Adjusting to New Inner Workings

Channeled by Brenda Hoffman for Life Tapestry Creations.com.

“Caretaking Exhaustion or Discomfort?” was the title of last week’s “Brenda’s Blog” – her weekly channeled blog for LifeTapestryCreations.com.

Dear Ones,

Perhaps you fear joy can never be prominent in your life, that what you feel now is all there is. You are reverting to 3D fears that are no longer part of your world.

You might also feel lopsided or uncomfortable because you continue to shed what was and are not yet comfortable with what is becoming. It is like upgrading your computer software. Even though you soon adjust to the new capabilities, initially, an upgrade tends to feel unwieldy and uncomfortable.

You are in the awkward stages of adjusting to your new being with all the ramifications such a leap into the new entails. The same is true for all who wish to evolve, so interactions are not as simple or loving as you expect, encouraging feelings of loneliness. And if you live alone, you feel isolated even with your computers, books, nature, and television. You are in the 3D teen stage: “No one understands me, and no one likes me.”

Perhaps this message makes you angry. Where is the joy the Universes dangled in front of you for months or years? When does this shifting stop long enough for you to feel more than a few minutes of joy?

Just as was true for the progression of inner security created with 3D aging, this shift from 3D adult to new you is a process.

You have all the necessary inner workings. It is now a matter of adjusting to those inner shifts.

Some of you will or have adjusted more rapidly than others – as was true when you were a teenager. So some of you feel/seem very much like a new you adult while others struggle to become more mature. Please remember that those who seemed so mature when you struggled with your 3D teen maturity spurt were not that different from you once you fully accessed your personhood. So it is now. This is a short race – not of years or decades, but weeks and months. The earth does not have or need years to evolve, as was true when you were a teen trying to negotiate your entrance into adulthood.

Granted, much of your time before transitioning seemed to be clearing, and your current feelings seem so similar. The difference is that your 3D clearings were about letting go of pieces of your former earth lives that affected your transition. You have transitioned. Now, you are positioning and repositioning your new skills and interests—a task that requires as much energy as your 3D teen shifts.

So you feel as if you are in the midst of a never-ending adjustment, forgetting everything you achieved and worrying that your joy will never return or appear. Like buyer’s remorse after moving from one home to another with thoughts of “I knew where everything was in my former home, and now I can’t find anything” and on and on, comparing your former environment to the new environment that feels all wrong even though it better suites your needs.

You are part of the new, never a comfortable position initially, even though it is growth or a shift for the better. Allow yourself to adjust to this new you, including accepting the learning curve, which is a natural process from the comfortable to the new.

You are in the right place internally, as is everyone who has transitioned. Stop trying to force yourself into joy and out of discomfort or fear. You are evolving not just from one 3D stage to another but from one being to another. Your internal being is no longer your 3D being, as is true for all who have transitioned.

You are trying to find your center and beingness while negating what was.

Even though you might feel you have failed or your struggles to shift the earth and yourself from 3D to beyond have been for naught, you are a new being trying to find your place in a confusing world. Many have transitioned, but there are still a number who remain staunchly in 3D, expecting you and others to support them. This is similar to a younger sibling becoming angry or confused when their older sibling displays teen angst.

Just as was true during your 3D teen angst stage, you do not necessarily understand logically why you need to say, do, or feel something. You just know this is who you are or are becoming. Allow yourself to flow into your new being and allow the same for others – without fear, rancor, or anger. What was is no more. So be it. Amen.

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Caretaking Exhaustion or Discomfort?

Channeled by Brenda Hoffman for Life Tapestry Creations.com.

“Free Falling Into You” was the title of last week’s “Brenda’s Blog” – her weekly channeled blog for LifeTapestryCreations.com.

Dear Ones,

Your life is changing in ways you did not anticipate. You are discovering that you are different than you thought you were or would be. There’s a feeling of rightness, yet it’s sharper than you anticipated. You, the caretaker, are becoming discerning, something you are not used to.

