Why You’re Feeling Lonely

August 3, 2015 at 10:36 am 62 comments

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Summary of Brenda’s July 31, 2015 channeled, 15-minute “Creation Energies” show at  http://www.BlogTalkRadio.com/brenda-hoffman:  You’ve evolved spiritually and emotionally for months, years, maybe decades. Now it’s time for your physical being to do so. This phase may continue for days or a few months, but certainly not years for it is time to claim new you in totality – including your physical body. And so you are.

The title of last week’s “Brenda’s Blog” – her weekly, channeled blog for www.LifeTapestryCreations.com “Moving into a Radical Shift”

Brenda’s “Creation Energies” show and “Brenda’s Blog” contain different channeled information.

Dear Ones,

Even though connecting with others via the Internet is wonderful, such is not like touching one another physically. So it is you are lonely for physical connections – whether of a romantic nature or not.

Your nerves seem to cry out for physical contact. Yet, you do not feel like making the effort to expand your network of friends.

Almost everything seems as if it is too much effort. You once relished the thought of interacting with others. Now it feels like work to move outside your comfort zone.

You left family and friends behind – those you once depended upon to open your heart, your mind or your physical being.

Now you want it all – not in segments or divisions of heart, body, mind – but all in those with whom you interact. And you want it now.

You do not wish to attend parties or other events where you used to connect, for such gatherings now seem hollow. Yet, you do not feel that there are enough others in your corner – as you once did. Even though you are lonely, you cannot conjure up the energy to satisfy that feeling.

How is it possible for you to increase your physical friendship base if you have difficulties leaving your comfort zone? Should you push yourself to do so? Are you doing something wrong? Are you the only one who is lonely? No, no and no.

For indeed, all aspects of new you are designed to be easy and effortless. Work of any kind is no longer part of your daily routine. The difference is you have no framework for meeting others of like-mind and like-action. So how and what are you to do?

Your sense of loneliness has expanded because you wish to have someone – anyone – confirm that you are on the right path, that this transition is not a fairy tale. You never will discover that someone. For indeed, societal dictates of all doing the same thing in a similar time no longer apply.

Even though you can share your experiences with others, no two entities will ever again have the same experiences. This is where your creativity and self-love come into play.

It is as if while searching for a cure of a major disease, all are using different techniques. So discussing findings is more likely to result in dissention than forward thinking. That is not to say you can not share what you have learned, but that not everyone will be that interested for all are on a different paths leading to the same place.

All paths are valid and will not deviate with historical perspective or personal disdain. Your path is your path – and absolutely correct. But no one will ever create the very same path as you for all are combining different segments with different knowledge bases.

You no longer are depending on the histories of earth. Instead, you are all combining the histories of many planets and experiences within those planets.

Of course, there are what you label the Akashic records. But your Akashic records only record your history. You are not privy to everyone’s history for the very reason that you do not yet have the capacity to maintain or even scan the number of records that contain all the histories of all entities of all earth and beyond. You only have the capacity to know you. Which you are discovering one loving experience at a time.

This is your time to make friends with you. But because that thought is so foreign to you of earth, you feel lonely. You will eventually meet those who fulfill some of your physical needs, but not yet, not now. Now it is time to fall in love with you.

Such a thought makes many of you angry. For you do not believe you are that exciting or wise. You are lonely for someone, anyone to share your experiences with. That someone is now you.

For indeed, part of falling in love with yourself is the ability to trust that all you do is correct. Including not wishing to be among large groups or perhaps even one other person. Interacting with multitudes is what you knew in 3D but has little validity for new you now.

First you accepted your new you CEO role. Then you visited your various segments to clear any pieces that might negate your forward movement to new you. Now you are exploring your various segments, including your physical body, to fully know you in all your glory – to fall in love with you.

Then and only then, will new friends fall into place easily and effortlessly. For your beacon of self-loving light will be so bright that it will be impossible for ‘ships to pass in the night.’ And the same will be true for those with whom you connect. For both of you will be fully comfortable with and accepting of yourselves.

Loving enough for the two of you to create a new whole or third connection stronger than either of you individually, yet does not detract from either. Something you do not quite understand, but you will. Just as you did not quite understand how to love yourself when you started doing so.

