You’re Deliberately Creating Your Isolation

October 7, 2019 at 10:48 am 37 comments

Channeled by Brenda Hoffman for LifeTapestryCreations.com

Summary of Brenda’s October 4, 2019, channeled “Creation Energies” show at BlogTalkRadio.com/brenda-hoffman:  Perhaps you’re concerned about the chaos created by 3D world leaders. They’re displaying childish temper tantrums fully expecting you to acquiesce to their demands. You, in turn, merely wish to play. So it is you’ll be both the adult ignoring temper tantrums and the child more interested in play than the silliness of 3D world leaders. You’re now of the majority.

2020 Preparation is the title of last week’s “Brenda’s Blog” – her weekly channeled blog for LifeTapestryCreations.com.

Brenda’s “Creation Energies” show and “Brenda’s Blog” contain different channeled information.

Dear Ones,

The phrase, “You’re not alone.” has been bantered about the past few years.  Even though we, of the Universes, are dedicated to your growth, we are not you. Nor is anyone else. So in a sense, you are alone, not in terms of your actions, but in your emotions.

No matter how many of us are of your Universal support team, you are alone in the physical world. For likely, even those you love seem to be in such a different place emotionally, you cannot understand them or perhaps, wish to be around them.

So it is you feel alone – and frightened. For you never expected to feel thus when you initiated your journey of self-love. You assumed you would be welcomed by other humans with like interests and needs. Such has yet to happen. For as you extend further from your transition start-point, you feel more alone.

Of course, we could inform you that such is a mirage that has little to do with reality. In truth, loneliness has everything to do with your current reality. Think in terms of starting a new school looking for indicators of the correct behavior and words. In this phase of your transition, there are none to observe or to place your feelings of rightness, for you are the first to enter this school. There are no others like you in this new school. So it is you try this or that outfit, mock how others act, or try to relate to no avail. For even though others think you are in the right place with the right actions and words – for you are used to 3D pretending – your inner-compass is telling you that all is not well. You are lonely.

“Did I work this diligently to be alone, to be even more isolated than I was before I started this arduous transition journey? Why am I so alone?” Questions with no answers. For you want us to tell you that friends will miraculously appear tonight or tomorrow. Instead, we must inform you that you are the trendsetters. Something that does not feel accurate now, but will shortly.

You are no longer a follower, you are a leader.

Just as was true for most who invented everything from the wheel to computers, others are perhaps pooh-poohing your new being. For you are not like those with whom they are comfortable.

The difference between you and 3D inventors is that you are more prepared for this isolation than you realize. For if you note your reactions to others, you will discover you are isolating you instead of the traditional 3D action of indicating who is in or out of society.

You are creating your isolation. If we were to tell you that all you had to do to increase your friendship base would be to fit into society, you would laugh at us. For you already know how to do that.

You no longer choose to be in the circle of social rightness.

Perhaps you remember a recent time when you participated in a social group only to discover their conversation was boring. For you are a trendsetter for the first time since you entered the earth in any lifetime.

In past earth lives, many of you played roles such as a king or queen, political or religious leader, or wealthy being, which would seem to indicate you set the social trends. We beg to differ for you entered earth in that life as an adjunct to what was in place socially. You ensured you were in the right place at the right time. For if you were to study earth history, you would discover that even though leaders were at the forefront of rightness for the times, they were not the creator of those times. They slipped into the right spot for those times.

You, on the other hand, are now creating new social mores. Not because you need or even want to, but because such is part of your role in this new earth. The current social climate does not fit your new being, as can be noted through your disinterest with most social groups.

You are creating a new society of love. Something those following do not yet understand. So at times, you will find yourself snapping at those you love dearly knowing they are soon to follow. Much as you probably did with your younger siblings who could not understand your interest in dating or activities with your friends instead of playing with them as you once did.

You are perhaps wondering what this new society you are creating will look like. All we can relay is that you are creating this society as a result of your new self-love and joy needs.

Perhaps you will seem silly or frivolous to those following until they achieve a similar growth – or not. It does not matter. All that matters is that you know you are progressing exactly as you wish, and we expected. Allowing you, even forcing you, to change the social milieu instead of changing yourself to fit in as you have done all other earth lives.

