This Isn’t Who I Am, Is It?

Channeled by Brenda Hoffman for Life Tapestry Creations.com My weekly “Brenda’s Blog” channel is now available at Spotify Podcasts (Welcome to Brenda’s Blog – Brenda Hoffman), Google Podcasts (Brenda’s Blog), Pocket Casts, Radio Public, Anchor Podcasts, and Breaker Podcasts. “Pulling Up Your Significant Other” is the title of last week’s “Brenda’s Blog” – her weekly channeled blog for Life Tapestry Creations.com. Dear Ones, Your need to be right is popping up in the most unusual places. You have worked diligently for months or even decades to create a special light. Even so, others are pooh-poohing the results of those difficult transition tasks. As if your beliefs and actions have little value. So it is many of you are confused about your current beliefs and actions. Were those actions valid or merely an unrealistic dream state with little value or need? Perhaps those actions include ignoring friends or other parts of your world that seem unpleasant. Even though you wish to feel you are one with all, the decisions and actions of others feel wrong. How can that be if you are moving to love and away from fear? You are most comfortable in a world of consensus – not necessarily of the entire globe, but within your friendships, communities, families, and countries. What is occurring is a division of 3D consensus and the creation of new concepts you are not yet comfortable with. How can you ever be one with others who do not believe or act as you do? Yet, some of those you have written off are returning to your circle in ways you did not expect. This is a confusing time. Your new world is no longer linear.  Circular is your new action word – and soon-to-be, belief. Even though that which was is no more, this new is different than you expected. In 3D, once you negated someone for whatever reason, that tie most often remained broken. You are discovering what once was is no more. So it is, you might return to friends you thought you would never interact with again – or not. Your new world has very few clear divisions. The deciding factors of yesterday are no more. Your actions and beliefs change daily. So it is, you are flitting from belief to belief, action to action, and thought to thought. In 3D, clear-cut delineations were necessary to promote community thought. You are in a new place in a new time, discovering that nothing is clear regarding who you are or what you believe. That last concept is frightening because you are not used to the freedom of thought and action while of the earth. You are now exploring new frequencies, dimensions, beliefs, and actions in Universal terms – as has been true since you were conceived eons ago. But when you were of 3D earth, you limited your thoughts and actions to fit within the accepted parameters established by others to create a 3D cohesiveness. That 3D cohesiveness no longer exists. So it is you are now exploring options you explored while not of the earth. As you do so, you are discovering new possibilities, and for now, new fears. It is as if your personal world is exploding with ideas, actions, and interactions. Yet, your 3D world seems the same. You continue to be angry at some actions of others. But that anger is dissipating as you move into new places and worlds. And as you do so, you surprise yourself with new thoughts, dreams, actions, and needs. Your need to be at one with others is no longer that important. Yet, your days and thoughts are full. Even though there is no longer enough time in your day to do all you wish, you do not seem to be doing that much. Your new world is topsy-turvy. What once gave you joy likely does not any longer. What was once boring likely is no longer. And those you decided you no longer wished to interact with seem to have changed – or not. It is almost as if you have become what many label a “walk-in.” You are a completely new being, learning more about yourself daily. Many of those new pieces are confusing, for they feel right, even though they are counterintuitive to your former logic. “This isn’t who I am, is it?” seems to be part of your new being. Adding and subtracting activities and thoughts – second by second. “Who am I?” was your refrain after you left 3D. A refrain that is becoming louder and louder. You are surprised but not displeased with your new being. For you are likely calmer and more peaceful in your actions and thoughts. That which once frightened you seems to be further away, including people, places, and things. You are more comfortable letting others fret and become angry, for you no longer feel much need to do so. You find yourself ignoring uncomfortable pieces and perhaps encouraging your loved ones to do the same. There is little need for you to jump into any angry conversation or action. You are more comfortable doing not much of anything than forcing yourself to be something, as was true in 3D. “This is who I am, and I don’t feel much need to project anything else.” A new refrain that is surprising you as much as anyone. When you are bored, you act upon it. And when you are excited, you do the same. All your 3D stops are being removed. And as that is happening, you question yourself. Not because you are uncomfortable, but because new you is different than 3D you – or how you expected to be in this new world. You assumed flitting from interest to interest meant you would join a creative group here and a community group there. Instead, you are discovering you feel like doing less than before your transition. Everything seems like too much, likely including your job, cooking, driving here and there, or meeting friends. As if your world has stopped, instead of revving up to a new level. You are exploring and flitting from place to place – either within yourself or physically. Just not as you expected. In the future, your flitting might be more outward than inward, as is true now. But it does not matter. There are no rules. Just as there are no Universal rules of what you need to explore when you are not of 3D earth. Allow yourself to float, act, talk, and be, just as you allow an infant to do so as they explore their new world. You are doing the same in a new Universal being while of the new earth. The earth you helped shift from fear to personal freedom in joy and love. So it is you are creating a new Universal being while of the earth in this lifetime. So be it. Amen. LifeTapestryCreations.com. To receive Brenda’s Blog, subscribe via WordPress.com. Or, click the Subscribe Button on the upper part of her “Blog & Subscribe” website page (LifeTapestryCreations.com), and click the – Subscribe to Brenda’s Blog by E-mail – line. Complete your subscription by entering your e-mail address and accepting the e-mail confirmation.  Copyright 2009-2021, Brenda Hoffman. All rights reserved. Feel free to share this content with others, post on your blog, add it to your newsletter, etc. But please maintain this blog’s integrity by including the author/channel’s name: Brenda Hoffman, and source website link: LifeTapestryCreations.com.