You are not lonely, you are merely learning how fun and exciting you are. A new thought process, experience indeed. Allow yourself to grow into the totality that is the light of you. And allow the same for others. So be it. Amen.

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  • 1. Allison  |  August 3, 2015 at 11:05 am

    Thank you SO much for posting this. You named the experience I’ve been having for months. Your timing is uncanny; I have goosebumps. Last week, I felt so desperate to figure out what I was doing wrong, why I wasn’t attracting people to me with whom I can now connect (from the new me or the me I’ve always been but didn’t know). I was hoping I’d find out who my soul family is, where I come from, whether I’m a starseed. 🙂 All of this looking *without* to feed the loneliness within. I had my Akashic records read, and I was deeply disappointed. The woman who read them did not actually access them (so said my body and my own intuition). She gave me unhelpful spiritual counseling. But what I got from the experience was that I needed to sit with myself, journal, face my loneliness, get to know myself, and ask my Higher Self my questions. I have to look within. I have to face the not wanting to spend large amounts of time alone, do the thing I don’t want to do (take those long walks in the woods alone, learn how to converse with my intuition and Higher Self–and maybe even my guides). Your post was validation of this. At least I know I’m not alone in how I feel, that this is a *thing*, that others out there are going through it to, that we’re all working towards a common goal (knowing our truest selves, falling in love with ourselves). I also feel less crazy for spending more time alone. As a psychotherapist, I was beginning to think perhaps I’d become too self-involved and was isolating an unhealthy amount of time. I should trust myself. 😉

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    • 2. LifeTapestryCreations  |  August 3, 2015 at 2:12 pm

      Hi Allison,
      YAY for daring to be you! This transition from group thought to self-love is not always easy – or even understandable. We’re all so used to who we were and what’s expected of us that we often question our inner voice.

      You’re most definitely not alone. Even though we’re all on unique paths, we’re finding/exploring those paths with similar new software.
      Blessings, Love and Sparkles,
      Brenda

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  • 3. Gunnar  |  August 3, 2015 at 11:06 am

    Wonderful! so inspiring. Thank you so much for sharing. LOVE and LIGHT to you<3

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  • 5. soulspeak2013  |  August 3, 2015 at 2:26 pm

    Dear Star Sister/Dear Friend..THANK YOU with such an immense heart of gratitude. This brought so much promise to my heart and I really do feel that process of Self Love igniting. It is such a powerful yet delicate process…where we are called to bring ourselves immense compassion and commune with grace at this time. It is a very big deep breath of fresah air that you brought us today…for us all to be with, and take comfort in. Such peace…Blessings and Love for your journey dear friend..Namaste’

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    • 6. elizabethsadhu  |  August 3, 2015 at 2:30 pm

      It is really kind of fun/inspiring/hope-filled when we start hearing the same messages in more than one place. 🙂

      much love

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      • 7. LifeTapestryCreations  |  August 3, 2015 at 5:48 pm

        Hi Sweetie,
        For sure!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

        I love the synchronicity of so many messages/channels stating the same concept in different words. As my channeled book, A Glimpse of Your Future relayed to us in the late 80s, we’d have to have our head buried in the sand not to receive transition messages. And so it is!!!!
        Blessings, Love and Sparkles,
        Brenda

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    • 8. LifeTapestryCreations  |  August 3, 2015 at 2:53 pm

      Hi SoulSpeak/Star Sister/Friend,
      I’m so pleased that this channel resonated for/with you. Sharing my channels with others is one of my great joys.

      Learning how to love our new selves with all the new perceptions and personal transitions that entails is most definitely a shared experience – at least for now.
      Blessings, Love and Sparkles,
      Brenda

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  • 9. elizabethsadhu  |  August 3, 2015 at 2:28 pm

    Love this! So in alignment, but of course! You well know my obsession with the self love path. I get SO DARN EXCITED when people talk about it and write about it and channel about it. YAY!!!! The Beans are waving their sparkly pom poms!!! Wooooohoooo!

    I just wrote to a friend who is ready to date again, “love yourself completely, cultivate a relationship with yourself and you will be a magnet for a beautiful and perfect partner for you.”