What gives you joy? That is your only guideline as you shift earth from fear to love – one day at a time. And yet more rapidly than you now imagine. For 2020 is your new life in a new world. So be it. Amen.

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2020 Preparation The Sky is Changing, Not Falling

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  • 1. Ana Daksina  |  October 7, 2019 at 11:40 am

    Brilliant

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    • 2. LifeTapestryCreations  |  October 7, 2019 at 4:35 pm

      Thank you, Ana!!!!!

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      • 3. Ana Daksina  |  October 7, 2019 at 7:51 pm

        Thank YOU, my dear. Your work keeps us on track!

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      • 4. LifeTapestryCreations  |  October 8, 2019 at 10:36 am

        Hi Ana,
        They keep me on track too!
        Blessings, Lots of Love and Ongoing Creation Sparkles,
        Brenda

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      • 5. Ana Daksina  |  October 8, 2019 at 11:26 am

        🤗

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  • 6. Annika  |  October 7, 2019 at 11:44 am

    love it 😀 thank you ❤

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  • 8. caron_claire@videotron.ca  |  October 7, 2019 at 12:05 pm

    Hi Brenda! Oh! Loneliness… the history of my life! I can relate to this week’s blog of yours… 100% and to what you say : ‘ Allowing you, even forcing you, to change the social milieu instead of changing yourself to fit in as you have done all other earth lives’. I am not sure I am changing the social milieu but I’am not willing to change myself to fit in!! Yet, Saturdays after Saturdays, weeks after weeks, apart from my close family, I find myself with myself, letting the strong energies of the day operate its magic! Not much wear and tear on my wardrobe’s finery! I’m learning to let go of expectations… We cannot help a flower grow by pulling it… things will come in due time!

    Thank you!

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    • 9. LifeTapestryCreations  |  October 7, 2019 at 4:38 pm

      Dear Claire,
      I so agree! And find myself home much more than I used to be – and loving it!
      Blessings, Lots of Love and Ongoing Creation Sparkles,
      Brenda

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  • 10. BonnieHD  |  October 7, 2019 at 12:40 pm

    Thank you, Brenda! I needed to read this! It has been so puzzling to find myself isolated when I am acutely aware of the tremendous beauty that is the truth for each person I encounter. It is most encouraging to understand better what is happening. I will go forward with greater confidence.

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    • 11. LifeTapestryCreations  |  October 7, 2019 at 4:39 pm

      Dear Bonnie,
      This week’s channel better helped me understand myself too!
      Blessings, Lots of Love and Ongoing Creation Sparkles,
      Brenda

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  • 12. Finn  |  October 7, 2019 at 2:02 pm

    “2020 is your new life in a new world” !! – Oh boy, – can we wait to get there? We must! – Is there enough joy to keep us going until 2020? There has to be! – Let’s do this epic journey everyone.

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    • 13. LifeTapestryCreations  |  October 7, 2019 at 4:41 pm

      Dear Finn,
      WE’RE DOING IT!!!!!!!! Nothing and no one has stopped us yet. Courageous souls all.
      Blessings, Lots of Love and Ongoing Creation Sparkles,
      Brenda

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  • 14. crystalsunclear  |  October 7, 2019 at 2:20 pm

    My Mom would always say as I was young…”Don’t you want to go out and play with your friends?” No matter how hard I tried to make her understand…my friends are always here with me Mom…she has now passed and she Now understands, we never leave Home and Heaven is always right where we are, we’re reminding everyone of that and leading them there, One heart at a time.

    “You are creating your isolation. If we were to tell you that all you had to do to increase your friendship base would be to fit into society, you would laugh at us. For you already know how to do that.”