Even though you are changing, those you caretake are not necessarily letting go easily. “I need you” is their cry in words and actions. So, you often feel torn between your former caretaking role and your current need for independence. It is not an easy place to be.

Those who demand you caretake them do so because it is easier than finding their strengths. Of course, there are times when others, including you, need physical caretaking. But those times are much less frequent than you assume.

Isn’t it easier to have someone provide you with what you wish? So it is for those you care for.

That is unless you find the balance that allows you the freedom to be and provides those who demand your caretaking skills with the basics, including the love you feel for them.

Some of you claim you have no ties to or love for the person you are caring for. We of the Universes beg to differ. You would not be in their orbit or frequency if you did not have a heart attachment.

Of course, there are love-based relationships enacted in rage or anger. But at this point in your transition, you would exit any relationship that required pretending to care if you disliked that person.

Some proclaim you continue such a relationship even though you have no love for that being. If this is so, perhaps you need to ask yourself why? Does your love of human life, fear, payback, or similar emotions force you to continue that caretaking role? Or is it fear that you will have to depend on your transition skills to create a new life if you change or exit that relationship?

Caretaking another so they do not need to expand their skills or interests because you provide all they think they need is not helpful for either of you.

This is a time of expansion. Many, if not most, of you, acknowledged new pieces of your being that encouraged you to move forward into a new life. This life does not include caretaking others to the point that you have become their servant, fulfilling their expectations despite abilities they have not yet felt the need to develop.

Of course, you believe you are merely doing what needs to be done. But is that accurate? Do you wake up every morning excited to provide the services to others you have become accustomed to? Or are you discovering that waking up to that regimen is becoming less pleasant and more tedious – even exhausting?

It is time to create a win/win for both of you. If you wish to help that being in love, create the resources that provide the care they need and the freedom you long for.

Implement your new skills. Create an environment that is correct for both of you. Home care? Daycare? Treatment? Education? New environment? Independence?

What will change your relationship from caretaking to independence for you both? Not necessarily from one another, but independence from waking up to a day of caretaking?

What if the person you are caretaking is unwilling to care for themselves? How do you push them out of the nest? The first question must be, “Do you want to push them out of the nest?” At what point are you sacrificing yourself to care for someone who refuses to care for themselves? Why are you doing that? Is it because it feels right, or do you feel you should? And if you think you should caretake that person even if they are not willing or unable to care for themselves, what do you need to create to free yourself from that prison?

You suffered, complained, and worried in the past, most often in silence, because that was how it was supposed to be. Those social rules no longer apply. What could you create to free yourself emotionally and physically from that caretaking burden?

Many of you are now visualizing yourself as a bad person for even thinking of creating enough resources to enable that person you caretake the freedom to be, as well as yourself. If you created a new environment, financial resources, or different emotional ties, would that provide freedom for both of you? Or are you more comfortable than you realize in your current situation?

You have new skills; use them.

You will not be a bad, selfish, or mean person for freeing both of you in whatever way feels most right. Even though his or her life will expand when you do so, the being you are caretaking will fight that freedom because they will have to change. And change, even for the better, is often difficult for humans. For example, if you dread caring for another being, you have forgotten the new creation skills you have not yet used.

Allow yourself to be. The person you are caring for will adjust as necessary – and likely expand their life once you let go of the familiar and expected. So be it. Amen.

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Free Falling Into You

Channeled by Brenda Hoffman for Life Tapestry Creations.com.

“Parallel Before Perpendicular Interactions” was the title of last week’s “Brenda’s Blog” – her weekly channeled blog for LifeTapestryCreations.com.

Dear Ones,

The current energies are disruptive. What was is no more, and what will be is formulating within your being, the earth, and the Universes. It is a time of discomfort. You are becoming increasingly uneasy with the life you once thought you had.