Pulling Up Your Significant Other

Channeled by Brenda Hoffman for Life Tapestry Creations.com My weekly “Brenda’s Blog” channel is now available at Spotify Podcasts (Welcome to Brenda’s Blog – Brenda Hoffman), Google Podcasts (Brenda’s Blog), Pocket Casts, Radio Public, Anchor Podcasts, and Breaker Podcasts. “New You Development is Subtle and Gentle” is the title of last week’s “Brenda’s Blog” – her weekly channeled blog for Life Tapestry Creations.com. Dear Ones, Likely, your significant other is not at the same frequency or emotional place as you for several reasons, including their need to help you understand how far you have evolved. They are not you, yet they encouraged you to become new you.  Perhaps that last statement seems convoluted, for you do not yet understand their role in supporting you. Part of that role was encouraging you to caretake them emotionally until you understood that some of those interactions were not healthy. So it is you are aware of their supposed failings. Yet, they created those issues to help you move further into your new you role. In a sense, they gave you a leg up to the higher levels of your being.  It is now your turn to pull them up when they are ready to shift beyond 3D or 4D. If you feel content despite misgivings about your partner’s caretaker roles or other interactions that indicate they are not yet functioning at the 5D level, there is a reason you are with them. You two created an agreement that you would move up the frequency ladder with their help. And once you achieved a certain level, your energy would help them achieve the same or something similar. There are no accidents. It is likely your partner has somewhat different interests than you and always has. Despite that difference, their being comforts you in ways you cannot describe. You two were meant to help one another – likely, because of an agreement before birth in this lifetime. And after many interactions in other times and places. You agreed to evolve more rapidly than them with their support. And they agreed to wait until you felt emotionally strong enough to support them once they were ready to move beyond 3D. Many of you are now discovering your partner is changing rapidly. Do you remember when you first discovered that former friends and relatives were irritating or no longer interesting enough to interact with? And how often, we, of the Universes, had to support you as you tested and were often frightened by those new feelings? So it is now for your significant other. Your significant other does not understand why the waves of love they once felt for a certain friend or relative no longer happen. Or that they are irritated by that friend or relative. Change is almost always uncomfortable for humans – and most definitely for 3D humans. So your partner fears that a certain person no longer loves them. Of course, you, the more advanced partner, know that the individual or individuals in question likely never created a true emotional bond with your significant other. Such was also true for you, as you discovered some time ago. Once the 3D niceness, caretaking, and pretenses were removed from those relationships, some of your previous interactions held little for you. So it is now for your significant other. The difference is you only had us, of the Universes, to fret to, for it initially felt so wrong for you to disconnect from those you once cared for or loved. So it is now for your significant other.  Your role in this piece of their transition is to love them, which is their step up to the next transition level. They are not alone, for you are with them. Just as they once performed the same role for you. By providing love for your significant other, you are doing more for this global transition than you thought possible. Your significant other will encourage others to jump to the next frequency level. Or to remain where they are and find another 3D being to replace your significant other. So it will go until the earth is much more heavily populated with those beyond 3D than those who refuse to step up to the next level.  This transition is no longer a game. It is a life-changing time for all as those once close to you either evolve or remain where they are in 3D. Something you experienced time and again throughout your transition. The same is now likely happening to your significant other. If you continue to be content and peaceful with your significant other relationship, you will offer them the step up you two agreed upon before birth in this lifetime.  Your significant other also achieved skill after skill preparing for this particular life. It was merely a coin toss as to which of you two would transition first. Your significant other is now likely indicating they are ready for you to pull them up to the next step. Even though some of you might eventually flit to different relationships, now all is as it should be, including your relationship with your significant other. So be it. Amen. LifeTapestryCreations.com. To receive Brenda’s Blog, subscribe via WordPress.com. Or, click the Subscribe Button on the upper part of her “Blog & Subscribe” website page (LifeTapestryCreations.com), and click the – Subscribe to Brenda’s Blog by E-mail – line. Complete your subscription by entering your e-mail address and accepting the e-mail confirmation.  Copyright 2009-2021, Brenda Hoffman. All rights reserved. Feel free to share this content with others, post on your blog, add it to your newsletter, etc. But please maintain this blog’s integrity by including the author/channel’s name: Brenda Hoffman, and source website link: LifeTapestryCreations.com.