    So hubby and I have created our ideal isolation in a beautiful forest in Southern Colorado on 125 acres where we can BE the natural US/WE came to BE to see where all this Love Flow..er Power takes us from here or to here, whichever way you look at it. We are waiting on the last inspections for our certificate of occupancy. The house we now live in goes on the market as soon after we leave; to literally leave the old for the new! So much more pure there, that I find it literally beyond words, like a new world. Like what you feel in your enclosed porch Brenda or when we are all out in nature, the natural forest bathing or Shinrin Yoku. Thank you to all of this community of living/laughing/loving for bringing forth and being who and what you truly are in the Here and Now. ^_^

    Peace, Love and Blessings,
    Crystal 🙂

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    • 15. LifeTapestryCreations  |  October 7, 2019 at 4:44 pm

      Dear Crystal,
      Your joy shines through your words. How glorious that you’ve found your new home and that your husband shares your joy. You’re a beacon of joy for us all!!!
      Blessings, Lots of Love and Ongoing Creation Sparkles,
      Brenda
      PS You were definitely wise beyond your years before it was COOL!

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    • 16. elizabethsadhu  |  October 8, 2019 at 10:12 am

      I was thinking some more about all this. I remember playing outside as a kid and loving it up into about age 10.

      After that I never could figure out how to fit in. I always found so many things funny and not everyone had my same sense of humor. I just didn’t get the societal shit. I still don’t.

      I found being alone very satisfying. Still do.

      And in my work life I seriously did not know the “proper” ways to act. I would not shut up if I saw any Injustice and so I ended up losing several jobs. But I knew I could not live with myself if I didn’t speak up. And I was the HR Manager, so you would think they would want to hear it from me. NO!

      Crystal….. It is awesome that you have found your beautiful place to live and your hubby is with you 100%! Yay!!!

      Loving us all.

      Thanks to Brenda for bringing all of us alone people together. ☺️☺️☺️♥️♥️♥️☺️☺️♥️♥️♥️

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      • 17. LifeTapestryCreations  |  October 8, 2019 at 10:47 am

        Dear Sweetie,
        I have a similar sense of humor and need for justice – as I saw it. One of my co-workers called me a professional change agent as my comments forced a number of companies to look at issues they didn’t necessarily want to address. Until I shifted into corporate marketing offices of the largest hospital system in Minneapolis, my humor was one of my assets. I discovered that the corporate world isn’t as enamored of humor as is social services. It appears as we both discovered that silly and creating is a lot more fun than fear and questioning the rightness of statements and actions.
        Blessings, Lots of Love and Ongoing Creation Sparkles,
        Brenda

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      • 18. elizabethsadhu  |  October 8, 2019 at 11:00 am

        Amen, sister, amen!!! Here’s to silly and laughter and joy!

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      • 19. LifeTapestryCreations  |  October 8, 2019 at 2:28 pm

        Silly, laughter, and joy it is!

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      • 20. crystalsunclear  |  October 8, 2019 at 12:52 pm

        Thanks Elizabeth for all the kind words and upliftment!

        We are the proper way and they do not love it! He, he. LOL.
        We have been speaking up all our lives and making changes wherever we go, i.e. the change bringers!

        So just be Joy and continue living, laughing, and loving!

        Smiles,
        Crystal 🙂

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      • 21. elizabethsadhu  |  October 8, 2019 at 1:03 pm

        Wooooohoooooo!!!!! Love to us all!

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  • 22. Delfina Gasoido  |  October 7, 2019 at 3:19 pm

    AMÉN!!! 🙏🏻

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    • 23. LifeTapestryCreations  |  October 7, 2019 at 4:47 pm

      Hi Cristina,
      Told ya! You’re definitely on track for 2020 and beyond – and always have been.
      Blessings, Lots of Love and Ongoing Creation Energies,
      Brenda

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      • 24. Delfina Gasoido  |  October 14, 2019 at 3:13 am

        OMG, Dear Brenda!!, I hope so!!!.
        Although I still doubt, lately I have many dreams of losing trains, climbing a ladder that is full of broken and debris, not knowing the exam questions, wanting to call someone and not finding my phone …. I think it’s my subconscious concerned not to be prepared enough to make the leap …
        Love
        Cristina

        By the way, the system does not let me “like” the comments

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      • 25. LifeTapestryCreations  |  October 14, 2019 at 11:24 am

        Dear Cristina,
        I haven’t had such dreams for a few months now but two dreams I’ve had frequently through the years: final exams in classes I hadn’t bothered to attend or even knew about; or being in the middle of campus with no clothing. I don’t know why those dreams were repeated so often and then seemingly disappeared, but I figure I must have cleared whatever fears those dreams represented. When I was young, my frequent dream was that I could take a flying leap and fly. I wish that dream would not have disappeared!
        Blessings, Lots of Love and Ongoing Creation Sparkles,
        Brenda
        PS. Of course, you’ll make the leap as will we all. We’re here for that leap. Just think of all we’ve achieved so far, shifting ourselves and helping earth shift to 5D. WOW. Let’s let the decorators do their job while we find our joy. Sounds good and right to me.