You are no longer sure of friends or others. Nor can you deliberately select an action or reaction without questioning your responses or motives. “Am I a nice person, or do I take advantage of others?” “Does this person really like me, or are they pretending?” “Why aren’t I interested in this activity?”

Your life seems to be a jumble of questions with very few answers.

This eclipse season is more dramatic than most because it is a significant push into your new world – similar to ending schooling and deciding your future.

You have successfully managed many life crossroads in the past few years. Even so, this crossroads is challenging to describe because the issues you are deciding upon are not necessarily of your known world. You are determining if you wish to dance through various frequencies, dimensions, and time frames or if you want to be more earthbound.

You are discovering your canvas of activities. Now that you can access many activities, actions, and interactions, you will limit them to what you can successfully explore in this lifetime, which is not that different from selecting a career path.

Everything in your life is in question: “Do I like this or that being?” Do I want to pursue this activity?” “Do I have enough connection to continue this relationship or activity?” The next few days will be filled with inner questions that will not always seem logical as you move closer to your action path.

Even though you may not have yet acknowledged to yourself that you selected a path, you are now determining the actions, views, and activities that best fulfill your path requirements. For example, chemistry might be an exciting college course, but what you do with that course interest determines more of your direction than the class itself. You might become a scientific journalist, salesperson, instructor, lab worker, physician, dentist, or food inspector or apply that knowledge in numerous other fields.

So it is for you now. You know your path but not how you will express that interest. Everything in your life is in question, including your interests and relationships. But then, the same is true for others. So you will feel nebulous and unsure of yourself and others. And those who do not understand what is happening to themselves or others will be fearful. It is an ambiguous time with an inner knowing that you have to do what you are doing – not understanding why but knowing that certain activities are an inner requirement.

The most uncomfortable part of this phase will be the uncertainty of knowing who you feel comfortable interacting with. Your world will feel uncertain and almost trance-like. This is so because you are jumping between dimensions and frequencies – like a radio station that fades in and out. You might start your day feeling one way and end it wondering why you found certain activities exciting or worth your time.

Inner and outer discomfort will display itself time and time again.

This discomfort will be short-lived and not much more uncomfortable than deciding whether one college class is more interesting than another. During your decision-making process, you will discover pieces of yourself that you did not know existed.

You are more clearly defining your unique path.

This time of personal discoveries has little to do with other beings. You will be floating in and out of dimensions and frequencies while trying to interact with others doing the same. The difference is you are prepared for an exciting time of self-exploration, and others may not be.

Allow yourself to float hither and yon as you discover new interests while jumping between dimensions and frequencies. And allow the same for others. Even though the next few days will be disconcerting, your life will change in exhilarating ways.

Do not fear. You will not explode. You will merely discover who you are becoming by clearly tuning into your new direction with all the ramifications of those discoveries. Do not be ashamed, angry, or try to fit within a particular box. This is free fall at its finest – something you will be an expert at by this time next week. So be it. Amen.

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Parallel Before Perpendicular Interactions

Channeled by Brenda Hoffman for Life Tapestry Creations.com.

“Let Go of Your Safety Net” was the title of last week’s “Brenda’s Blog” – her weekly channeled blog for LifeTapestryCreations.com.

Dear Ones,

The correct answer for you today may not be tomorrow or the day after. You will evolve a bit before you establish sides or the right actions for yourself.

The concepts you are forming now are more similar to the beliefs of a young teen than of a 3D adult. Most often, a teen senses actions or words as either right or wrong with very few gray areas. But this is a time of many gray areas, confusing you and others trying to clarify beliefs.

Perhaps you are part of a political party but are close friends with someone from a different political party. Even though most of what they relay to you is correct and acceptable, there are places neither of you discuss, for their opinions are so different than yours. If you want to maintain contact with that individual, you close off some of your beliefs when you interact with them. If you do not close off some thoughts, you will not accept any of their beliefs despite both of you trying to avoid specific topics.