    My dear friend/mentor Michael says that our cadre are coming…..We have all been on such individual paths. Beautiful!

    I have rarely felt lonely in my life. But I have longed for connection with kindred spirits. YAY! It is happening.

    much love ALWAYS……WE ARE ALL ONE!

    Elizabeth aka Sadhu

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    • 10. LifeTapestryCreations  |  August 3, 2015 at 5:43 pm

      Hi Sweetie,
      I’ve longed for kindred spirits also as have many. Finally, I understand why I need to be alone – me, miss social butterfly. We are all one and finally all one is more self-love and peace daily. Go team!!!!
      Blessings, Love and Sparkles,
      Brenda
      PS Hi to the pom poms as they cheer us all on!

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  • 11. soulspeak2013  |  August 3, 2015 at 2:30 pm

    Reblogged this on At the Table, On my Plate and commented:
    Take a deep breath…and be in your world your way…you and your tribe will connect…

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    • 12. LifeTapestryCreations  |  August 3, 2015 at 5:44 pm

      Thank you so much SoulSpeak/Star Sister/Friend for reblogging my channel on At the Table, On my Plate SoulSpeak2013.WordPress.com

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  • 15. Cristina  |  August 3, 2015 at 2:54 pm

    Dear Brenda, again your message arrives at the right time for me.

    This week I had a few work commitments, my husband takes out five days for reasons of work. My social calendar is virtually empty commitments, and I made excuses for not attending some.
    I disconnected the phone. I enjoyed the house to myself. To be in shorts, shirt and flip flops. Without makeup. With a pony tail. Eating ice cream and cookies, read my books, watching movies.

    I felt happy as a teenager to his parents left alone on holiday. I enjoyed the solitude as ever. To be one day without talking to anyone (except my husband calls my mother … I have what I have shortened) practically. Entrenched and happy at home. And annoyed when I had to go to a meeting of work that I could not avoid.
    And back as fast as I can to my refuge. Fleeing the social life, even just a coffee with a colleague.
    I am happy and relaxed as ever. I do not want to be or talk to anyone.

    So this half day a thought came to me, I’ll be turning antisocial ?? I will be kind of weird hermit of s. XXI ?? (you know, those silly thoughts that attacks the ego when we feel in danger)

    Well, I’m not not going asocial. Your post well explained. This is part of this wonderful process which we live. And I’m sorry, because I feel happy. And the way is joy.
    I will thoroughly enjoy these days … at least until Saturday, returning my dear husband !! hehehehe !! 😉
    Love, blesses and sparkles
    Cristina

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    • 16. LifeTapestryCreations  |  August 3, 2015 at 5:53 pm

      Hi Cristina,
      I’ve turned down social engagements recently too. Just sitting in my courtyard reading, no make-up sounds and is delicious for me now. What a fun transition this is as we learn just to be ourselves whatever that means – ponytails, flip flops, no make-up and no schedules or commitments. YES!!!
      Blessings, Love and Sparkles,
      Brenda

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  • 17. janis´¯`·.¸ʚįɞ  |  August 3, 2015 at 4:29 pm

    Once again, Brenda, this message means so much…”you wish to have someone – anyone – confirm that you are on the right path, that this transition is not a fairy tale” speaks to me especially…well, all of it does really…thank you, Brenda…LOVELOVELOVE… ❤

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    • 18. LifeTapestryCreations  |  August 3, 2015 at 5:55 pm

      Hi Janis,
      Thank you!!!! YES to us all as we discover our new selves!
      Blessings, Love and Sparkles,
      Brenda

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      • 19. janis´¯`·.¸ʚįɞ  |  August 4, 2015 at 6:43 pm

        Thank you, Brenda! ❤ Btw, right before I read your response I was reading a post by Matt Licata. If you weren't familiar with him, I thought you might be interested…he reminds me of Matt Kahn in a way. This is one link to his perspective: https://www.facebook.com/mattlicataphd?fref=ts

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      • 20. LifeTapestryCreations  |  August 4, 2015 at 6:56 pm

