiday season. Does this mean you might skip a family or friend gathering or be bored with something that once warmed your heart? Yes. You are new you.

Perhaps you will revisit rituals to determine if they are of your new being or pieces you no longer wish to continue.

Allow yourself to experience what your being wishes to experience.

What is right for you? That is what you will experience this holiday season.

Must you share your experiences or feelings with others? Must you tell those ‘not in the know’ how ridiculous celebrating a holiday created by humans, but not necessarily felt by any or all, is? Of course not. This is YOUR new you – not anyone else’s. Perhaps your best friend will find joy in rituals you ignore. Perhaps your heart will open on a specific day given that society is stressing love during this season.

It does not matter what others are or are not feeling. All that matters is you know what you are feel/sense/wish to experience.

Perhaps you will wish to experience something entirely different the next holiday season. Such is well and good. There are no rules in this transition – other than learning to love yourself and to express that love with your beacon of light.

This is an easy transition, if you will. Shoulds are minimal. Love, miss, ignore or deny your earth family if you wish. Ignore, glory in or deny this holiday season.

This season is no longer a societal or religious season, it s a personal season of joy. What gives you joy is your only guidance. Not what the media tells you that you should feel. Or what your culture tells you that you should celebrate. Or how your family dictates your celebrations.

It is your personal holiday season. A season created for you, by you and evolving rapidly as new you becomes dominant in your earth being totality .

How will society react to this rebel in you – if that is how you decide to react this holiday season? It does not matter for all of earth are of new earth. Some shining their beacons of light. Some preparing to shine their beacon. And some refusing or frightened to do so for reasons you may never understand. It does not matter for even though you are one, you have a specific role to play.

Think of yourself as a hair cell and your family a nail cell. Do your toenails fall off when you cut your hair? Or do the two separate cell groupings function as unique entities until your being sends a message to the contrary that affects your entire physical body? So it is that this and all following holiday seasons are unique self-exploration adventuress – no different from selecting a new hairstyle.

Perhaps you are concerned your family or friends will not accept new you. Such might be true – especially during this holiday season. But that is not your concern. For they are not tasked with learning how to love you – you are.

So allow yourself to be in all your totality – most often easier in non-holiday seasons than those days and times of societal expectations. So be it. Amen.

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November 24, 2014 at 11:03 am 20 comments

Welcome Newly Awakened

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Summary of Brenda’s April 26, 2014 free, 15-minute, channeled “Creation Energies” show at  http://www.BlogTalkRadio.com/brenda-hoffman: Those at the forefront are shifting faster and deeper daily. An apt analogy is a pre-cell evolving into a tooth or hair cell – part of the body, but with a unique role. What gives you joy is now your only path. As you evolve in new earth, your joy path may evolve also – just as was true as you became an adult. Each of you, including those newly awakened and those yet to awaken, is an important member of the Universal choir with the perfect voice/vibration for that choir. I’m away from my office until early June and so probably won’t channel additional “Creation Energies” shows until I return.

New “Brenda’s Blog” channels WILL CONTINUE to be posted weekly even though I’m out-of-town.

The title of last week’s “Brenda’s Blog” – her free, weekly, channeled blog for  www.LifeTapestryCreations.com: “It’s Time to Negate Group Think”

Brenda’s “Creation Energies” BlogTalkRadio.com show and “Brenda’s Blog” contain different channeled information.

Dear Ones,

This week’s channel is for the newly awakened who have not yet established who you are or what is happening to you and those around you. Perhaps you are feeling frightened, tired or are reviewing issues you have never reviewed before. All part of your new earth transition.

There are those among you who passed this place months or years ago. Such a statement is not for you to believe they are wiser than you – they are merely different with different roles. The role of these scout masters was to create the path you are now discovering. At some future time, you will deviate from that path, just as those ahead of you are now deviating from the path they created for you.

You are not alone in your fears or your awakening. Those who have gone before can attest that you will find your path to joy and love. But for now –  just as would be true if you were attending a special event – you will wish to cleanse yourself of those pieces that encourage or force you to remain in 3D thought and action, that do not allow you to sparkle.

Eventually, your perceptions will shift. Your inner circle of friends and family will likely change. And your being will experience less pain and much more joy. But that is yet in your future. We are merely holding the carrot out to you much as we did those who already traveled this path.

Many of the scout masters, who discovered and cleared the general path so your experience would be easier and more rapid, are concerned because you do not yet have their wisdom. What they have not thought about is that those of other dimensions will provide those of you newly awakened with information and support, just as was true for them months or years ago.