But now, you are beginning to select friends based on their frequency instead of beliefs. If your friendship was based on their ideas, you would never be able to interact with them despite not discussing specific topics. Their beliefs would resemble painting a big stop sign on their forehead. Instead, you allow a slow sign to be acceptable.

You are maturing into your new being—not all at once, but slowly in your thought processes and rapidly in ours. Instead of basing your interactions on concepts, you are beginning to select friendships and interactions because of similar frequencies – a system you have never before utilized while of the earth.

Some of you declare that romantic love is frequency-based, which is valid to a certain extent – at first. But as the relationship develops, those little inconsistencies that do not agree with your inner thoughts are often the cause of the relationship ending, no matter how attracted you once felt.

Although there are differences, the frequencies between you and those you enjoy interacting with now are so similar that the differences do not matter. That is not to say you will endure a relationship that is not right for you because of specific aspects, but that the differences you discover are not that important to either of you.

These new relationship interactions are different from your 3D actions in many ways. Most importantly, you feel comfortable with a certain being no matter what they verbalize or adhere to when you are not there. You allow differences because their overall being flows with yours. Perhaps not forever, but for now, you are exploring that relationship in joy despite this or that belief.

You are all on unique paths, some of which are parallel to yours and others perpendicular. Those on parallel paths are becoming increasingly acceptable to you. Those on perpendicular paths are still too ‘out there’ for you. Even though you will someday soon, you cannot yet find commonalities with those on a perpendicular path to yours.

Perhaps an analogy would be befriending someone in college who selected a different major than you. Despite that difference, they are an essential part of your life. But once you graduate, you seldom interact with them. That friend with different majors is not terrible; they are merely so different interest-wise that you have little in common.

You are finding new interests and friends because their frequencies are more similar to yours than not. As you mature, differences will become enjoyable because you will allow more gray interest areas into your being. And so it is. Amen.

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Let Go of Your Safety Net

Channeled by Brenda Hoffman for Life Tapestry Creations.com.

“Deep or Quick Cleaning?” was the title of last week’s “Brenda’s Blog” – her weekly channeled blog for LifeTapestryCreations.com.

Dear Ones,

You have mixed emotions – most of which are not cheerful or fun-filled. You feel as if you are slogging uphill day after day. Nothing seems quite right, and you do not have the energy to determine why. You just know waking up is not that interesting or exciting, and going to bed is a relief.

Such is to be expected. You are shedding your former persona minute by minute and creating a new being much different from who you were even a week ago.

As you shed your former being, you discover new elements of yourself and mourn what used to be.

This new being you create minute-by-minute is shape-shifting you in ways you could not have imagined even a week ago. So you feel exhausted, confused, angry, and sad, hoping for a miracle to lighten your inner turmoil. A miracle that never seems to happen—at least not in the past few days or, for some of you, the past few weeks or months. This is because you are holding your transition hostage. “No, not yet. Let me play in my known being a bit longer.”

It is past time to let go and free-fall into your new being.

It does not matter whether you completed this piece or action. Your life as you have known it since you entered the earth in this lifetime is over. Nothing you can do will stop that shift or save the pieces you want. It is over.

Those of you who savor memories for some as yet undetermined need in the future will experience the most significant fears. Because you wish to combine the two worlds, you think you are now balancing. There is no balancing act, magic potion, or wish that will allow you to keep your former life. Your former life is over. So let go and start living.

Perhaps you wonder what letting go and living mean for you. You cannot imagine a world without that person, activity, or memory. Even though your former world is becoming increasingly unpleasant, you cling to the last remaining pieces, hoping against hope you can save that relationship, memory, or interaction. You cling to the very thing drowning you with angst, fear, and often anger.

It is similar to seeing your friends graduate from high school while you are too afraid to leave elementary school. Let go and allow yourself to expand into the wonderful, glorious being you are becoming.

Perhaps you wonder what that last phrase means for you. Emotional discomfort in any part of your being indicates you are holding onto someone or something that no longer serves you, like a high school student who wants a baby rattle.

