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Your Creations: Macro to Micro

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Channeled by Brenda Hoffman for LifeTapestryCreations.com

Summary of Brenda’s February 15, 2019, channeled “Creation Energies” show at BlogTalkRadio.com/brenda-hoffman:  Even though you transitioned beyond 3D, your beliefs about creation have not likely changed. If you have dreams – even the same dreams you had when of 3D – those dreams are necessary to fulfill your new role. You’re not taking away from anyone when you create those dreams for others are equally capable of creating their dreams. No longer are your dreams tied to society or Universal needs or actions.

“So, What is Your Role?” is the title of last week’s “Brenda’s Blog” – her weekly channeled blog for LifeTapestryCreations.com.

Brenda’s “Creation Energies” show and “Brenda’s Blog” contain different channeled information.

Dear Ones,

You wish others would tell you how to live your life.

Ah, such a statement makes you angry for you are seemingly uninterested in anyone informing you who you should be.

Yet, in your dream creations, you run hither and yon accepting this and that advice. You do so because you do not believe creation can be as easy as having fun. So it is you have not yet fully claimed your being.

No one can help you find or create your dreams. For those dreams are yours.

It is not wrong to learn the creation techniques of others, merely not productive. For you are then working at something only possible through joy and play.

No matter how closely you follow the creation dictates of others, you will not produce what you wish for you are not them.

Many of you pray or ask us of the Universes for help creating your dreams. We no longer have that power. In your 3D past, we could nudge you to areas necessary to create your dreams as you worked diligently to produce them. A bit like, “Take this bus, instead of this train, and all will be as you wish.”

Now that you are as skilled as most of us of the Universes, we no longer know how or when to nudge you in the direction you wish to go.

Only you know who you are and what will give you the most joy. We are not your wise parents or teachers. We are merely Universal co-creators observing your new skills and actions.

There is no one or nothing stopping you from fulfilling your dreams other than the need to have someone tell you how to do so.

Even though You created the momentum to shift earth and yourselves, you look upon others of either heaven or earth as your creation gurus. Not because you have to, but because you were so indoctrinated in 3D with your seeming lack of skills that you cannot imagine creating what you wish.

If by chance, you follow someone’s techniques for creation, the creations you produce will be tinged with their interests and needs, not yours. A bit like giving a contractor unlimited funds to build your dream house without any directives from you. Such a home would fulfill the contractor’s dream of what is perfect, not yours.

It is time for you to fully claim your creative skills – or phrasing it a bit differently, fully claim your joys.

You are likely bored to read once again that claiming your joy is all that is required for you have been in joy and yet your dreams have not arrived.

You are probably ignoring the little pieces of your life that have become easier as you practice claiming your joy. Perhaps a household project that seemed daunting is easier than expected. Or you have created a more fulfilling relationship with a relative. Or you have won something that produces laughter within you. All practice sessions before you allow yourself to fully jump into the creation game n this lifetime.

Most of you wish for more rapid evolution. By doing so, you are declaring your smaller creations are merely luck and that someone ‘out there’ has the key to expedite your creation process.

Such is not to be for just as was true about learning to love yourself and/or including your new segments into your totality, your creation skills are a learning process.

Many of you feel you have practiced for some time and therefore are fully qualified to be a creator of your greatest dreams. A bit like a 12-year-old not understanding why they cannot drive a car.

You are not a 12-year-old in terms of your creation skills, you are now more like a 16-year-old with a driving permit. Even though you know how to operate the automobile, daily obstacles still produce fear. At 16, you were not ready to drive through heavy traffic with the radio on and friends in the car talking to you. But you were with practice, just as is true for any driver.

You do not need to follow someone’s creation dictates, nor are you an incompetent creator. You are merely in a practice stage feeling your way through your abilities.

You are a creator exceptional – something you are slowly beginning to accept. Not because you shifted earth within one lifetime, but because you are beginning to accept that you did so.

When you accept that piece throughout your being, you will know you can create whatever you wish.

You will also know you no longer wish to be in fear of doing so. For following the dictates of others or believing you must beg the Universes to help you are merely fear maneuvers.

You are a creator exceptional practicing your personal creation skills. Shifting from the macro of transitioning earth to the micro of creating your joy while of the new earth you helped create. So be it. Amen.