No one is ever alone.

You who are newly awakened also have easy access to the wealth of information created by scout masters via the Internet, books and other materials.

It is not appropriate for you to expect a teacher from the scout master level. For your first inclination will be to turn to those in your circle who have gone before. And while and though scout masters are familiar with the feelings and experiences you are now having, most likely their path does not include slowing down or stopping to help you.

Perhaps that thought seems a bit cold – and very much unlike your 3D world. For in your 3D world, all SHOULD be willing to help. Shoulds no longer apply. If you encourage those at the forefront to slow down or stop to help you, pieces of this amazing new earth tapestry will not be completed.

You are fully capable of moving through all you wish to move through, as those who went before can attest. They have left vital information not only for you to survive, but to thrive – as they are now starting to do.

Demanding they abandon their new unique path to help you is to move both of you off your paths. For you are starting yours – the general cleansing path all travel before discovering their unique path. They cannot cleanse for you. In truth, they cannot do much for you other than commiserate how uncomfortable you might be. And that memory is fading as they move further into their unique joy path.

You are an important part of new earth, of the Universal tapestry. But before you become a full-fledged Universal being, you must cleanse yourself of your 3D beliefs and pain – just as those who went before you did. They are not your keepers – they are merely path creators. They have completed the role they accepted before birth on earth at this time. Now they are creating the new world that you will inhabit and refine once you complete your cleansing.

Cleansing is not something many enjoy. Think of how uncomfortable your loved dog feels as you attempt to bathe him. 3D cleansing is no more life threatening to you than is true for your dog.

You cannot move into new earth with 3D thoughts and beliefs. So it is that it is time to cleanse yourself – even if you do not want to, even if you are frightened.

You will survive and sparkle more with each personal cleansing knowing – as those who went before knew – you can stop or slow the process at any time.

Perhaps you do not wish to inhabit new earth – then stop the process. Or you feel overwhelmed – slow it down. As was true for those who went before, the process adapts to your being.

This is not a Universal shift you must participate in. But instead a Universal shift that you are welcome to participate in.

Your end-product is a sparkling being of love and joy with fear greatly diminished. And because of the scout masters’ diligence, you will complete your cleansing more quickly and easily than was true for those who went before.

You and those who went before created this New Age. Now you have the same choices they did. For you all completed your major role in this lifetime by creating the New Age.

If you wish to live in that New Age in your current physical body, you will complete your 3D cleansing. If not, we thank you for your participation in the creation of this glorious Age and encourage you not to request assistance from those who have new roles to play. So be it. Amen.

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April 28, 2014 at 8:28 am 23 comments

Holidays – Another Should?

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Special Event: Brenda is a featured guest this week of BlogTalkRadio.com/DoubleDutchRadio – the Netherlands based Internet show of Lucas2012Infos.WordPress.com.

Summary of Brenda’s November 19, 2013 free, 15-minute, channeled “Creation Energies” show at http://www.BlogTalkRadio.com/brenda-hoffman: The goals of last week’s vehicle creation exercise was a reminder that creations aren’t permanent and you can create in whatever medium you wish. Your child-self used to create with freedom and joy. Your adult dreams are often encased in shoulds. Your new assignment is to create in your mind your most joyful Thanksgiving or special day.

The title of last week’s “Brenda’s Blog” – her free, weekly, channeled blog for  http://www.LifeTapestryCreations.com:   “Between Comfort Zones and Fear”

Brenda’s “Creation Energies” BlogTalkRadio.com show and “Brenda’s Blog” contain different channeled information.

Dear Ones,

The media, your community and family encourage you to believe that most, if not all, of your friends, relatives and neighbors are enjoying a loving holiday season, that all is wonderful in their lives.

Such is not the case – but deep within the recesses of your being you feel as if it is. Your belief is that you and you alone are wondering where love and joy is.

Even though you might have moments of joy and love throughout this holiday season, you do not seem to have the level of joy others are displaying.

Perhaps it is difficult for you to decorate, shop and prepare to host or take part in holiday festivities. It is as if you are watching from the outside wondering why you feel little or nothing. Or a dull ache of loneliness as others laugh and party their way to the new year.

Your sense of not fully participating in festivities is more about your transition than loneliness. You have detached from friends and relatives in small and large increments. Somewhat like a being from the outside looking in. Perhaps an old-fashioned snow globe is an apt analogy – the kind you shake so sparkly snow falls upon the little village or house within. Even though you enjoy the effects of the globe, you are not in or of the globe.