It is over. Allow yourself to accept that. And then, ever so gently, let go and let yourself live without the angst of what you once thought you wanted or should want. New times create new actions.

But before you can access those thoughts and actions, you must let go of what was. Not just a bit or even partially. Let go and dare to fly without a net. You will not hurt yourself or others, for they are also evolving. Allow them to evolve, and allow the same for yourself.

What was is no more. What is needs to be accepted. And so it is. So be it. Amen.

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Deep or Quick Cleaning?

Channeled by Brenda Hoffman for Life Tapestry Creations.com.

“Your Universal Action Plan” was the title of last week’s “Brenda’s Blog” – her weekly channeled blog for LifeTapestryCreations.com.

Dear Ones,

Perhaps you are tired, or perhaps not. It does not matter because all you dreamed of is coming true whether you are active or sedentary, alone or in a group. You cannot fail, nor can you pretend to do so.

You might question that last comment if your life seems filled with drudgery or emotional pain. You cannot yet comprehend how your life is better or how soon it will improve. It is similar to when you had the flu. You most likely could not remember how you experienced fun and laughter during that illness.

So it is now. Many of you are clearing issues you felt were necessary before jumping on your joy path – issues that were not a Universal requirement but a personal need or wish. Because some of you are perfectionists, you refuse to move into your new home or onto your unique path until your previous home is sparkling clean. It is a matter of deciding if you wish to clean before or after entering your path.

That is not to say those of you sensing your new being are clear of your past personal issues, but instead that you have decided to clear or clean after moving to your new home. This is similar to moving to a house with all you have or clearing out your closets and storage areas before moving.

Once you shift into your new being, you can eliminate extraneous items one by one – the more difficult path – or en masse, just as was true for your 3D home moves. You can either load everything into a garbage container or sort through items individually, establishing piles of items to be retained and boxed accordingly, then packing, throwing, selling, or distributing to charities.

You can choose the labor-intensive route or the quickly discard and leave process – just as you would when you relocated to a new home.

Even though this is not a complicated thought process, the physical process can seem overwhelming. Not because it has to but because of how you approach this shift or event. Are you deciding to review every piece of your 3D lives that affects your new being individually, or are you reviewing the pieces as one? And once that review is complete, how are you discarding your unneeded emotions and reactions?

This is a self-cleaning activity, with times and actions determined by you. It is no longer an en masse project, as has been largely true throughout your transition from 3D until now. So, some of you have become stuck in a quagmire of fear and indecision – should I review items or negate individual item reviews and toss everything that no longer feels comfortable?

For many, it is a confusing decision because you are concerned about tossing something that may be valuable later – a 3D thought process. The new you no longer needs to review items individually because you know deep within your being you can create what you need when you need it.

That is not to say you must approach this process in a specific way but to understand that if you are uncomfortable now, it is likely because you have opted to review instead of toss.

Neither approach is right or wrong. It merely explains why some of you are beginning to experience unexpected joy and others feel uncomfortable or burdened. How you would feel if you reviewed all your household items instead of tossing anything that was not immediately useful? And then, how you would feel if you threw away something you wished you had kept?

This clearing process is an individual choice without any wrong answers, even though it might appear that you should throw everything. For those of you who do not feel comfortable doing so, please know that if you reacted in the seemingly effortless way of just throwing or giving away your unnecessary emotions, sensations, etc., before accepting your new path, you would likely have regrets because those emotions are an important part of your being you wanted to explore just a bit longer.

You are on a unique path without rights or wrongs. So, just as you cannot determine the rightness of someone’s actions or feelings, you cannot pretend to be someone you are not. We of the Universes are merely informing you why you feel as you do.

Your actions are more fitting for you than any we or anyone else could relay. Allow that to be. And then allow yourself to be you in all your glory, whether that means a deep clean or a rapid movement from what was in your being to what is now. So be it. Amen.

