Your Crowd-Pleasing Days are Over

February 26, 2018 at 9:53 am 33 comments

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Summary of Brenda’s February 24, 2018, channeled 15-minute “Creation Energies” show at BlogTalkRadio.com/brenda-hoffman:   For eons, you’ve learned you must work hard to achieve what you want. In 5D, ease is a keyword. A word counterintuitive for most, given the beliefs 3D society that ease translates to lazy, failure, etc. This first test of your recent skills boost is about drawing things to you instead of pushing to achieve.

“Angry, Fearful, Petulant? All is Well” is the title of last week’s “Brenda’s Blog” – her weekly channeled blog for LifeTapestryCreations.com.

Brenda’s “Creation Energies” show and “Brenda’s Blog” contain different channeled information.

Dear Ones,

We are amazed at your tenacity and yes, strength. For throughout your 3D eons of earth lives, you forced yourself to follow society rules instead of daring to be you. So it is that you did physical, emotional, and spiritual harm to your being to be part of the group.

Now that you are of 5D, you are beginning to proclaim your individuality. Something not necessarily easy. Not because it is wrong, but because it is so foreign to the 3D society with which you are familiar.

Even though you continue to remain within that society via your daily activities, your voice is changing from that of passive acquiesce to an almost strident rightness to be. Something that frightens you as much as others.

Words of anger, incorrectness, here I am, seem to flow out of your mouth with little forewarning. For you are discovering yourself and your power much as a teenager does as they evolve into a young adult.

Where you once said, “yes” even though you did not want to deep within your being, you are now loudly proclaiming, “NO.” Surprising both you and those comfortable with the old you.

You are claiming your power, one ‘no’ at a time. Of course, doing so is disturbing to both you and the entities experiencing it for all of you are trained to be nice.

You have even been taught ways to proclaim your rightness with hidden means. Such as talking about someone when they are not there. Or responding to what you label a “catty” answer. Or acquiescing to a request only to neglect to follow through. Or ignoring your needs, so someone else is comfortable. But nowhere in that litany of acceptable behaviors is your ability to quietly and calmly state your needs without some sort of 3D repercussion.

For 3D is group-think and 5D and beyond is the uniqueness of being.

Perhaps the best way to describe this is to think in terms of all being of one body with specific hair cells, nail cells, skin cells, etc. In 3D, everyone decided to be hair cells allowing for a very limited body.

So it is you are discovering that various groups of like mind or action are finding one another and proclaiming their rightness as a heart or kidney cell knowing and accepting that other cells will proclaim their rightness until the body is complete and whole. Something that never happened or was possible when all looked to someone other than themselves to lead and proclaim their rightness of being.

Perhaps you remember that many proclaimed their leadership and rightness of being throughout the 3D ages. Such is so. But a leader is not a leader without followers. So it is that the leaders needed to cater to followers just enough for them to continue to be followers – until that point in 3D history when you all expected someone to be your leader and no longer attempted to fully be yourself within your selected group. Someone was in charge and even though that someone was you at times, you were only in charge as long as you provided enough rewards – either the carrot or the stick – for those who followed you.

This 5D experience is extremely different. Instead of following someone you fear or respect, you are following your path. So it is that even those who seem to be of like-mind are not entirely of your mind – just as it should be. For each of you is a powerful entity who does not require a leader nor anyone to proclaim your rightness.

That last statement has to be extremely frightening. For you do not yet feel strong enough to proclaim your rightness as a unique individual. You wish to hide behind this person or label hoping others will forge the new way.

Instead, it is you and only you. There are so many functions of this New Earth to complete that while you might meet fellow travelers here and there at certain junctions, it is your path, not the path of anyone else.

Your golden threads in this new tapestry are unique and even though you have the freedom to stop or slow your 5D evolution, the earth and therefore the Universes will be less because of your disinterest in continuing.

We must add, so you do again fall into the 3D service trap, that other generations will pick up any missing threads until the tapestry is complete. It is just that you wished to experience the end result more rapidly than viewing it from the ethers or other 5D earth lives.