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February 18, 2019 at 10:22 am 31 comments

So, What is Your Role?

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Channeled by Brenda Hoffman for LifeTapestryCreations.com

Summary of Brenda’s February 8, 2019, channeled “Creation Energies” show at BlogTalkRadio.com/brenda-hoffman:  You’re talented in many areas – talents you developed throughout the ages. Your role is that which gives you the most joy within those many talents. No one but you can define or give you your role. You cannot fail.

“Followers Want Instant Gratification” is the title of last week’s “Brenda’s Blog” – her weekly channeled blog for LifeTapestryCreations.com.

Brenda’s “Creation Energies” show and “Brenda’s Blog” contain different channeled information.

Dear Ones,

Many of you believe that all is not well in your world. That the fear boogeyman continues to hold the earth in its hands. That you are not in control of your life or your livelihood. That someone outside of you continues to pull strings making you dance to fear.

Even though the Universes have informed you over and over that such is no longer true, you see or sense little information to the contrary. So it is you wait for the earth to change from fear to love so you can understand your role.

What you have neglected to notice is that you are different from before initiating your transition in this lifetime. Likely, you are more self-confident or comfortable with your being than was true previously.

Most of you have attributed those differences to age or your freedoms from certain social interactions such as work, school, or parenting. Your changes are not about a natural relaxing once you no longer need to generate money through paid employment, completing school coursework or relief that your children are now self-sustaining adults.

This channel is about you accepting you without concerns about outside forces. A difficult concept for you to understand because you believe a different job, more money, etc. is all that is required for you to display your full strength.

What you have forgotten is you are evolving from the inside out. Your true being is not attached to your job, financial security, relationships, or parenting skills. You are evolving despite those outside elements.

Hense, you believe little is changing in your world.

Yes, there are many promoting and acting upon 3D fear. But there are more tired of that game but do not yet understand how to unravel the ball of fear they depend upon to tie them to others and more importantly, themselves.

They sense 3D fear is no longer fun or even acceptable, but they do not have the wherewithal to understand what they can do about their new feelings.

It is your role to display your joy of life in whatever form that takes. For that display more than counteracts the fear that is old and tired for the majority of earth beings.

Eons ago at the beginning of this fear phase, finding and displaying fear was fun with thoughts of, “I am a powerful Universal being playing with fear.” Much as many of you watch a scary movie or ski down a steep slope – creating fear playtime if you will.

The difference for most is that fear no longer brings a sense of accomplishment, but instead dread of a continuing soap opera with no end. Even though horror movies continue to be produced and mountains are available for the most adventuresome skier, what most earthlings are starting to crave is a sense of peace and goodwill.

This sense is dormant within most of those with whom you interact waiting to flower given the right soil (allowing them to be) and sunshine (your joy). Your encouragement for all is your ongoing need to be yourself.

So it is you are clamoring for your unique being both in thought and deed.

You are the light beacon of joy as a result of claiming your new being. No matter how diligently you try to hide your power, your being, it squeezes out of every pore of your being. It is that joyful power that others are starting to notice and wish to know more about.

You are not changing earth one person at a time. Instead, you are changing earth by knowing you are powerful and creative.

Accept your power and then allow yourself to display that power. You will not be harmed or scorned as was likely true in past earth lives. For your time has come to be yourself in all your truth – a far more powerful reason to be than any fear of discovery you can imagine or remember.

Come out of your shell for the world is waiting. More importantly, you are waiting for you to become as one in your power and glory.

You are changing the earth and thereby the Universes. You are not a weak entity waiting for the next fear to disturb your being. You are a powerful Universal being who accepted this responsibility to be in all your glory.

Stop pretending you are weak or that you must answer to others. Stop pretending that the rules of past lives or even this life have anything to do with new you. You are a destroyer and creator in one. Destroying the earth of fear and creating a new joyful earth.

Your need to have someone define you is a waste of your time and our time. You define you.

When you discover your joy, you will discover your role. And when others observe that display of joy whether it is a smile or new creation, they too will dare to become. Your role and only role is to follow your joy, and everything else will fall into place.

Most of you believe you must have some grandiose plan of creation to be a viable new you. Which is little different from the old dictate that you are important if you have the right income, job, skin color, sex, etc. All 3D fear control factors that have nothing to do with you.

