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Have You Discovered Your Happy Pill?

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Summary of Brenda’s October 28, 2016, channeled, 15-minute “Creation Energies” show at    All parts of the earth seem and are chaotic now. To move you and all beyond that chaos, center yourself by asking yourself how best to do so. Even though you’re part of the whole, you’re a unique individual you must honor and love knowing that doing so will create the earth harmony for which you pine. Loving yourself is the only way to reduce the earth chaos for you and all.

“Believe in Yourself” is the title of this week’s “Brenda’s Blog” – her weekly, channeled blog for

Brenda’s “Creation Energies” show and “Brenda’s Blog” contain different channeled information.

Dear Ones,

This is a week of wonderment. For that which you once knew, you will know no more. Even though that phrase might seem ominous, the exact opposite is true.

You have long pined for a sense of joy – not only within yourself but throughout the earth. So it is that the next few days will provide an opening, if you will, to that joy.

Some of you refuse to believe that such is possible. That wars will not disappear overnight, nor will opposing views be resolved with so little effort. But that belief is only true in the heavy 3D you lived within for eons.

In the United States, people seem to be at opposite ends of agreement. And many are concerned that this week’s presidential election will dramatize that opposition. Such will be so for those who continue to hold onto 3D drama and fear.

For those of you beyond 3D, the election will have little effect on your life or your livelihood. And so it is also for those in other parts of the globe where opposition, or more to the point, fear continues to reign.

How many of you have been directly impacted by the perils and fears promoted via your media and other means of communication? If you were impacted, was your life threatened or the lives of those you love?

The greatest fear of earth humans for eons has been personal death or death of a loved one. As an example, does not the coverage following a horrendous natural or human event always include the survivors exclaiming how lucky they were not to have been killed?

Many of you beg to differ countering with you do not have money to pay your bills, you do not like your job, or your relationship is dissolving, and there is nothing you can do about it.

There is always something you can do about anything. You have choices. Your greatest fear is not the loss of money or a relationship; your greatest fear is that you will lose your life – whether emotionally or physically in the process.

This is a somewhat difficult piece for many of you to absorb now for you have so deeply hidden the fear of death that you cannot yet quite grasp that such is your deepest earth fear. And you have not yet internalized the knowingness that you do not die, but merely transition into another form.

But then, for some of you, transitioning is as fearful as earth death. For you are enjoying this life or at least pieces of this life and you do not wish to jump into a new form without knowledge of what that form will take and what it will mean.

Will you become a sparkle in someone’s eye? Will you become a nebulous ether form? Will you hover around your loved ones? Will you even care about your earth loved ones?

In essence, you are fearful of earth death, the last unknown. For you know within you that you always have choices while of earth. You have the support of others and your inner-being to leave or adjust to those pieces that are uncomfortable – or unbearable. But there is no knowingness, nor seeming choice if you purposively remove yourself from earth.

We will repeat, purposively remove yourself from earth. For whether you are killed or kill yourself, it is a purposeful action. You cannot remove yourself from the earth without doing so knowingly. Of course, such is extremely difficult for those of the earth to accept for why would your loved ones leave you?

So it is that you rage at those – and that is the correct word – who have left you and you remain too frightened of the unknown to consciously leave earth.

Such is not to chide you, but to remind you that there is nothing to fear about death and if it were the right time for you to remove yourself from earth, you would do so easily and with little regret.

Some of you have been with loved ones as they struggled to remain of earth. And so you contest our concept that everyone leaves earth willingly and with forethought. Whether consciously or subconsciously, earth death is never an accident.

But then, you have not yet truly internalized that concept, or you would not be fearful that such will happen to you or your loved ones.

Perhaps you wish to counter with thoughts that once your loved ones leave earth, you can no longer communicate with them physically. Of course, some of you have received messages that you are certain are from loved ones that have transitioned from earth. Such is so.

But what we wish for you to accept and understand is that your earth loved ones may or may not be part of your Universal family. And just as you have become attached to your earth loved ones, so do you experience the joy and love of your Universal family.

The difference is that you are now beginning to access the thoughts, actions, and love of your Universal family – as is everyone who has transitioned beyond 4D. Your Universal loved ones are starting to envelop you in Universal love – providing you with a new experience that shouts love and joy from every fiber of your being.

A love and joy you do not yet understand. So it is that despite your candidate of choice not being elected or a war in your country, somehow you feel lighter and more loving than circumstances seem to warrant. All is fine, but you do not necessarily know why.

Such is so because you are reuniting with your Universal loved ones. Many forerunners had a difficult childhood in this lifetime. Even though you might continue to miss your earth loved ones, you are feeling lighter and airier than past or present circumstances seem to warrant – as if you have taken a happy pill.

You will likely have difficulties understanding or internalizing this concept until you experience it. So we will add no more other than observe yourself as you evolve into new you with new perceptions, new concepts and MANY fewer fears.

The Universes, including your Universal family, guides, angels, and special spirits are sending their love at this time, so you accept your Universal being of love. Such does not mean that there is not dissension, but instead that you no longer understand that dissension or wish to participate.

And as you forerunners, one by one, dislodge from the fear of death, and the fear of others harming you emotionally or physically, you will, as they say, “See the light.” But more importantly, you will spread the light. So be it. Amen. If you would like to receive Brenda’s Blogs when posted, please click the Subscribe Button on the upper part of her Blog & Subscribe page and then click the – Subscribe to Brenda’s Blog by E-mail – line. Complete your subscription by entering your e-mail address and accepting the e-mail confirmation.