        Hi Janis,
        I will check Matt out. Even though I just discovered him a few weeks ago, I like much of Matt Kahn’s material also. So much wonderful info on the Internet and there seems to be more every week. Exactly as it should be so that everyone’s voice/path is highlighted for any who wishes to participate in New Earth.
        Blessings, Love and Sparkles,
        Brenda

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      • 21. janis´¯`·.¸ʚįɞ  |  August 5, 2015 at 5:48 pm

        Yes…and thank you for highlighting that for me… 🙂 ❤ Blessings, Love and Sparkles right back to YOU… ❤

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      • 22. LifeTapestryCreations  |  August 6, 2015 at 10:27 am

        Hi Janis,
        We’re all in this together – sharing, supporting, loving.
        Blessings, Love and Sparkles,
        Brenda

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  • 23. Cheryl  |  August 3, 2015 at 8:07 pm

    Hello Brenda

    I don’t need to say too much because Allison has summed my experiences, the way I have been feeling for several months. Thank you Allison and also to you Brenda for this timely message.
    Cheryl xxx

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    • 24. LifeTapestryCreations  |  August 3, 2015 at 9:00 pm

      Hi Cheryl,
      Isn’t it amazing that even though we’re on different paths, so many of us are in this together. Scout masters all.
      Blessings, Love and Sparkles,
      Brenda

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    • 25. Allison  |  August 3, 2015 at 9:28 pm

      Thanks to you, too, Cheryl. Once again, validation 🙂 Since space and time are 3D constructs, we sort of all are connected here. We’re all one. Much love!

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      • 26. LifeTapestryCreations  |  August 3, 2015 at 11:08 pm

        Yes, Allison – we’re all one sharing our fears, love and evolution. How wonderful is that!
        Blessings, Love and Sparkles,
        Brenda

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  • 27. Jenaire  |  August 3, 2015 at 9:45 pm

    Thank you so much Brenda. This channeled message confirms why I feel I cannot share my healing with others. Blessings!

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    • 28. LifeTapestryCreations  |  August 3, 2015 at 11:12 pm

      Hi Jenaire,
      Isn’t it fascinating how we feel more skilled and powerful and yet less interested in expressing that power in whatever format? We’re shifting at warp speed but don’t necessarily note our changes. Even though we will at some point, we’re too busy shifting into new us to do so now.
      Blessings, Love and Sparkles,
      Brenda

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  • 29. Oracles and Healers  |  August 3, 2015 at 11:22 pm

    Reblogged this on Oracles and Healers.

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    • 30. LifeTapestryCreations  |  August 4, 2015 at 10:52 am

      Thank you so much Ron for reblogging my channel on Oracles and Healers Oraclesandhealers.WordPress.com

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  • 31. Eliza Ayres  |  August 3, 2015 at 11:46 pm

    Perfect timing for this message, Brenda. Hit some profoundly “lonely” energy this last weekend with the Blue Moon. Was wondering what it was all about. Now I know and can work through it more gracefully. Thank you for all that you do and are, dear one. Eliza

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    • 32. LifeTapestryCreations  |  August 4, 2015 at 10:56 am

      Oh Eliza, thank you so much. I’ve been following your blogs for several years. I’m so pleased that my channel helps you through this phase just as your channels have helped me in the past. We’re all in this together – sharing, loving, growing.
      Blessings, Love and Sparkles,
      Brenda

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  • 33. Pocahontas  |  August 4, 2015 at 2:11 am

    It is difficult to justify loneliness when one is constantly avoiding interaction on even the smallest level. I was never a social butterfly and was oddly content alone to the judgement of others.

    Yet, lately, I have wondered if I will ever encounter someone . . . anyone of like-mind. I have noticed it seems to be limited to the internet and not so much out and about. There are the rare encounters where there is a small spark and I am not looked at like I have 3 heads, but this kind of communication has changed due to the fact that I no longer feel the need to communicate like I did before. Hence, your last message. : )

    I feel alone, yet not lonely . . . if this makes sense?

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    • 34. LifeTapestryCreations  |  August 4, 2015 at 11:02 am

      Hi Pocahontas,
      Feeling alone, yet not lonely makes perfect sense and always has. But our society often didn’t allow it to make sense placing labels and at times, shame on those who were content within themselves.