You are as powerful smiling at a small child as someone who creates a new social environment. The size and weight of your joy has nothing to do with your role or your activities. Such measurements are merely a throwback to 3D better than. Follow your joy, and you will change the world.

If you follow the dictates of fear such as “I’m not good enough or someone might laugh at me,” you are following 3D guidelines in a beyond 3D world. And you are denying the creative skills you have worked eons to hone.

You are not like what you used to be, and neither is the earth. Claim yourself in all your glory through your joys, and you claim your role. Wait for someone to tell you who you are or should be and you return with a thud to 3D being. So be it. Amen.

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February 11, 2019 at 11:31 am 18 comments

Followers Want Instant Gratification

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Channeled by Brenda Hoffman for LifeTapestryCreations.com

Summary of Brenda’s February 1, 2019, channeled “Creation Energies” show at BlogTalkRadio.com/brenda-hoffman:  Just as was true when you were an infant adjusting to 3D, you might find the need to rest the next few days. Such is so because you’re jumping between dimensions to uncover the skills and information you secreted away in preparation for this life’s transition.

“Rest” is the title of last week’s “Brenda’s Blog” – her weekly channeled blog for LifeTapestryCreations.com.

Brenda’s “Creation Energies” show and “Brenda’s Blog” contain different channeled information.

Dear Ones,

This channel is dedicated to those of you who have completed your transition beyond 3D.

Perhaps you wonder if you are among those we salute. You are if you are reading this piece for not everyone will peak or display their light in the same way. Even though you might believe you have not done enough or jumped through enough hoops, as it were, you are beyond 3D.

Such will become more and more evident as the year continues for you will discover how little interest you have in the 3D trials and tribulations. Much as you felt when your younger siblings or friends could not grasp a concept with which you were quite comfortable.

So it is you will not be as upset with the news of the day because you will know that such are displays of those not as mature as you, even though they will be soon. Just as you once counseled your younger siblings that they would eventually do many of the activities of which you were capable.

Of course, those following you want instant gratification just as you have throughout this transition. Such is part of being human in these rapid gratification times. Those following, just as was true for you, want their transition beyond 3D to be complete almost before they start.

Many will look to you for a quick answer wanting you to fix them instead of fixing themselves.

Such will seem almost overwhelming at times for you cannot change them – only they can do so. Something many followers will not be interested in at first. So it is they will put you on a pedestal of an all-knowing, all-wonderful guru much as you once did to those of us of the Universes.

And just as we informed you during your initial transition phases, you will eventually direct them to look within. An activity that seems counter-intuitive in 3D, but is a beyond 3D learned behavior.

You will likely feel elated initially that others think of you as special, as a wonderful teacher only to discover that such adoration becomes tiresome when they are unwilling to look beyond you.

So it is you will discover such adoration stifling and unproductive for them and for you. You cannot help them other than repeating to look within, just as you were taught to do by the Universes.

This new you is not about looking outside of yourself as you have learned throughout these many months or years of shifting. All of your answers are within. And the same is true for those now awakening.

Their whining or fear antics might initially pressure you into playing big brother or sister guiding them through the rough spots just as you wanted us to do for you. But as you learned through trial and error, we were wise enough to allow you to find your way.

Such is so for you now, and for those, you wish to help. You can only provide broad guidelines of, “if you do this, this will happen” just as we did for you. This transition is from the inside out, instead of the outside in as has been true of the earth lessons for eons.

There are no leaders. There are no followers. There are only unique individuals focussed on their role and by so focusing on creating the greater whole that many label as one.

For even though you seemed to function as one in 3D favoring a country, political party, community, or family, you were doing so because of information gathered outside yourself.

Through your wondrous efforts the past few months or years, your actions now are based on your inner voice, not because you have to but because doing such has created your new you freedom. Those following you have not yet achieved that freedom and so will be frightened to make that leap.

Your role is not to walk with them to the other side or beyond 3D, but instead to inform them that they have the skills to do so on their own.

So it is you have shifted your role from a big brother or sister to a wise woman or man allowing those following you to create their path – which has nothing to do with your path. So be it. Amen.