You can stop, but the earth evolution will not. It will merely be a bit less complete than what you hoped for when you en masse requested to see some final results instead of merely building the bridge to the New Age.

To do so, you must first proclaim your rightness of being to yourself. Which is starting to happen – deepening daily as most often indicated by your unwillingness to be the crowd pleaser you have been in 3D.

Allow yourself to have a few temper tantrums, a few angry words. You are breaking out of your 3D hiding place to claim you in the new more accepting place that is now 5D earth. So be it. Amen.

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Angry, Fearful, Petulant? All is Well. Adjusting to Your Future You Segments

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  • 1. Eliza Ayres  |  February 26, 2018 at 10:01 am

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  • 3. sanctuaryofthewhiterose  |  February 26, 2018 at 10:35 am

    Reblogged this on Sanctuary of the White Rose.

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    • 4. LifeTapestryCreations  |  February 26, 2018 at 3:14 pm

      Thank you so much for reblogging my channel on Sanctuary of the White Rose sanctuaryofthewhiterose.com

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  • 5. Public Display Name  |  February 26, 2018 at 11:03 am

    Thank you Brenda. 😘
    Very curious to see what’s next in this amazing 5D-journey.
    Teleportation to Belize? If I can dream it, it means I remember it. If I remember it, it means the knowledge is in me. If the knowledge is in me, then off I go.
    Never liked planes anyway…
    Love and Blessings. ❤️

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  • 6. Aaron  |  February 26, 2018 at 12:40 pm

    I certainly won’t be stopping. There’s nothing to go back to and I wouldn’t turn around even if there were. There is too much 5D happening and 3D releasing going on, now spreading in a visibly multiplicative fashion, for me to fathom for even a second that we’re not going to see this table flip. To be stark, “I [we] didn’t come here not to.”

    Eclipse last Thursday: I “get a missed call” (phone is *always* on Do Not Disturb”) from a number I don’t recognize. Long story short, I thought it was one person who I hadn’t heard from in a while, me having had left the dramatic situation that was our common meeting place. Sounded just like her on the voicemail prompt. Same name, same manner of speaking. BUT a totally different girl by that first name, who I grew up with, have not spoken to in ten years, have never electronically communicated with EVER… And she didn’t even know that she had accidentally called someone. Her phone was in her purse. And *nobody* has this number of mine… because “see ya, I’m out, loves.” So… all of a sudden it’s full-throttle Soul Talk and this most freaking obviously meant to be!?!

    She was asking her grandmother “on the other side” for someone to talk to. I just so happen to have a good word or two when it comes to freeing oneself from toxic/dead relationships. And then this happens and she’s telling me how much better she is feeling so quickly, how she feels like she is coming to life again, and sharing my and her perspectives with a guy friend of hers who then cries and tells her he feels like it helped him to heal parts of his soul that had been buried deep away for so long?

    Me writing this is *NOT* about me. This is about the FACT that what we are all doing by spreading love freely, but discerningly, and doing what is right for OURSELVES, IS and will continue to light up this world like wildfire so we can all see the end of this sh*t show we’ve taken on for so, so many lifetimes. So much is coming to light and there WILL be NO stopping this train.

    Love,

    Aaron

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    • 7. Public Display Name  |  February 26, 2018 at 1:11 pm

      Yes buddy.🕺🏻 Keep it coming!
      Awesome story, gives me hope of having the love of my life poppin’ up outta nowhere. 🦄

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    • 8. LifeTapestryCreations  |  February 26, 2018 at 3:16 pm

      As I used to say, Aaron, “right on!”

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  • 9. J. Lew  |  February 26, 2018 at 12:56 pm

    Thank you so much!!! Still taking this in but I do see that I am on my own journey of uncertainty.

