Honesty is the New Social Game

August 16, 2021 at 9:44 am 27 comments

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Channeled by Brenda Hoffman for Life Tapestry Creations.com

“Stop. Rest. Play. Push the Easy Button” is the title of last week’s “Brenda’s Blog” – her weekly channeled blog for Life Tapestry Creations.com.

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Dear Ones,

Your need to be the shining light of your environments, friends, and family was important in 3D but is no longer. You are now shining from the inside-out instead of the outside-in.

Most of your 3D life was thinking or stating, “Look at me, aren’t I special?”

Perhaps you object to that last thought. Believing you are shy or introverted, so you never tried to grab attention. We beg to differ. Even if you were an introvert, you required approval from family, teachers, friends, lovers, co-workers, and supervisors.

Three-D society is based on outer approval. “Am I my parents’ favorite?” “Do the neighborhood kids like me?” “Am I lovable?” “Does my supervisor like me enough to promote me?” “Do my kids even like me?” And on and on throughout your 3D life.

Thoughts that encouraged you to be who others needed you to be, whether you were an introvert or extrovert. The 3D social spectrum needed affirmation from others in ways you probably have difficulties remembering now that you are in the midst of your new you transition.

In 3D, you performed. In your new world, you exist.

It no longer matters how popular you were or are. You are on a unique path in a unique time. Others you once performed for are not that important to you. And those concerned about how little you are now adding to their lives are likely moving to new relationships.

There is no need for you to perform – doing so will confuse others. Just as you are discovering new you, so are they. In that discovery process, all of you are developing an honesty antenna.

The old social games are outdated. The new social game is honesty. “Who are you?” is becoming as important to others as it is to you.

The new interactions you find interesting enough to maintain are based on your inner-truth instead of inner-shoulds.

Because of your 3D need to be loved, respected, and accepted by others, you jumped through emotional hoops that may or may not have been who you wanted to be. Those hoops have been removed so your interests, needs, and companions are no longer forged by your need to belong.

The 3D social games are over.

Some might play those 3D games for a while because doing so is expected or comfortable. Even so, those of you enmeshed in your new being will no longer be interested. Much as an older sibling is not interested in their younger sibling’s toys.

The need to please is over.

Your new need is to honor your feelings, your being.

We, of the Universes, have previously discussed your 3D need to please others. But when we did so, you were not necessarily aware of how many of your daily actions were dedicated to ensuring others loved or respected you. Now that those heavy 3D burdens are lifting, you are discovering how different you are from who you once thought you were.

Even the new segments you added to your former 3D being were selected to highlight who you truly are instead of changing you.

The uniqueness you enhanced by adventures throughout the Universes for eons is finally shining brightly in this new world.

New you is your truth, not society’s truth as happened in 3D.

For most of you, it does not matter if this or that person cares for you. It is a revelation as surprising to you as those you once catered to hoping they would accept you in whatever form you needed.

Catering to anyone is becoming almost abhorrent to you forerunners. In your workplace, you did this and this because you needed or wanted the job. Now that you have had downtime to review your needs, you are finding it difficult to jump through those hoops. You want the freedom to be. Such is difficult, if not impossible, in a 3D environment.

So it is you are saying goodbye to conformity – as much as you dare – and hello to the creativity of freedom.

Of course, our flippant remarks do not pay your rent nor buy your food. But as you claim your new being, you will discover you do not care as much as you once did to conform or perform.

You are not a trained seal as 3D society encouraged, even forced you to be. In 3D, you’re born. You attend school. You work. You create love relationships that most often produce children who you hope care enough about you to care for you in old age. And then you die. All the while depending on others to love, entertain, pay for your life, and care for you.

Even though not everyone creates that 3D life model, it is the goal of 3D children.

The new developing you is more like, “This is who I am and what I’m interested in. I hope I find someone with similar interests because that would make my life more fun. But if I don’t, it doesn’t matter because my days are filled with my interests.”

You are the new model. You are the shimmering, shining example of what is possible, even expected of every being entering earth from now on.