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February 4, 2019 at 10:30 am 27 comments

Rest

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Channeled by Brenda Hoffman for LifeTapestryCreations.com

Summary of Brenda’s January 25, 2019, channeled “Creation Energies” show at BlogTalkRadio.com/brenda-hoffman:  Even though the earth seems more chaotic than ever, your role is not to intervene, to carry others over their rivers of pain. For helping those awakening to ignore their fears does not help them evolve. They must learn how to handle bullies, just as you did.

“You’ve Crossed the Creations Rubicon” is the title of last week’s “Brenda’s Blog” – her weekly channeled blog for LifeTapestryCreations.com.

Brenda’s “Creation Energies” show and “Brenda’s Blog” contain different channeled information.

Dear Ones,

Even though you have shifted many times throughout this transition, never before have you done so in a new physicality as well as with new spiritual and emotional knowing. This shift was more difficult than most for many of you.

Such is merely a reminder that shifts occurring now are not the shifts with which you have become familiar. In the past, you perhaps felt a bit tired, angry or some other sensation you dealt with fairly easily.

The recent energies encouraged forward movement in all parts of your being. Forcing you to concentrate as you never have before. A bit like losing a limb and learning to pick up items or walk with a prosthesis. Cumbersome, uncomfortable, a learning curve – likely words and phrases that would rattle around your being if such were so. And so it is now as you combine all three aspects of your being – including new segments – into a forward movement on your unique path.

The past few days have been your first foray into your unique, individual movement. Even though you perhaps have friends or acquaintances encouraging your forward movement, you no longer have a buddy or buddies linking arms with you on your path.

Perhaps such seems like a lonely endeavor.

Instead, realize how far and fast you have matured into new you. It was just months ago we encouraged you to clear your corners and open your being to new beliefs. Once you did so, you invited your new physicality into your being.

Some of you have noted new food likes and dislikes. Or your interest in being with some, but not others you once thought of as friends. Or that your home or job has lost its sparkle. All indications you are no longer who you were in 3D.

You are moving forward on your unique path with some trepidation. For you are not certain where you are going or if you will be comfortable with your new being. The answers are yes. You will discover why and where you are going – and feel blessed that your new physicality is specifically designed to take you there.

Perhaps you remember myths and fairy tales about someone becoming something or someone they did not expect such as Cinderella, Ulysses, or Sleeping Beauty. All indications that who you were was not adequate, if you will, for your new role.

Your recent internal shifts were dramatic, encouraging you to rest.

A shift that created havoc in the lives of those of you who needed to rest but did not do so. Head colds, sprained appendages, financial upheaval, leaving jobs, homes, or communities with little or no warning – all indicators that rest was necessary but not acknowledged.

Of course, you may feel as if the aforementioned paragraph is a punishment of sorts for not following our pleas for you to rest. We have told you over and over that you no longer have shoulds or orders to contend with. But do realize we knew how confused your inner-being was becoming even though we did not understand the full ramifications of that confusion. We only understood it was such a large shift that rest was likely needed.

So it is we are as surprised as you at the enormous energy bursts you just internalized without begging for mercy or capitulating to the 3D cries for help.

You are indeed strong and capable creators.

But before you could fully accept your new path, you needed to internalize your new physical energies. Which many of you did the past few days despite your discomfort and lack of rest. You did so in the most difficult way possible.

Now allow yourself to rest. For you have jumped through walls of fire recently trying to combine your inner growth spurt with your 3D life. Such no longer works as you discovered in ways you did not necessarily wish to discover.

Many of you now wonder if you made a mistake.

Not at all for you incorporated the new energies exactly as you planned before entering earth in this lifetime. It is just that you did so with more discomfort than was necessary.

If or when you need to take a few days of relaxation in the future, this memory will carry you forward. For you now know how uncomfortable trying to be everything for everyone including yourself is despite messages from yourself to rest.

Allow that to be. And then allow yourself to know that you are evolving rapidly – more rapidly than you or we thought possible.

Even though you are a superhuman creator and you have changed the Universes by your intent and actions, you are a physical being who must honor that physicality as you shift from dimension to dimension.

Know that the next few days will also likely require rest until you are comfortable with your new skills and physicality. Allow that to be. For no one but you will notice you are resting. So be it. Amen.