Your joy is shifting to different places than the somewhat hollow joy of the traditional holiday season.

Perhaps the phrase, ‘hollow joy’ is not appropriate for you love family gatherings. So you might and so you can. But many of you feel less joy than before, or wished you felt, as you participate in this year’s holiday festivities.

Your Old-Age joy was condensed to a few days near the end of the year and labeled the holiday season. Even though there were other holidays and gatherings, those gatherings were not featured throughout your society as is true for the last few weeks or first few weeks – depending on your country of origin – of the calendar year. According to society myth, anger and fear disappear once the holiday season begins only to be replaced with a loving need to give to others emotionally and physically.

That myth was never accurate for many – and is especially not accurate now.

Perhaps you used to enjoy the holidays. Perhaps they were a respite from family disagreements. Perhaps you were alone and lonely. Perhaps you felt harried and confused. Perhaps you tried to enjoy the holidays for others. Perhaps you enmeshed yourself in the love and joy that seem to permeate your world during this period. You always felt something because your society set an extremely high emotional bar for what you should feel.

You may feel little or nothing this year. You might enjoy the company of family and friends – or not. But most likely, you will not muster the energy of joy, fear, anger or disdain that carried you through previous holiday seasons.

You have not become a zombie, Instead, you are declaring yourself independent of society dictates. You are reclaiming your right to be.

That does not mean you must stop loving during this time or that your love is limited to a day or two a year. But instead, that you are beginning to feel holiday joy throughout the year. No longer do you need to have a few days a year set aside for love. No longer do you need to care for others or to be nice so others can enjoy the holidays.

You are not tied to society shoulds. You are a free agent.

If you wish to share holiday joy, please do so. It is indeed a lovely time of year for many. But do not be pressured into feeling something that is society driven – whether joy, angst or sadness. It is not your holiday season, it is society’s holiday season.

Your new holidays are every day you wish to experience joy. Create festivities that fit your joy, interests and needs.

In the Old Age, joys were limited to a few days to help you remember what joy was – a dictate that was only appropriate if you felt joy. Many of you were depressed or sad because your (society) expectations did not meet your reality.

You can now declare “the king wears no clothes.” That the hype around the holidays may be wonderful for some, but not all. That it is perfectly appropriate to not celebrate the holidays, to do so in a different way or to shift the shoulds to fun.

Holiday shoulds are no different from any other should. They were designed to herd you into a pen of assimilation.

Perhaps you feel this message spoils your holidays. Such is not true. We are merely pointing out that some of you are preparing for the holidays with dread, sadness or feelings of “just more work.” None of which speak to joy.

Why are you not encouraged to feel holiday spirit in March or August? Why are holidays limited to a few days each year?

Of course there are holidays throughout the year with different feelings of joy perpetuated by your society. But because you should feel joy on a specific day does not mean you have to – you can feel loving joy when you wish.

As you distance yourself from your 3D world, you will find it more difficult to feel what society tells you that you should.

Perhaps you are now feeling sadness or loneliness when none is warranted. You are creating a new life of joy not encased in society shoulds – including holidays and other occasions.

You are free to declare joy when you wish. The same is true for sadness. Your new feelings are generated from within you – not society. Review your joy and sadness to discover their origins – society’s or inner-directed?

Do you find it delightful to shop for Christmas gifts on Thanksgiving Day? Then do so. Are you shopping for Christmas gifts on Thanksgiving Day because you are so harried with holiday preparations you need to crunch the holidays together? Then perhaps you wish to review your need to fill society dictates. So be it. Amen.

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November 25, 2013 at 3:17 pm 27 comments

Who are You?

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Summary of Brenda’s May 18, 2013 free, 15-minute, channeled “Creation Energies” show at http://www.BlogTalkRadio.com/brenda-hoffmanI will return to the Creation Energies studio early June.  Perhaps you’re sensing changes in your perceptions for that is the brass ring we alluded to in a recent “Brenda’s Blog”. The exhaustion and energy spurts you’ve recently experienced prepared you for a perception shift to joy. That which you once viewed with fear will be infused with joy. 

The title of last week’s “Brenda’s Blog” – her free, weekly, channeled blog for http://www.LifeTapestryCreations.com: “Finally, a Bit of Sunshine!”

Brenda’s “Creation Energies” BlogTalkRadio.com show and “Brenda’s Blog” contain different channeled materials.

Dear Ones,

The next few days may seem as if you are turned inside out. Not in terms of trauma or pain, but that you are thinking and functioning differently.