 

New You Development is Subtle and Gentle

Channeled by Brenda Hoffman for Life Tapestry Creations.com

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“That Part of Your Life is Over” is the title of last week’s “Brenda’s Blog” – her weekly channeled blog for Life Tapestry Creations.com.

Dear Ones,

You have a need to be perfect, to be immediately clear of all impediments to new you.

Becoming new you is a process, not an overnight activity.

You will clear or shift when you need to do so. Even though a toddler wants to be as skilled as their older sibling, such is impossible until they develop the necessary skills. Or, it may never be possible because the toddler and their older sibling are different entities.

Many of your new skills need to be developed further before they can be actualized.

Do you remember having interests as a child that evolved into adult 3D interests or your career? So it is now. Each interest might seem minimal until it is attached to a new skill set or idea.

Allow yourself to flow into your new you without fear, shoulds, or have tos.

Even though you might revert to 3D fears or compulsions because that is your former comfort zone, you have completed the difficult work of exiting your 3D being. Just as many 3D infants, toddlers, and young children reverted to their Universal knowledge through invisible friends and other indicators until they became so enmeshed in 3D life they forgot their Universal accesses.

The reverse is now happening to you. You are rapidly forgetting or ignoring your 3D knowingness. As you do so, some pieces might come to the surface, just as the wind might create choppy lake waves.

If choppy waves arrive for you, address them as you wish, knowing your waves will soon be light and airy again.

You no longer require an earth life to explore a specific fear as you did in 3D. This is a new world. And in this new world, you address, function, react to or create as you wish. Do you wish to address the choppy waves? Do so. Do you wish to wait until the waves recede? Do so. Do you wish to ignore the choppy waves and continue moving forward? Do so.

This is not your parents’ world. You are a new being in a new world. Exploring this and creating that – when you wish. Even though you are an infant new being learning new skills, this is not months or years-long process.

You are a wondrous being in a new world. Skills will become apparent when you are ready to use them, just as answers will become apparent when you are ready to access them.

As you flit from one interest to another, you will automatically achieve the skills you want when you need them.

Universal skills are about ease and grace. Three-D skills are based on fear and punishment.

Likely, you repeated a 3D fear in 3D life after life to ensure you were no longer tied to that fear. Think of yourself now as a honey bee flitting from interest to interest, gathering sweet honey here and there.

Many of you claim that you remain in your cocoon. We, of the Universes, beg to differ.

Even though it appears as if nothing much has changed in your life, you have not been in a cocoon for several weeks. Think back to those pieces that indicated something was changing. Perhaps a new memory, a fogginess of being, interacting with new people or animals, or finding little need to do what you once found productive.

Thousands of little pieces that indicate you are no longer in a cocoon state. What you have not acknowledged is you are in the midst of a new norm, despite a disinterest in leaving your home, community, or any indicator you have created to believe you remain in a cocoon.

You are in a new place, expanding your horizons. Perhaps not as you once did in 3D, but most certainly as a new being.

Even though an infant smiling or picking up a rattle is considered growth, you admonish yourself despite your amazing growth the past few weeks. Some of you are merely creating or utilizing less visible skills. 

You still measure your growth in 3D terms – loud and brash. New you is subtle and gentle. So it is new you has arrived in ways best for your peace and contentment.

Will your current life change? Most decidedly so. Just as a 3D newborn becomes a toddler, teen, and adult. 