You are new, as are your expectations and those who wish to transition. No longer is there a need to say this or that to attract others, whether it be playmates, employers, lovers, or even your children.

You are you in all your new glory, never again to return to pleasing others as you have done for 3D earth eons. You are free, and so is everyone. So be it. Amen.

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    • 2. LifeTapestryCreations  |  August 16, 2021 at 12:51 pm

      Thank you so much for sharing my channel with your MENSAGENS e PENSAMENTOS followers. mensagensepensamentos.wordpress.com

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  • 3. elizabethsadhu  |  August 16, 2021 at 1:02 pm

    Dearest Brenda—Oh my gosh, I can’t tell you how perfect this is.

    I’ve been working on less shoulding on myself…….<3 ❤ ❤ And Jim and I were just talking about this yesterday.
    "The new interactions you find interesting enough to maintain are based on your inner-truth instead of inner-shoulds."

    Thank you so so so much!!!!

    Love you tons and tons and
    loving us all!

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    • 4. LifeTapestryCreations  |  August 16, 2021 at 1:08 pm

      Dear Sweetie,
      Those darn shoulds keep popping up at the most unexpected times, don’t they? The Covid downtime has helped me immensely to discover more of myself, but even so, every once in a while, I find myself doing or saying something that is more 3D than a representation of my true being. And so we evolve.
      Blessings, Lots of Love and Ongoing Creation Sparkles,
      Brenda

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      • 5. elizabethsadhu  |  August 16, 2021 at 2:44 pm

        Yes yes yes. I’m going to keep that easy button in my head and also keep asking, “are you shoulding on yourself?”

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  • 6. janis´¯`·.¸ʚįɞ  |  August 16, 2021 at 2:00 pm

    Thank you, Brenda!
    I listened to you on Spotify for the first time today. I really like hearing your voice so, since you’re not on blogtalkradio anymore, I really appreciate the Spotify audio platform you’ve added!
    So glad your eye surgery brought you such improved vision, Brenda!
    Have a wonderful week! ❤

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    • 7. Inma  |  August 17, 2021 at 1:19 pm

      😍❤️

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      • 8. LifeTapestryCreations  |  August 17, 2021 at 7:15 pm

        Dear Inma,
        Thank you so much for letting me know that you enjoyed my Spotify blog reading. As I told Janis, I’m feeling more and more comfortable doing so. My former BlogTalk shows were easy; I just started channeling, not knowing what I would channel. Interestingly, a few months ago, I felt that I didn’t have enough new information for two channels (BlogTalk and Brenda’s Blog) a week. Who knows, I might return to BlogTalk at some point, but for now, my BlogTalk channel feels like it’s in the past. So many changes for all of us.
        Blessings, Lots of Love and Ongoing Creation Sparkles,
        Brenda

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      • 9. janis´¯`·.¸ʚįɞ  |  August 23, 2021 at 3:35 am

        ❤ Inma ❤

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    • 10. LifeTapestryCreations  |  August 17, 2021 at 2:36 pm

      Hi Janis,
      Thank you for taking the time to listen to Spotify. I’m getting more comfortable using Spotify weekly. As for my eyes – YAY!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! Now I’m wondering if my lack of 3D vision will be rectified – maybe I’ll be able to catch a ball just like everyone else!!! Now I’m wondering how my new eyesight is connected to my new me. What are you noting in your new life?? This time is a bit like a kid in a candy store, isn’t it? “I don’t want that. I want this!” Cool.
      Blessings, Lots of Love and Ongoing Creation Sparkles,
      Brenda

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      • 11. janis´¯`·.¸ʚįɞ  |  August 23, 2021 at 3:34 am

        Ohhh, thank you for your response, Brenda! I’m still somewhat in a holding pattern. I’d be interested to hear as you realize just how your new eyesight does connect to your new you!
        ❤ Bren ❤

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      • 12. LifeTapestryCreations  |  August 23, 2021 at 11:58 am

        Hi Janis,
        I’m curious about my new eyesight also. And other than my eye surgeries, I’m in a holding pattern too, but that feels so right now.
        Blessings, Lots of Love, and Ongoing Creation Sparkles,
        Brenda