Perhaps you anticipated a painful encounter with others only to discover that a veil of sorts has lifted and you no longer fear them or hold a grudge – that you are emotionally in a different place.

Or something that might have triggered a physical reaction such as hay fever no longer affects you the same. Maybe you once needed large doses of allergy medications to counteract pollen. Now you find yourself allergy-free or affected to a lesser degree.

Who are you now? Who indeed?

Are you a new being with new insights and reactions or merely an updated Old Age being? You are both and neither. For the more of your totality you allow within your being, the more unique you become. At the same time, your Old Age persona is not lost – merely augmented by more insights and cellular structures.

Are you the you of yesterday? Yes. Are you the New Age you? Yes. For you added dimensions, actions and beliefs.

Perhaps you fear you will lose the Old Age you, that you will negate friends and relatives who you love dearly. That becoming a true New Age person means you must give up everything – including you.

Such is not the case. Think in terms of computers. Computers add much to your life – yet you remain you with the added ability to better understand and create what you want. So too is it true for the New Age you.

You are not “killing” the Old Age you, merely adding features that help you live in your 3D world – and most certainly help you avoid the veils preventing you from moving to and through other dimensions. You opened another book of knowledge that may change your actions and interactions – but does not need to. Let us explain.

When you graduated from high school, you vowed to remain friends with high school buddies. Only to find that your new life was not that important to them, nor were their new lives that important to you. Even though you think of them with fondness and interact at reunions and community gatherings, they are not the first people you contact in an emergency or joy.

So it is with your New Age life. Perhaps you will  interact with a circle of friends you have known for decades – perhaps not. You will interact with those who help you feel the best possible.

Of course, no one can make you feel better – that is your responsibility. At the same time, there are those who encourage you to bubble with joy, who can play with you without you needing to sift their actions through your emotionally being, who love you for who you are – not who they want you to be.

Then there are those who expect you to fit within a box of their making. “You should do and say this or I will not be happy.” Those are the beings – whether friends, co-workers or relatives – you will opt not to interact with for much, if not all, of the remainder of your life in this lifetime. You know who they are and what they expect. You have changed, but they have not.

Those people shifting into their New Age beings are those with whom you will feel most comfortable.

Does that mean that you will only interact with those verbalizing New Age thought? Not at all.

As is true for those who label themselves Christian or another religion whose actions have little to do with love, some who spout New Age beliefs will feel light, joyous and loving. Others will feel little different from those you interacted with and tried to please in the Old Age.

Labels mean little. It is the feeling that emanates from their being that will be your compass of rightness.

The energies of the past few days helped you discard those outer-directed notions of who you should be and who you should interact with. Replaced with a knowingness that cannot be described in the words we have available.

Your physical being will also have less need to direct your attention to healing whatever aspect you have denied yourself in the past – emotional and/or spiritual – as you move into your inner honesty.

You have transitioned into a completeness – spiritually, emotionally and physically – that will alter your Old Age patterns dramatically, but not negate your Old Age persona. You are greater than – not lessor than as some of you expected when you began shifting your inner-being.

You may wonder if letting go of others is emotionally painful. The more you shift the less you will need to interact with those who wish you to remain as you were before your transition began. But then of course, such is no longer possible.

All that is required of anyone who wishes to connect with you is to accept you with all your marvelous new facets.

Why then, can you not in turn accept them with whatever facets they wish to display? So you will.

It is merely that if they limit their facets to 3D beings of the Old Age, you will have little in common. But if they decide to upgrade their being to whatever dimension beyond the 3rd, they feel most comfortable, you will have more to share – just as is true for those you so dearly loved in high school, but have little in common with now. So be it. Amen

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May 26, 2013 at 2:15 pm 28 comments

Don’t Put Yourself in a New Age Box

Channeled by Brenda Hoffman for www.LifeTapestryCreations.com

Summary of Brenda’s October 21, 2012 free, 15-minute, channeled “Creation Energies” show at www.BlogTalkRadio.com/brenda-hoffman Your core fear – the fear that allowed you to be human – is being explored by you now. Your assignment is to discover that core fear and remove the contract that binds you to it.

The title of last week’s “Brenda’s Blog” – her free, weekly, channeled blog for www.LifeTapestryCreations.com: ”Remove Your Core Fear; Claim Your Super Powers”

Brenda’s “Creation Energies” BlogTalkRadio.com show presents different channeled material than “Brenda’s Blog” even though both might be about a similar topic.