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November 7, 2016 at 11:06 am 69 comments

Is Your Emotional World in Upheaval?

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Summary of Brenda’s April 15, 2012 free, 15-minute, channeled “Creation Energies” show at Many are now leaving earth. Are you mourning deeply – or not at all? “Shoulds” are judgements. Judgement is not part of joy.

Title of last week’s “Brenda’s Blog” – her free, weekly, channeled blog for “Are You Crossing Your Joy Bridge?”

Dear Ones,

You are letting go of so many pieces of your Old Age life. Some of you are excited to do so. Others feel as if parts of you are torn from you.

As you move further into this New Age, such shifts will become easier.

Moving into joy requires reviewing all parts of your being – including those no longer right for the new you. But by doing so, you might find yourself releasing pieces you believed were your strength, purpose or joy.

With bittersweet joy, you may be letting go of pieces and people you once thought would be in your current earth life forever.

Or you may find that those pieces or people you thought would leave becoming a loving part of your new life.

It is all very confusing. That which you thought would stay is leaving; and that which you thought would leave is staying. Your emotional world may be in an upheaval you did not anticipate when you accepted your New Age/new earth role.

Maybe you are wishing to return to what was. That is not possible. Like early United States pioneers, you have come too far to turn back and yet not far enough to fully reap the rewards of your new life.

You have many more skills than was true even a few months ago. But those skills do not yet allow you to create the relationships you are starting to crave. Such skills have to be developed.

You are beginning to experience joy through your manifestation skills – discovering that if  you think of an object or activity it soon appears. But you have yet to master the totality of manifestation. Those objects or activities you are now manifesting may be surprising to you, but often forgettable because your manifestations are not “big” enough.

If you could created a two hundred room mansion by merely raising your arm, you would believe in your manifestation powers. Instead, you are creating the environment which will eventually produce a lovely home or finding the dress you have searched for. Not big, “CAN YOU BELIEVE IT!” manifestations. But little synchronicities that are starting to create the life of ease you dream of. A bit like Jack in the Beanstalk’s mother throwing out Jack’s  magic beans because she could not envision the glorious rewards the beanstalk would produce.

Your magic beans are sprouting. And your mature beanstalk will be obvious in the not-to-distant future.

In the meantime, many of your loved ones are leaving earth.

Perhaps you feel that your magic beans hold no joy without that certain someone. Please remember that all entities are on unique paths leading to the same place – but not in the same way or time.

Of course, you pine for loved ones who leave earth – you are human. In truth, the New Age has expanded your humanness by encouraging you to feel more. That is the dichotomy of the pain you feel for loved ones who leave earth before you are comfortable with them doing so.

You are pining to interact physically with loved ones who left the earth plane. Such is not possible. No matter how many dimensional veils lift, your loved one will never again be in the same physical form in this lifetime. You can shift YOUR dimension to interact with them in a format comfortable for both of you – but your loved one cannot return to physical form without a rebirth.

Even though you have an earth body, soon – if it is not already happening – you will “travel” to other dimensions and interact with your loved one in an appropriate meeting place. You have the magic beans. You just have not yet allowed those beans to grow into the beanstalk that will transport you through the dimensional veils.

Your loved ones leave earth when it is correct for them. They do not do so to make you lonely or unable to cope. They continue to be with you in so many ways. You just cannot yet discern their new methods of interacting with you – but you soon will.

Is our discussion comforting for those of you who have recently lost a loved one?  Most likely not. You cry and mourn and thrust your fists to the sky for taking your loved one from you. Not yet understanding that they wanted/needed to leave to fulfill their New Age role.

What if you depended on them for emotional, physical or spiritual assistance and their gift to you is allowing you to know that you no longer need care taking?

Even though pain and fear remain part of your emotional repertoire, both are now painted with less vibrant colors. Joy is the brightest color possible.

Will you grieve for years? Perhaps – but not likely. For as you become accustomed to your loved one’s transition, you will understand the beauty of that person knowing you were capable of  living on earth without them. A bit like wishing your first grade teacher would follow you from grade to grade, only to discover that the information offered by your new teachers is more than your first grade teacher is capable of teaching you.

Does that mean that those of you who have lost a loved one will wake up tomorrow in joy because they have transitioned? No. But you will realize eventually that you are fully capable of living in joy without their physical presence. For trying to hold on to them emotionally is to reduce your learning during this wondrous transition.

Your loved one was not “bad” for you – merely a stepping stone to your glorious New Age being. Yes, you can communicate with them in your sleep and wake states – and you will do so more and more as you expand your New Age skills. But that communication in this lifetime will never again be physical. Nor will you find the need to rely on their wisdom more than your own.

It is perhaps difficult for you to read these words for the entity we are speaking of may have been the love of your life.

Your loved one has released you so you can move forward. In turn, they have released their earth body so they can move forward.

That is not to say you cannot mourn. Mourning is an emotion that is perhaps more colorful now than was true when it was a societal dictate. Cry for months if that feels right. Or go on with your life if that is correct for you. There are no rules for mourning or recovery. There is just you.

Your loved one left because it was time for him or her to do so. Nothing more or less. So be it. Amen.  If you would like to receive Brenda’s free blogs when posted, please click the Subscribe Button on the upper part of her subscribe and blog page and then click the – Subscribe to Brenda’s Blog by e-mail – line. Complete your subscription by entering your e-mail address and accepting the e-mail confirmation.

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