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    • 10. LifeTapestryCreations  |  February 26, 2018 at 3:17 pm

      Dear Jenaire,
      Our own journey of uncertainty and DISCOVERY!!!
      Blessings, Lots of Love and Ongoing Creation Energies,
      Brenda

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  • 11. dreamweaver333  |  February 26, 2018 at 6:27 pm

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    • 12. LifeTapestryCreations  |  March 2, 2018 at 4:05 pm

      Thank you so much for reblogging my channel at Dreamweaver333 dreamweaver333.wordpress.com

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    • 14. LifeTapestryCreations  |  March 2, 2018 at 4:07 pm

      Thank you so much for reblogging my channel at Saint Andrews Twin Flame saintandrewstwinflame.com

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  • 15. elizabethsadhu  |  February 27, 2018 at 11:28 am

    Reblogged this on elizabethsadhu and commented:
    Thanks dearest Brenda. So confirming and so needed. Love

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    • 16. LifeTapestryCreations  |  March 2, 2018 at 4:08 pm

      Thank you, Sweetie, for reblogging my channel at ElizabethSadhu elizabethsadhu.wordpress.com

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  • 17. elizabethsadhu  |  February 27, 2018 at 11:36 am

    Thanks dearest Brenda!

    Spot on. A few tantrums later…..heehee

    I have tried to fit in at times, mostly in my youth, but I NEVER could figure it out. And I never could figure out how to do it in jobs. I was “laid off” many times and then fired (happily released from my HR career) the last time……I ALWAYS seemed to put people off since I didn’t know how to be “normal”. Hahaha… Whatever the fuck that is. Heehee

    Anyway, I know I am letting go of all that shit….I know there must be a few pieces of trying to fit in, being a good wife, good friend, blah blah blah…… That I am letting go of.

    Starring to come out of the fog. Yay!

    This is so confirming also, as I clearly got that this is MY PATH, no one else’s, I am on it, trusting my INNER guidance only. I have known this for awhile but it really synced a few days ago.

    I love you sweet friend! I love ME (MOST IMPORTANT) and I love us all!

    Big virtual hugs,
    Elizabeth

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    • 18. janis´¯`·.¸ʚįɞ  |  February 27, 2018 at 1:44 pm

      Thank you for your honesty here, Elizabeth. I have always liked blending in with the background as I didn’t have the qualities I admired in others, namely ability to express themselves easily, great sense of humor, direction, purpose… My best quality/skill is important but abstract…guess I would just like to see how it can tangibly improve my life situation! Ha! Thank you, again for sharing, Elizabeth!

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      • 19. Inma  |  February 27, 2018 at 5:02 pm

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    • 21. LifeTapestryCreations  |  March 2, 2018 at 4:11 pm

      Hi Sweetie,
      Isn’t it amazing that we’re finally understanding and accepting that we don’t have to “fit” in with anyone but ourselves? That we have the right and now need to be.
      Blessings, Lots of Love and Ongoing Creation Sparkles,
      Brenda

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  • 22. joyful  |  February 27, 2018 at 11:40 am

    Tantrums, yes, I had on Sunday / Monday … frightening for me, yes…it came all of a sudden …

    Today: big boredom/void again / nothing tastes good…

    It is finally time for the long time ago announced, not yet experienced joy … and I mean permanent joy – inside and outside …
    Phew, definitely…

    How are you Brenda?

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    • 23. LifeTapestryCreations  |  March 2, 2018 at 4:15 pm

      Hi Joyful,
      I’m experiencing tantrums and voids like so many others too. So much and yet so little happening all at the same time as we adjust to our new beings in a seemingly old world!
      Blessings, Lots of Love and Ongoing Creation Sparkles,
      Brenda

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  • 24. Delfina Gasoido  |  March 2, 2018 at 1:44 pm

    “Allow yourself to have a few temper tantrums, a few angry words. You are breaking out of your 3D hiding place to claim you in the new more accepting place that is now 5D earth. So be it. Amen.”
    AMÉN, AMEN, AMEN!!!!!!!
    Dear Brenda,
    I have been “disappeared”, these last three weeks, for reasons I prefer not to remember. It was a kind of descent into hell, both physically and psychically, I never thought that I would have to go through certain things again.