      I used to be one of those combo people. I loved being with people, but also alone. Now I’m in more in an alone phase as are many as indicated by those responding to this channel.

      We’re perfect just as we are – in whatever phase or feeling. Such a delightful shift from our 3D world isn’t it?
      Blessings, Love and Sparkles,
      Brenda

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  • 35. Higher Density  |  August 4, 2015 at 2:31 am

    Reblogged this on Higher Density Blog.

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  • 36. Rochelle  |  August 4, 2015 at 3:35 am

    Thank you . I thought it was just silly me. It now makes sense. Thanku

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    • 37. LifeTapestryCreations  |  August 4, 2015 at 11:04 am

      Hi Rochelle,
      How fun is that! What you thought was silly is actually telling you that your a scout master for this awesome transition. Go Rochelle!
      Blessings, Love and Sparkles,
      Brenda

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  • 38. TheSunnyDay2013  |  August 4, 2015 at 4:30 am

    For some reason I never seeked company. Never even enjoyed spending time with someone more than a couple of hours once every year. I learnt social codes very late in my life. Until then was cast as the ‘outsider’… This may have been a defense mechanism. I always wanted to independently experience who I am rather than being influenced. When I go to a new place I don’t like to contact the relatives or friends to show me around. I kind of feel I want to see it for myself. Just yesterday a thought passed through my mind: ‘I will never have friends’. I am not sure I am sad about this.
    What makes me more sad is that I cannot be who I think I am.

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    • 39. LifeTapestryCreations  |  August 4, 2015 at 11:08 am

      Hi SunnyDay,
      Actually, this is exactly the time to be who you are. You’re so comfortable with yourself, you don’t necessarily need others. What an awesome gift you allowed yourself despite possible disdain from others in 3D.

      I’m guessing that was a piece you never turned off when you entered earth in this lifetime. It felt right for you and still does. You have a friend in yourself – a wonderful gift most are just starting to discover.

      And I would venture to guess when the rest of earth catches up with you, you will discover others that will connect with you in ways you cannot yet envision. You’re steps ahead of so many and definitely a beacon for us all!
      Blessings, Love and Sparkles,
      Brenda

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      • 40. TheSunnyDay2013  |  August 4, 2015 at 4:24 pm

        Wow Brenda to be honest I didn’t expect such a positive comment!
        Yes I am quite happy with my own company (in fact I can’t have enough of it hehe) however, I must be honest, I also enjoy my husband’s, mother’s and sister’s company too… usually ❤

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      • 41. LifeTapestryCreations  |  August 4, 2015 at 6:52 pm

        Hi SunnyDay,
        You’re right with you and so right with the world. My favorite companion – most of the time – is also my husband. Bet your husband, mother and sister just allow/encourage you to be you. Exactly how it should be and is!
        Blessings, Love and Sparkles,
        Brenda

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  • 42. sylvia franco  |  August 4, 2015 at 10:57 am

    Brenda! Hello !
    This post has prompted me to ask, can another person truly read our Akashic records? My inner guidance has pulling me away from readings because as you state, all is here within. To be honest, I’ve gotten readings just to connect with like minded individuals.

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    • 43. LifeTapestryCreations  |  August 4, 2015 at 2:17 pm

      Hello Back at Ya Sylvia,
      I’m not as familiar with Akashic records as are others, but according to this week’s channel, we’re limited to our records – at least for now – just because reading other’s Akashic records would be overwhelming given how much we’re learning about our segments and totality. And I would think that individual privacy would limit what we can learn about others. This transition is about us – not what others think or do as has been the 3D case.
      Blessings, Love and Sparkles,
      Brenda

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  • 44. dreamweaver333  |  August 4, 2015 at 11:50 am

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    • 45. LifeTapestryCreations  |  August 4, 2015 at 2:09 pm

      Thank you so much for reblogging my channel on DreamWeaver333 Dreamweaver333.WordPress.com

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  • 46. beth h.  |  August 4, 2015 at 12:53 pm