The difference is, your new you expansion is soft and gentle, just as is true for Universal life. So be it. Amen.

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That Part of Your Earth Life is Over

Channeled by Brenda Hoffman for Life Tapestry Creations.com

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“Listen. Your Heart is Talking” is the title of last week’s “Brenda’s Blog” – her weekly channeled blog for Life Tapestry Creations.com.

Dear Ones,

Most of you are afraid of the impending doom images that play in your mind. “If this happens, surely that more terrible thing will happen.” Yet, the next day, you likely have a different image tickling your mind and imploding your being with fear.

Those fear factors are merely carry-overs from your 3D doom and gloom that played out in 3D life after 3D life. Three-D memories not only coming to the forefront for clearing but memories fighting to remain part of your being.

You did such an amazing job of fitting within the 3D boxes of fear that were your 3D lives that you are having difficulties discarding those boxes. What you have not yet accepted, despite your inner-knowingness, is that you are in a different world.

It is as if after being hungry in your childhood, you continue to worry you will not have enough food despite inheriting millions of dollars.

This is a new world and a new day. Claim yourself – as well as your inner and outer riches.

You might be fearful, but those fear pieces will drop away if you allow them to. 

Stop holding onto fear.

Fear that is merely the ghost of your 3D past.

Granted, not everyone is allowing themselves to move into this new world. Such is neither here nor there for you are a forerunner. You helped create this new world. Now allow yourself to live in it.

No harm will come to you unless you want it to.

You are free and safe. You are a new being in a new world. 

You might not feel a need to do or be anything now or forever, other than laying in a hammock reading a book. That is not sinful or wrong. It is merely you. Know that whatever feels right in your heart is your role.

No longer do shoulds and fear rule your life as has been true for eons. And no longer are you in competition with anyone. You are you.

The most confusing pieces for you now are your interactions with others who live in the 3D realm of shoulds and have tos. Even though the number of 3D inhabitants is reduced daily, you forerunners have lived in 3D most of your current life. So you easily slip into your fear or even anger based on fears that this or that will happen because it has been so for eons. 

The difference now is if you do slip into 3D, your discomfort will force you out of that box almost immediately. When you first initiated your transition, it was much easier to be of 3D than was true of the evolving elements of new you. You had to work to create space for your new you elements.

Now that new you is fully formed, you question your power and readiness to accept that power. You feel like you must have at least one more hoop to jump through before you can be new you.

You are complete. You are whole. Even though you will mature within your new being, you have all the elements necessary to follow your heart instead of your fearful mind.

Perhaps it will help you better understand that last thought if you imagine initiating your transition as a single cell. During this evolutionary process, you became an embryo, and finally, a fully formed infant recently birthed. That recently birthed infant is new you adjusting to your new life and skillset. 

You are discovering your new skills in a new world. And as you do so, you discount those 3D skills and interests that no longer serve you – the you of yesterday.

This is your new dawn.

Perhaps you feel silly, unworthy, or afraid of your new life. For it does not yet resonate as did your 3D life filled with shoulds, have tos, and much fear of “What if this happens?”

Your new world is about, “When should I create this or experience that?” Without guilt or fear of repercussions. 

It is time to acknowledge to yourself and the world that you are not who you were. And a large part of that acknowledgment is the word, “No.”

“No, I don’t want to do that.” “No, I’m not afraid that will happen.” “No, my life is no longer designed to serve you.”

It is time to add a new yes. “Yes, all is wonderfully well in my world because I’m in control of what I want to experience – quiet, party-time, contentment, activity, or nothing.” 

There are no social rules or dictates from others that will satisfy you in your new world. “This is what I want, and I will focus on that need or want until it materializes.” Just as an infant learns to cry when it is hungry or needs a diaper change – until it gathers enough skills to feed and clothe itself.

The difference is new you does not require years or necessarily, even months to mature. You are new you in all your glory. It is time for you to accept that fact, that truth.

Just as a baby cannot return to the womb no matter how much they might want to, you cannot return to 3D without an immediate physical or emotional reminder that you are no longer of 3D.

You have been birthed into new you with all the wonderful peace, contentment, and creativity that entails. You merely need to accept that fact – as well as physical or emotional discomfort if you try to solve issues with your mind instead of your heart.

Allow yourself to grow. Negate those thoughts that make you uncomfortable or fearful. That part of your earth life is over. So be it. Amen.

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