    But I think the circulating energies have supported my exit from the chrysalis. I think I’ve integrated so many scattered pieces of myself that we no longer fit all inside the cocoon …. hehehe !!!!! 😉
    The strangest thing was having suffered a kind of “post-traumatic stress”, a series of physical and mental manifestations derived from something that happened a long, long time ago (obviously not in this life, in that sense my life so far has not had anything of truculent or miserable). Joined to terrible nightmares, of such cruelty and realism, that it seemed rather that he was reliving memories and not dreaming.

    So yes, I’ve had days of tantrums and anger, raising my fist to the heavens, crying out for a bit of Peace in my dreams.

    But here I am again, I feel more energetic, strong and rejuvenated than I can remember.

    So maybe this process, they were no more than concentrated growth pains. Really, as you very well say in your today’s blogtalk radio, my 3D comfort zone was as if I were straddling two mountains worrying about falling into the abyss ….
    Now what matters is to put into practice that form of manifestation 5d that you say to attract instead of force, and for once and for all to create our dreams and attract our joy entering a spiral of ascending of ease and lightness.

    Blessings, Lots of Love and Ongoing Creation Energies

    Cristina

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    • 25. LifeTapestryCreations  |  March 2, 2018 at 4:27 pm

      Hi Cristina,
      We’re learning how to be new us – one step at a time. And as you pointed out, not all of those steps are easy. My learning has been more about holding onto to 3D pieces that I’m realizing are not really me and FINALLY accepting that some of what I strived for was not necessarily who I was, but who I thought I should be.

      Because we’re now on our unique paths, those of us who yet need to clarify our direction a bit are doing so in different ways. You with frightening night dreams. Me with discoveries of who I wish to be and who I wish to interact with in 5D.

      All of us moving forward, but not necessarily in the same way, frightening ourselves at times with our new needs or clearing pieces. This tween stage or phase promises to be relatively short-lived which is what those of us in these personal chaos feelings most definitely want to know!
      Blessings, Lots of Love and Ongoing Creation Sparkles,
      Brenda

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    • 26. Public Display Name  |  March 3, 2018 at 7:35 am

      Thank you so much Christina for sharing this and hats off to you Warrior. 😘
      I went through a similar ‘last attempt from the darkside’-period just now. I’m starting to see a rainbow and got rid of a heavy burdensome load from a previous life. Got some help with getting rid of malicious ET-energy as well.
      Freedom at last. Enter abundance. Enter joy. Enter all things good. Enter my twin flame. Enter Heaven on Earth.
      Thanks to all Lightworkers, unsung heroes of Mother Earth. Sending love and blessings to all ❤️❤️❤️

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  • 27. Public Display Name  |  March 3, 2018 at 7:24 am

    Happy Birthday Brenda! 🦄💓❤️😍✨💐🌈💫🍾🎂
    Just like my sweet daughter and my dear godchild! 3 birthdays on 3/3, hurray!
    Enjoy your day, may all your wishes come true and sending you lots of love and blessings.
    Stefan

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    • 28. LifeTapestryCreations  |  March 3, 2018 at 3:55 pm

      Hi Stefan,
      NO WAY! All three of us on 3/3 and just discovered yet another 3/3 birthday. Give your daughter and godchild hugs from me on their special day and thank you so much for your greeting.
      Love Brenda

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      • 29. Public Display Name  |  March 3, 2018 at 6:45 pm

        Will do and very welcome Brenda. 😘

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    • 31. LifeTapestryCreations  |  March 4, 2018 at 3:20 pm

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  • 32. Delfina Gasoido  |  March 4, 2018 at 4:07 pm

    Oh dear Brenda, you have to excuse me, I had annotated your date birthday on my iphone, but I have not seen it until today… ;(
    So even if it’s a day later, let me congratulate you and wish you a wonderful year in which you will be able to manifest your most precious dreams.
    With all my love:
    Cristina

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    • 33. LifeTapestryCreations  |  March 4, 2018 at 4:19 pm

      Dear Cristina,
      Thank you for your birthday wishes and I’m extending them for all forever!!!! Love it and love you!
      Blessings, Lots of Love and Ongoing Creation Sparkles,
      Brenda

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