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January 28, 2019 at 11:22 am 37 comments

The Angst of the Unknown

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Channeled by Brenda Hoffman for LifeTapestryCreations.com

Summary of Brenda’s January 11, 2019, channeled “Creation Energies” show at BlogTalkRadio.com/brenda-hoffman:  Until recently, you cleared fears and welcomed new segments. That phase is complete. You’re now allowing your new skills to come to the forefront without assistance from others. Just as a butterfly knows to innately use its wings, so too are you actualizing your new you skills.

“Easy Creation Route” is the title of last week’s “Brenda’s Blog” – her weekly channeled blog for LifeTapestryCreations.com.

Brenda’s “Creation Energies” show and “Brenda’s Blog” contain different channeled information.

Dear Ones,

Your past 3D fears have been understandable for you either experienced similar fears, or someone else has. Three-D fears were limited to the known. Such is no longer true because you are entering a new life as a new being.

So as you activate your new skills, fears may dominate your being. Not because such is necessary, but because you have no knowledge of your new normal. Everything is new and therefore a bit frightening.

Puberty was a frustrating, fearful time for many despite adults informing you that your erratic emotions and physical changes were to be expected, that all was well in your life.

But no one of the 3D earth is reaffirming your rightness now for you are no longer functioning as either you or they expected.

Of course, that last statement sends a shiver of fear through many forerunners for you are now worried you might grow a tail or act so different as to be ostracised by your community.

Such is not the case. For you know what you need to do to be part of society. The difference is you likely no longer wish to play many of those roles.

Perhaps think of the butterfly as it leaves its cocoon. Do you not suppose that butterfly is a bit frightened when it takes its first flying test run? So it is for you.

Innately, you will activate the skills you created for this transition. But that first attempt to do so will probably seem a bit frightening or awkward for you have no one but us or your transition community to inform you of your rightness.

Your special skills are now coming to the forefront – and they will appear without effort on your part. But as they do, you will wonder if you are normal. Something you have been taught for eons to fight for.

You seldom have if ever relayed your special skills to others while of the earth. So it is you are frightened by the possibility of doing so will set you outside the norm despite your innate knowledge that such is your role.

Of course, you are not necessarily able to look within a butterfly’s thought processes, but we will tell you that at every new stage, the butterfly questions the wisdom of its ways until it initiates the next stage. It is confusing for the butterfly to transition from a caterpillar to cocoon. And equally confusing to leave its cocoon and fly away.

Many of you claim that such is so natural the butterfly does not worry about each transition. Such is true to a certain extent, but as is true for a plant pushing through the soil despite the effort it takes to do so, the butterfly innately knows what it needs to do but not why. So each stage creates confusion and some fear until it is a butterfly.

Such is so for you now. You are likely somewhat confused for you know you are changing, but you have little idea how you will do so. Will you wake up one day with a magic wand in your fingers? Will you feel the need to sit in a cave for years? Will you be the envy of your neighborhood as you create one toy after another?

Who knows? Most certainly not you. And that is your fear. Why does this give me joy and not this? Why am I changing? Why am I not changing? Shouldn’t I be more skilled by now?

So it goes as you shift your fears from 3D memories to forerunner skillsets.

You no longer fully understand yourself, and no one can explain you to you. For the Universes are not as informed as you would like about your new skills. We are more like your parents knowing you will change during puberty but not when or necessarily how. When will my voice deepen? Will my breasts be large, medium, or small? All similar to the questions you have now.

You are evolving emotionally, spiritually, and physically to meet the needs you forerunners created throughout the eons to initiate and complete this transition.

So it is you started this transition more rapidly than we thought possible and you are completing it in the same fashion. It is just that you want the answers today even though no one including you know what those answers are.

Suffice it for you to know you are extremely skilled. You will complete your transition role. And the skills you need to do so will appear when appropriate. So be it. Amen.

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January 14, 2019 at 11:15 am 29 comments

New You Humor

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Channeled by Brenda Hoffman for LifeTapestryCreations.com

Summary of Brenda’s December 28, 2018, channeled “Creation Energies” show at BlogTalkRadio.com/brenda-hoffman:   You’ve left or are leaving your cocoon allowing you to fly where you wish. Just as a caterpillar has different interests than a butterfly, so too do you or will you.