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Your Universal Action Plan

Channeled by Brenda Hoffman for Life Tapestry Creations.com.

“Corralling Loved Ones?” was the title of last week’s “Brenda’s Blog” – her weekly channeled blog for LifeTapestryCreations.com.

The weekly “Brenda’s Blog” channel is available as a podcast on Spotify, Google, and iTunes. Access buttons to those podcast sites can be found at LifeTapestryCreations.com.

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Dear Ones,

Given the unique path each of you is creating, it is impossible to be correct in any or all matters. No one can verify your rightness, nor can you verify anyone else’s.

This is confusing because you wish for others to tell you how correct your words and beliefs are – as do others. You are all correct, for consensus is no longer appropriate.

Your new world is not totally chaotic; instead, it allows you to understand that your new or different beliefs are not wrong, nor are the beliefs of others.

To shift from 3D right and wrong, you must explore options that do not always feel comfortable. You are a new being in a new world. Even though you have repeatedly stated that fact to yourself and others, living in this new world is quite confusing at times. This is similar to how infants feel after exiting their Universal home for an Earth life. Nothing that was comfortable is now, and nothing that should be easy seems easy now.

You are discovering new skills, interests, and beliefs. Some are counterintuitive to your former 3D lives – and some are counterintuitive to your former Universal lives.

This is a new Universal view and action plan. You have created your new entity and a never-before-experienced Earth or Universal environment.

Given the newness of your thoughts, beliefs, and actions, you should not be surprised that you feel uncomfortable. What seemed up is now down. And what seemed down is now up. A confusing time indeed. But a confusing time you have the skills to explore and develop.

So slow down. Explore your interests and your options. This is not a life-and-death time; it is merely a time of exploration. Just as was true when you were introduced to Earth, the multitude of times you likely explored Earth life during your 3D research. As an infant, you were so uncomfortable you visited your former Universal lives via sleep. Then, you resorted to crying because you had no other way to communicate. That is, until you adapted to the new environment and accepted language and other skills that could be adjusted according to your physical development and needs.

So it is now. Everything is starting to feel wrong, discordant, uncomfortable, and new. It is not necessarily fun new, but instead, something you have to adapt to and accept according to your interests and physical needs.

At the same time, you are beginning to surprise yourself with your new skills and interests. What seemed like a blah day becomes intriguing. And what seems like an easy, understandable day becomes confused and messy. Nothing is as it was. You are discovering skills you did not know you had, wanted, or knew you needed. Everything is new, including your relationships, physical abilities, and interests.

With a simple rattle, toddlers or infants can be amused for minutes, sometimes hours. So it is for you now. You might become mesmerized by a simple activity or negate something you have loved for decades.

You are new – just as is an Earth newborn. Allow that to be. Then, allow yourself to explore that newness with a fresh demeanor and acceptance of who you are becoming instead of who you once were.

Allow yourself to be. So be it. Amen.

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Corralling Loved Ones?

Channeled by Brenda Hoffman for Life Tapestry Creations.com.

“Let Go, It’s Over” was the title of last week’s “Brenda’s Blog” – her weekly channeled blog for LifeTapestryCreations.com.

The weekly “Brenda’s Blog” channel is available as a podcast on Spotify, Google, and iTunes. Access buttons to those podcast sites can be found at LifeTapestryCreations.com.

Brenda is not affiliated with any YouTube channels.

Dear Ones,

You likely have a need to ensure loved ones also enjoy this new world.

Your loved ones are receiving life support by being in your presence. So there is no need to lecture, cajole, beg, plead, hope for, or any other approach that indicates you are their instructor and they are your pupil.

Your instructor role is over, as is any other approach that slows you down to care for or worry about others. This is a new world, and you are a new being.

As a new being in this new world, you must understand that others are as capable as you. You are not better or worse than anyone. You are you. But you are not them, nor do you want to be. If you had the same needs and interests as others, you would revert to 3D sameness and social control.