 

Dear Ones,

Your emotions will swirl in the next few days. Some days you will feel as if you are filled with a sparkling substance and you are capable of anything. Other days you will feel as if you never left the third dimension.

All is well.

Perhaps some of you remember your feelings during the birth process. You did not care if you gave birth as long as the pain stopped – yet within seconds you were joyously excited about your baby’s birth. So it will be for you in the next few days.

The emotions you feel will not last for more than a few minutes or days. But they will be erratic and for some, frightening. Not because those emotions are abnormal, but because you thought you had moved beyond them.

You are, in a sense, running your fingers up and down a piano keyboard determining if you prefer high notes, low notes or a combination thereof. Even though every lifetime you lived on earth, you were capable of playing all the notes, at different points in earth history, either high notes/emotions or low notes/emotions were expected by your society. So you granted yourself very little power when selecting the notes most comfortable and right for you. And if you did not hit the correct note of the times, you were likely ostracized, physically injured or thought odd.

Perhaps you want to know if high or low notes are now the notes your should aspire to. Yet another societal thought process. “How should I feel and act in this New Age?”

The New Age is freedom. Freedom from society and even your own rules and beliefs. Many of you will feel anger this week – perhaps for a few moments, hours or even days. And as you do, you will chide yourself for not being a better Lightworker; for not being or doing enough to put those “bad” emotions aside.

All emotions are part of your personal rainbow. In all likelihood, you will eventually feel most comfortable with joy, peace and love. But you cannot know until you test your personal emotions.

We have stated you moved through your fear and pain lessons. And so you have. But those lessons were in relationship to how you “should” act in your society. The emotions you are speeding through in the next few days are your personal emotions. Emotions that have not been dictated by society or “dummied” down by you for whatever reason. They will be raw and free emotions that belong to only you.

Think of the birthing process. Perhaps the new mother in question is a demur, quiet, gentle soul – that is until labor begins. Then her personal pain and fear create a persona her significant other has never seen, nor quite knows how to interact with. So it will be for you.

Not that you will be screaming in pain or raging at others. But that the emotions you feel in the next few days will not be stifled by what you should feel or created by environments that are not of your making.

Many of you believe you should interact with other Lightworkers or Wayshowers. Yet not all Lightworkers or Wayshowers feel comfortable to you. To force yourself to be around them or explore their materials because you feel you should is no different from how you acted in the Old Age.

Your emotions are experiencing a full range of possibilities. Possibilities not tied to your society, or even your expectations – often another cage or limitation. Your emotions are instead like that of a toddler’s, “What happens if I push that or pull this?” You are being born anew.

Allow that freedom, that joy in being. Do not replace the emotional boxes of the Old Age with New Age emotional boxes.

We have stressed that joy will be your ultimate demeanor. That joy is based on your freedom to laugh, cry, be angry and feel sad. You will be joyful because your emotions no longer need to be sifted by society dictates or personal preferences.

New Age freedom is being who you are in all your glory. It is perfectly acceptable to be angry some days or hours. Just as it is perfectly acceptable to laugh out loud and run, skip and jump. Does a toddler not cry when they are angry or upset? Have we not told you on many occasions that you are moving into your second and glorious childhood?

Allow yourself to express what you feel. Allow yourself the freedom to be you.

Some days you may be sad because someone does not wish to play with you. Other days you will be joyously happy because you see the beauty of nature.

But now, some of you are putting yourself in New Age boxes of who and what you should be.

To do so is to ignore and deny the very New Age you are moving into. Anger, fear and pain will not be eliminated from your emotional repertoire – merely less dominant. But such cannot be if you are afraid to feel them because you believe a true Lightworker cannot feel such emotions. All emotions remain in your rainbow, repertoire.

In the next few days you will run your emotional fingers up and down the scales to determine which notes feel most comfortable.

What if anger is your favorite key? Allow that to be. You are feeling comfortable with that emotion for a reason. Perhaps it is part of removing your core fear. Perhaps it is because you have never allowed yourself to truly tap that feeling. Or perhaps you need to do so as a last gasp of something you no longer wish to explore in depth.

Does a two-year-old ask themselves or others if they should feel an emotion? Or are they just themselves in all their “terrible two” glory? So it is for you.

Allow yourself to be, explore and feel what you need to feel. Trust that your inner-being will lead you to the joy of you in all your glory. You truly are a unique person – which cannot possible if you believe you should experience only joy.

You have left the Old Age. Do not place yourself in another box labeled New Age. Explore and glory in yourself – with your full range of emotions. So be it. Amen.

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October 30, 2012 at 9:21 am 29 comments

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