“Are You Compromising Joy?” is the title of last week’s “Brenda’s Blog” – her weekly channeled blog for LifeTapestryCreations.com.

Brenda’s “Creation Energies” show and “Brenda’s Blog” contain different channeled information.

Dear Ones,

You are preparing for a new year and new you.

You believe you are no different than before you initiated your transition. Yet, you have become belligerent when feeling pushed, belittled, or ignored. You also feel more joy than you anticipated mere days ago.

Of course, some of you continue to be mired in your yesterdays – but less than before in both feelings and actions.

So it is you are claiming your new being day by day as your giggles float to the surface and your joy becomes contagious.

Such is not to say you have become fully new you, but instead that you can sense who you are becoming in ways you did not believe possible a few weeks ago. The heaviness you felt since you began this transition seems to be more of a memory than your current reality.

Of course, you can bring painful memories to the forefront if you wish. It is just that you wish to do so less and less. Your painful memories are becoming more like a school subject you did not enjoy and have no current use for than the conscious and subconscious trauma you held onto lifetime after lifetime.

Others are beginning to note your joy and laughter. Not that they have not noted it before, but that you once use joy and laughter to hide some of your true feelings. For your past actions were often coated with unprocessed fears and angst.

Often you used past joy to become someone you were not. Like a comedian who is sad when he or she is not performing. The joy you displayed was likely not true to you but instead was what was expected of you.

Even though some of you have never been the life of the party, you managed to laugh or smile at socially appropriate places. You are now discovering you have little need to smile or laugh unless you feel something is funny to you – no one else.

So it is also for those of you who have been the life of the party. Your joy focus is much more centered on your being instead of pleasing others.

Perhaps you know people who brought joy to others just by their comments or actions. Yet, those people most often functioned in 3D as others expected – almost as unpaid comedians.

So it is those unpaid comedians and those of you who smiled and laughed because you thought you should are declaring freedom from those limitations.

New freedoms that are creating true joy within you instead of needing to make others laugh – or a need to smile at the socially acceptable places. Of course, such does not seem that difficult until you test it as many of you have been for months.

You have changed your humor self in ways you did not anticipate a few months ago. Those people who make fun of you in a supposed loving way, are no longer funny. And those who make fun of others in the same fashion are less than funny to new you.

Granted, you have a sense of humor, but it is a new sense of humor that has little to do with 3D you or others. Humor in the past was often about making fun of others or you. About encouraging the disparaging remarks that passed for humor in a fear-based world.

It is no different if humor is based on disparaging you, another being or a grouping for all is about trying to make someone feel less than they are.

So it is you have crossed the humor bridge without pain or fear. For you now find yourself telling others that something is not funny or leaving the scene despite what others think or say about you doing so.

You are stronger and wiser than was true just weeks ago.

You are approaching your new year with a different being that seemingly slipped into your physical body without your knowledge.

In truth, you fought for your new being ‘tooth and nail’ despite your seeming ease of doing so.

You are no longer of 3D.

Your greatest proof of that last statement is you have altered your being without fists, guns, or other fear producing actions. You merely decided what you will or will not accept.

So it is you are the beacon of hope and love for those who wish to follow. For you are discovering that new you is more than enough to be of heaven and earth. That true you in all your wisdom is enough.

You do not need to learn how to function in any society – including the one you are currently in. You are you and that knowledge is all you need now and forevermore. So be it. Amen.

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December 31, 2018 at 9:51 am 37 comments

Are You Compromising Joy?

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Channeled by Brenda Hoffman for LifeTapestryCreations.com

Summary of Brenda’s December 20, 2018, channeled “Creation Energies” show at BlogTalkRadio.com/brenda-hoffman:  Many of you feel you’re not developing your 5D skills as rapidly as you should – much as was true during puberty. You’ll develop at the correct rate and time for you. Your holidays may feel less exciting than in the past. Such is so because you’re more interested in your new actions and skills.

“Rest” is the title of last week’s “Brenda’s Blog” – her weekly channeled blog for LifeTapestryCreations.com.

Brenda’s “Creation Energies” show and “Brenda’s Blog” contain different channeled information.