    Your message truly puts into words just what I’m feeling, it is like a validation of a message I received this am while doing a self-reiki healing: wow, is my first reaction! As someone who is very, very sensitive to energies, and thinks independently I’ve often felt different, been told “you’re too sensitive”, wondered how and why does humanity do what it does and not embrace the truth/light that would allow ALL to be empowered and NONE to be left out, judged, have lack of, surely this must be wrong! This is the time for planetary evolution, to understand and rise above the pettiness and divisions that have been the ruling force for eaons….the lonliness is the realization that the “heart” must be engaged and “lead” the way…we’re seeing so much going, celebrities divorcing more than ever, deaths and Fear with threats of various Fearful Stuff in commercials, in news….yet slowly on an individual basis more and more are awakening that All is not as We’ve been told….there is a greater truth and I sense the key to Freedom is Letting go of Attachments to follow the crowd….Follow the Heart, Compassion and Unity as opposed to separation….I believe the lonliness is a symptom of soul evolution and letting go of what we’ve always been told and following others precepts: it is standing Fully in our Power and just Knowing that those Kin to our Souls will show up when we’re ready….so Trust, Be, Allow and Mostly Be The LOVE starting with ourselves:IT IS Perfect to be ourselves, without judgements nor labels…just enjoy each moment cuz it does not last forever! and to think of this Life as Lessons, not Mistakes…much easier on the soul and body! Namaste and Much Love ❤

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    • 47. LifeTapestryCreations  |  August 4, 2015 at 2:13 pm

      Dear Beth,
      YES!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! Thank you for your overview of becoming and loving us – and allowing/encouraging the same for others as a result.
      Blessings, Love and Sparkles,
      Brenda

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  • 48. Diane  |  August 4, 2015 at 2:49 pm

    Hi Brenda,

    All has been said. This is so spot on! It helps immensely to read it and feel it is so, all at the same time. Wonderful clear channel. It captures the essence of Allness! Thank you so much!!!

    Abundant love and light,
    Diane

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  • 50. Christie  |  August 4, 2015 at 8:27 pm

    Thank you, this is fantastic as this has been a theme for me and many of us.. i was more comfortable alone for my journey before for the most part.. but this year have been wanting to meet like-souls (apart from internet friends). Now that i know myself and my “essence” much more (on some days), i can picture who i might connect with. More than wanting someone on the “same” path as me, i began wanting connection that is beyond the current themes/ aspects we are uncovering for ourselves. Has anyone been having experiences with their twin flame? For me i have had telepathic communication with, and visions of, my twin flame a few times and it seems we will meet sometime down the road. Seems we come together at the right moment which is determined by our deeper aspects.. perhaps. But for now we are in the right place for ourselves, is the msg ive gotten.. Self-love is definitely growing as the old timelines come up to seemingly knock down the self-worth we tried so hard to build up lol but all is being renewed. I am glad to have fellow travelers if only on the internet, being lights for each other.

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    • 51. LifeTapestryCreations  |  August 5, 2015 at 9:48 am

      Hi Christie,
      Yes, self-love is growing. And you have most definitely noted yours with your shift from wanting to meet like-souls to wanting to meet others who are beyond or moving in directions that are new to you. I’m finding the same – as I grow into me more and more, my wants and needs are shifting. We’re most definitely growing into new us at warp speed.
      Blessings, Love and Sparkles,
      Brenda

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  • 52. CATHERINE CATALINA  |  August 5, 2015 at 9:16 am

    PERFECTO!I am 66 and have been living alone now for about 8 years!I am in a new town, I don’t know any “friends”. I have adjusted to not being anyone’s daughter, wife, sister, mom (my son is a grown man). I actually am more content living alone,but “society” seems to think something amiss..”have you found someone?” ( as if I need someone lost :)”maybe you should volunteer”, “get out join some club”and on and on. In retrospect I have always been a loner,but life took me down the mom /wife path for many years..and now this time in my life… On my way to 67 and I feel like its just the beginning of being me..fully me..my original individual me..it is very empowering and refreshing to know that I have so much love for myself now. I only have to please an audience of one on a daily and that sure simplifies a life. I live like a nun,but have the spirit of a wild dancer artist and she comes alive on my patio when I dance under the moon. My cats find me very entertaining. I am not sure that there is a “soul” that could resonate with me and the best part I am not looking for that,but I am OPEN to the infinite possibilities of higher love,but for now I seem to have found that within me..zippity do dah..my o my what a wonderful day!!Thank you for sharing your insights that have resonated with many it seems and that is a comfort. C*