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      • 26. LifeTapestryCreations  |  October 14, 2019 at 11:25 am

        PPS Cristina, I noted this morning that you had liked a comment so maybe it shows up on my computer, but not yours???

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  • 27. Eliza Ayres  |  October 7, 2019 at 3:41 pm

    Reblogged this on Blue Dragon Journal.

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  • 29. elizabethsadhu  |  October 8, 2019 at 9:29 am

    Reblogged this on elizabethsadhu and commented:
    Thanks dearest Brenda! I can really relate to this. I would much rather be alone than do any of the societal things.

    “You are perhaps wondering what this new society you are creating will look like. All we can relay is that you are creating this society as a result of your new self-love and joy needs.

    Perhaps you will seem silly or frivolous to those following until they achieve a similar growth – or not. It does not matter. All that matters is that you know you are progressing exactly as you wish, and we expected. Allowing you, even forcing you, to change the social milieu instead of changing yourself to fit in as you have done all other earth lives.”

    I am laughing because one of my hashtags is #cultivatesilly and so many people don’t get my humor. Oh well. More will……

    Thank you so much!

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    • 30. LifeTapestryCreations  |  October 8, 2019 at 10:38 am

      Thank you so much, Sweetie, for reblogging my channel on ElizabethSadhu elizabethsadhu.wordpress.com

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  • 31. dreamweaver333  |  October 8, 2019 at 6:28 pm

    Reblogged this on dreamweaver333.

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    • 32. LifeTapestryCreations  |  October 10, 2019 at 7:21 pm

      Thank you so much, for reblogging my channel on Dreamweaver333 dreamweaver333.com

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  • 33. Marta  |  October 9, 2019 at 8:46 pm

    Dear Brenda,

    Indeed it was a journey of not fitting in the fear matrix, not even amongst our relatives. Later on, many of us didn’t even want to as we’ve been vibrating Love all this time.

    Thank you Brenda and the Light Beings

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    • 34. LifeTapestryCreations  |  October 10, 2019 at 7:24 pm

      Dear Marta,
      Isn’t it amazing and fascinating how we shifted from not fitting in the fear matrix to not even wanting to? We’ve come so far and have changed so much – even if we don’t always realize that such is so!
      Blessings, Lots of Love and Ongoing Creation Sparkles,
      Brenda

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      • 35. Marta  |  October 10, 2019 at 11:09 pm

        Yes, didn’t even want to when we realize what it was all about.

        Blessings! 🌀🐬

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  • 36. heartlightdg  |  October 13, 2019 at 7:41 pm

    I just got around to reading this. Wow. Probably when you were channeling this, I was writing to a friend across the country about feeling extremely isolated, a word I don’t believe I’ve used like that before. I feel cut off from those of like mind, from those I could have in-depth discussions in person with about what matters to me, about what fills my being with the joy, about the stretching of self as we go through this evolutionary time. Sure, I have a lot of friends on a similar path but we are no where near each other geographically. As for the rest, I don’t fit in, don’t enjoy shallow conversations, can’t relate to most people anymore, and don’t care to try to fit in or squeeze myself into the boxes around here that might allow more social interactions. Thus, the feelings of extreme isolation. Sometimes I miss what I used to have, but I would never want to go backwards to the old me. This is just an IS right now.

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    • 37. LifeTapestryCreations  |  October 14, 2019 at 11:12 am

      Dear Heartlightdog,
      And so it is. Amen!
      Blessings, Lots of Love and Ongoing Creation Sparkles,
      Brenda

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