Dear Ones,

You have likely discovered that despite your best attempts, you are feeling somewhat burdened by the holiday activities. Such is so because you are not only fulfilling 3D commitments, you are also allowing, even encouraging new skills and directions within you.

What you are not yet aware of is that you are also likely to feel more joy than expected throughout the next few days. Such is so because you have climbed and conquered the mountain of guilt, shame, lack of self-love, and fear that was your 3D being lifetime after lifetime. Instead of wishing and hoping, you are beginning to feel the need to change, to create experiences that better meet your inner needs.

Even though you have prepared for months, years, even decades, it was only recently you allowed your inner-being to direct you. For you believed lifetime after lifetime that your directives were dependent on those wiser or wealthier than you.

Such is not to say you are completely free of 3D dictates, but that you question far beyond what you ever have. No longer are you willing to appease someone at your expense – emotionally or physically.

You are ready to create your new life. A life which may include those you now hold dear – or not. You are a new being in a new physical body.

Perhaps such a declaration does not seem that important now. But as you adjust to new you with new needs, you will understand what we are speaking of. For this need to create a new life is little different from what was true when we suggested you explore self-love.

The 3-D phrase of self-love held little meaning for you until you started living in self-love.

So it is for your creations. Your first creative wishes were perhaps of items that would propel you forward in your societal domain – a new car, home, bigger television, etc. That is until you began questioning the need of others to discount, ignore, blame, or shame you.

Instead of accepting “browbeating” as part of your expected life, you felt the need to talk back, respond, deflect, ignore, or leave.

So it is now. You are shifting from pleasing everyone to knowing that before you can truly please anyone, you must please yourself. For your happiness, your joy is your light. Such is so because more and more beings of the earth are tired of the moodiness, anger, physical violence, betrayal, arrogance, and all other pieces that encourage anyone to feel less than they are.

Others will begin to question your joy.

Even if you have not yet pinpointed where your joy originates, you will soon enough. For your joy is dependent on your freedom of thought and action. As you allow those pieces to flow, so will your joy expand through and around you.

You are your own guru means that no one but you can make you sad or happy.

As you claim the energies now pummeling earth, you will decide sadness is no longer your friend. And that despite others’ tales of fear and anger, such is their choice, not yours.

Until now, you have felt the need to sense and then respond to fears and anger, pushing aside your joys in compliance with the woes of others. “How can I be joyful if my friend is suffering?”

Instead of accepting that your joy is a more important healing tool than sympathetic woes can ever be, you compromised your joy to meet the needs of others.

If everyone creates their life – and they do – why do you need to play their game instead of yours? Is it not more fun to play than to cry?

As a child, your best friend was most often someone fun to play and talk with. So it is now only in reverse. For you are in a new role in a new time.

Perhaps those friends and family who continue to feel the need for fear and pain will wish to be with you – or not. That is not your decision – it is theirs. Just as you are now declaring your freedom from fear.

Many of you wonder what you should do or say to those with physical ailments or emotional stresses. What do you wish to say? Do you wish to console them? Exit from the relationship or help repair them emotionally or physically?

The only choice you no longer have is to try to make them whole at your expense.

For you are no longer willing to placate, coddle, or take care of them if they are not willing to care for themselves.  Such will be your deciding factor. If they wish you to deny your truth to take care of them because they are too afraid, too lazy or too stuck in fear to do so for themselves, you will not be interested in furthering that relationship.

Some of you worry that such a statement indicates new you is selfish and unsocial. The opposite is true for you are claiming yourself in a new joy environment. Something you have planned for and dedicated yourself to for eons.

You are free and so is everyone.

How often do you expect others to take care of you? Most likely, you – because of your strengths – have been the designated caretaker for many of those you hold in your heart. But doing so is no different from a parent protecting their child from all pain and then suddenly thrusting them into the world expecting them to function in a world filled with fear and failure.

You forerunners are the joyful guides of those who wish to follow. Commiserating and taking care of their pain does not help you – and most certainly creates fear in them as they realize they cannot be like you. For they will continue to hold 3D fears without knowledge of how to eradicate or complete their clearing process as you needed to do before you discovered self-love.

You are not selfish or fearful. You are the joy example that will only strengthen as you declare your freedom to be and the same for all. So be it. Amen.

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