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    • 53. Allison  |  August 5, 2015 at 9:39 am

      Catherine, thanks so much for sharing this. This aloneness is new to me, and I get weepy at times (maybe releasing the old). I’m 41 and wondering where all of this will lead. My spiritual awakening, from ego-based to heart-based non-dual consciousness, is still rather fresh too. So I get weepy. Sometimes feel a little lost, and all that I have is this new connection to my Higher Self to guide me. I’m used to looking outside of myself for direction. All of this is so new. To hear what it’s like after 8 years, to read about your joy, your eccentricity, your wild dancer…well, you made me cry (in a good way). Thank you! xoxo

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      • 54. LifeTapestryCreations  |  August 5, 2015 at 9:56 am

        Hi Allison,
        I also lived alone for ten years in my 40s and discovered I loved it. But I love being married too – to the right person.

        YAY for you daring to explore who you are becoming. Not always an easy piece, but most definitely worth the effort. Go Allison!!!
        Blessings, Love and Sparkles,
        Brenda

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      • 55. CATHERINE CATALINA  |  August 5, 2015 at 11:46 am

        Miss Allison, you just go ahead and feel “weepy”. Do it ’til your little fingertips get all wrinkly..and then begin again with a new feeling that feels a wee better..and don’t give it too much power…because it’s just a moment in the now…we all ‘suffer” from the uncertainty of being human. Wherever you are is where you start..it’s simple. Joy is there..like weeping..there are only a few emotions we can feel as humans about a billion different ways that take you to them.I don’t think you are lost..I think you are “awakening” ..fantastic I say.!! Enlightenment is already here! Just stay present and embrace things as they are..because in the next moment you will embrace that moment. I see your age and I remember when I was there. I do wish I would have made some better choices in what to do with my heart beats. I wasted way to many of them on things that just were going to change no matter what.It’s being human these dances we do..its only a dance..now you choose some music you like and you just do this Ol woman a favor ..and get up and dance right where you are right now….you can’t help ,but smile right?It touched me ..that I touched you..I too shed a tear. thank you ..I’m alive..C*

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    • 56. LifeTapestryCreations  |  August 5, 2015 at 9:51 am

      Hi Catherine,
      YES!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! What lucky cats you have! Living with someone perfectly content to be – whether dancing in the moonlight or quietly eating dinner. Thank you for sharing your beacon with us!
      Blessings, Love and Sparkles,
      Brenda

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  • 57. franheal  |  August 5, 2015 at 10:59 am

    Reblogged this on franheal.

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    • 58. LifeTapestryCreations  |  August 5, 2015 at 5:13 pm

      Thank you so much Fran for reblogging my channel on FranHeal Franheal.WordPress.com

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  • 59. amparo  |  August 5, 2015 at 11:14 pm

    Hi Brenda…Thank you so much for this channeling which came at the perfect moment for me…I feel I don’t want to be with anyone right now, even friends or family for we seem to speak, feel and think so differently…Instead I am getting to know my real self and I am really happy I am doing so…I have always taken care of others and solved their problems, now I am giving myself the same and more…I really trust in me and know I am going in the right direction…I would like to know who did you channeled on this message…Thank you…

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    • 60. LifeTapestryCreations  |  August 6, 2015 at 10:30 am

      Hi Amparo,
      YES to new you!!!!

      I channel me of the past, present and future segments with a few guests thrown in here and there.
      Blessings, Love and Sparkles,
      Brenda

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  • 61. Tamala Baldwin  |  August 12, 2015 at 12:14 am

    Thank you so much for this!!!!! There aren’t many words left to say aside for thank you. I will continue to fall in love with me… and raise my love energy up even more….. and naturally attract those that are meant to my way. Thank you for the insight. I totally had an aha moment.

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    • 62. LifeTapestryCreations  |  August 12, 2015 at 10:41 am

      Hi Tamala,
      YES!!!!!!!!!!!! Shine your loving beacon for you and all!
      Blessings, Love and Sparkles,
      Brenda

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