This new world requires independence and personal capabilities. If you were to help – or, in reality, push – others in the direction you felt best, you would be directing/pushing them onto your path – not theirs.

Others are as capable as you. Something difficult to remember because, for eons, you have subconsciously known you were an earth angel protecting, herding, and directing others to this new world. That role is over.

It is now the time you feared in 3D of “every man, woman, and child for themselves.” Something you never allowed while of 3D in this or any earth life. Had you acted on that phrase before now, social mores would have placed you in an emotional corral or a correctional facility.

This new world is different in ways you cannot yet imagine, for it is the opposite of what you once expected of the earth and yourself. It cannot be otherwise. Because when you transition from fear to love, the spectrum of your beliefs, activities, and emotions also transition. That is unless you refuse to accept what is new. Something many of you are attempting without success. Attempts that are merely moving you off your chosen path and confusing those you are trying to shift in ways you know are “best” for them.

New world, new thoughts, and new actions.

Perhaps you do not understand that concept because your need to herd others to the right place is so deeply ingrained you do not know you are herding, forcing, encouraging, or trying to help others find YOUR path.

In 3D, there was a clear line between those who were capable and those who were not. The correct action was to herd those not capable into the capable corral. For indeed, it was a corral – “Follow me, and you will be healthy, wealthy, and wise. Struggle to find your own path, and you will be lost.”

You struggled for eons to eradicate that caretaking role, to allow, and more importantly, to encourage others to find their path. Directing others to your path is counterproductive for both of you. More importantly, doing so eradicates the objectives you struggled for eons to help earth beings achieve.

Independence, freedom, and joy are one path. As are dependence, sameness, and fear. Which do you choose for yourself? More importantly, for this message, which do you choose for those you love?

So be it. Amen.

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Let Go, It’s Over

Channeled by Brenda Hoffman for Life Tapestry Creations.com.

“Entering Your New Comfort Zones” was the title of last week’s “Brenda’s Blog” – her weekly channeled blog for LifeTapestryCreations.com.

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Dear Ones,

It’s time to celebrate your new being. Even though there might be a few obstacles to your happiness, those obstacles will rapidly fall by the wayside. You now have a comfortable trajectory to your personal freedom and joy.

There will be times when your concerns might seem overwhelming or frightening. But those times will be far fewer and less threatening than has been true in this life or any other earth life.

This is the life you hoped and prayed for. This is where terrible events shift into minor irritations – perhaps not immediately, but more rapidly than you now imagine.

Yesterday was blanketed in fear. Your earth fears will now be minimal. More like stubbing your toe than breaking your leg.

You have entered a new world of being.

Perhaps you will have difficulties labeling this new life because it is not enmeshed in fear or angst; it merely is. And even though you will probably try to be who you once were for a few more days or weeks, that being is no longer part of your life.

So, you will whine and cry initially because your world is falling apart. Only to dry your tears and open your eyes to what is instead of what was. Your 3D life of pain and fear is over.

You will not fall but become buoyant, knowing deep within that it is over. What once was acceptable is no longer. And what was once fearful is no more.

It is over.

Again, some of you will attempt to hold on to your fears longer. Not because you enjoy being fearful but because that is the earth life you have always known. Being afraid of what could happen instead of what is happening.

Let go. Allow yourself to breathe the fresh air of this new world and your new life.

You have fought yourself and others. You have experienced unimaginable pain. You have saved others from their fears. But it is now over.

Welcome your new being into your life as soon as you are able. Some of you wish to hang onto what was just a bit longer. Similar to hoping someone you love never transitions from earth, even though both you and they know it is time for them to do so. Release your 3D self. It is time for you to shift into your dreams of peace and joy while of the earth in this lifetime.

It is over. So be it. Amen.

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Entering Your New Comfort Zone

Channeled by Brenda Hoffman for Life Tapestry Creations.com.

“Maybe Isn’t an Option” was the title of last week’s “Brenda’s Blog” – her weekly channeled blog for LifeTapestryCreations.com.

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Dear Ones,

Perhaps you feel you know what is suitable for everyone. You will soon discover that varying degrees of sameness are more likely to feel right than everyone voicing the same beliefs. A bit like everyone agreeing on blue instead of all the colors of a rainbow.

You have focussed on one color for eons to no avail – trying to ensure everyone is thinking and acting similarly. Something that seemed comfortable at first, only to discover that you or someone you loved were outliers. ThreeD outliers were pushed into a corral, hoping they would assimilate through sameness – instead of glorying in their differences.

Differences are in. Sameness is yesterday.

Perhaps you believe otherwise. A belief that is or will soon be personally tested. You will want to remain part of a like-minded group, yet you will not want to condone certain concepts even though you might acknowledge their rightness.

In 3D, those who did not think or act similarly to you or, more importantly, to the social rules were either outcasts or forced into the right 3D basket of sameness. A sameness that has shifted throughout Earth’s 3D history. Overriding rules created by leaders, known or unknown. Rules that seemed reasonably suitable for you throughout the ages but never entirely right – unless you made that rule and never changed. So throughout this earth life and many others, you shifted with experiences and age but never deviated much from the dictates of right and wrong.

For example, in ancient Greece and other societies throughout the ages, homosexuality was accepted, even glorified. Today, homosexuality, even though not thought as inappropriate as it was a few decades ago, is still not an accepted norm. So many homosexuals are hesitant to acknowledge their homosexuality to the general population. And the same is true for many beliefs or physical actions. This is in. This is not in.

That sense of rightness is a one-note life. It is time to expand your Universal repertoire to include varying degrees of differences and opposite opinions and actions.

This new world you created is a wondrous array of colors, sounds, actions, and emotions. Emotions and actions that are new or not aligned with what you once thought was correct.

When you allow others to be who they are, you allow the same for yourself.

You have shamed yourself into following the ‘right’ actions and thoughts of others. A shame that you are finally allowing to flow into the Universes to be repurposed into a new society of difference instead of sameness.

Your first thought is likely that it is not possible to live within a society where rules do not apply or are not necessary. How will you know if you are functioning as a social member or a renegade? How will you know right from wrong? Thought processes drummed into you for life after earth life, encouraging you to ignore your inner needs for the greater good of society.

You are beginning to experience the difference between limiting beliefs to what is right within that society – or testing new beliefs that feel right for you but may not be suitable for your partner, friends, or family.

There are no rights or wrongs in terms of your actions or beliefs. An inner adjustment as you discover a new interest and try to ensure that your partner, friend, co-worker, or family member feels the same. Not because this new interest is the end of your search but because you have difficulties believing your new interests or actions are appropriate if no one is thinking or doing as you are.

Sameness, in a sense, is easier than individuality because others help corral you into the proper stance – and you are not alone. Even so, social demands are confusing if your inner messages are contrary to those social dictates.

You are different than Ethan, Richard, Silvan, or Lydia, and rightly so. The ease of, and discomfort of, knowing who you are because you are part of a larger group that dictates to all in that group – is over. So is your inner scream, “That’s not what I want or who I am!”

You are entering a new comfort zone – uniquely yours – as is everyone who transitioned. During these first few days of seeming disharmony, know that a new pattern of self-rightness is developing.

Followers will find themselves less and less attached to the reality of this new world. Those of you who glory in your uniqueness will find social followers boring, repetitive, old-fashioned, and no longer part of your inner repertoire.

If you feel somewhat disconnected from those you love or interact with, you are shifting as you hoped. Those who question their new thoughts and actions will have more difficulties adjusting to this new world.

Allow yourself to flow into self-rightness with your beliefs and actions.

Attempt to follow the wishes, actions, or thoughts of others, and you will feel uncomfortable beyond anything you can imagine – as if you are 18 years old, sitting in a first-grade class, hoping no one notices how different you are from the other first-grade students. So be it. Amen.

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