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      • 13. LifeTapestryCreations  |  August 25, 2021 at 3:11 pm

        Dear Janis,
        I’m in a physical holding pattern, but I recently noted an odd color spot in the crook of one tree in my right eye that seems to have been a sign of spiritual beings. And my dreams have included specific double numbers. I’ll keep you all posted.
        Blessings, Lots of Love and Ongoing Creation Sparkles,
        Brenda

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  • 14. Finn  |  August 16, 2021 at 2:09 pm

    ” You are not a trained seal as 3D society encouraged, even forced you to be. ”

    Indeed; – I actually back then in 3D felt very much like a carousel horse mounted on a post; going up and down and round and round in endless circles; and I was darned if I did and darned if I did’nt !! Later on; I fortunately managed to escape the carousel; which hopefully everyone will do; sooner or later. – Thanks again Brenda, much continued support and love to you and to Everyone, stay safe now.

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    • 15. LifeTapestryCreations  |  August 17, 2021 at 2:41 pm

      Dear Finn,
      I didn’t even fully understand how programmed I was. I just knew when something didn’t feel right, but I thought it was me because all I knew was a 3D life I didn’t quite fit within.

      What a joyous time. We’re exiting the carousels and creating what feels right for us.
      Blessings, Lots of Love and Ongoing Creation Sparkles,
      Brenda

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  • 16. angelesdecrystal  |  August 16, 2021 at 5:52 pm

    Reblogged this on Mensajes Galácticos.

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    • 17. LifeTapestryCreations  |  August 17, 2021 at 6:59 pm

      As always, Angelesdecrystal, thank you so much for sharing my channel with your MENSAJES GALACTICOS readers. mensajesgalacticos.wordpress.com

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  • 18. karena  |  August 17, 2021 at 11:41 am

    Hi Brenda. Your writings always speak directly to my experience, and I usually assume it’s a generational thing. They’re always right on. This one is SO fantastic I had to connect and say – YES! This so describes Who I’ve become. It’s super exciting, and I don’t have to describe it or strive to be it – I already AM it! Thanks for all You do and all You Are !! Love2U!n. Karena

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    • 19. LifeTapestryCreations  |  August 17, 2021 at 7:03 pm

      Dear Karena,
      I feel the same way. No striving, pretending or forcing. We can finally push the easy button after earth eons of working so hard to be accepted and loved.
      Blessings, Love Back 2U, and So Many Ongoing Creation Sparkles,
      Brenda

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  • 20. pleiadian144  |  August 17, 2021 at 12:11 pm

    “This is who I am and what I’m interested in. I hope I find someone with similar interests because that would make my life more fun. But if I don’t, it doesn’t matter because my days are filled with my interests.”
    This is spot on!! Thank you Brenda!

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    • 21. LifeTapestryCreations  |  August 17, 2021 at 7:06 pm

      Dear Pleiadian144,
      YES!!!! For you and all of us!!! The freedom and need to be.
      Blessings, Lots of Love and Ongoing Creation Sparkles,
      Brenda

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  • 22. Inma  |  August 17, 2021 at 1:34 pm

    Dear Brenda,

    You can’t imagine how much I’ve enjoyed your channel. It’s like a funny self-portrait. I couldn’t help smiling all throughout it, especially the first several paragrahs.

    Yes, I am being myself and it often surprises me, not to mention others…

    “The need to please is over.
    Your new need is to honor your feelings, your being“

    Among other things, being myself is sweeping lots of fears I’ve been feeding for too long. No all the work is done yet, but I’m really enjoying all the steps.

    Thank you so much, as always.

    Lots of Love,

    Inma

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    • 23. LifeTapestryCreations  |  August 17, 2021 at 7:18 pm

      Dear Inma,
      I’m surprising myself and my husband, Dave, also. I love that you’re discovering and sweeping away fears. Kudos and more kudos, Inma. We’re all evolving more rapidly than we know.
      Blessings, Lots of Love and Ongoing Creation Sparkles,
      Brenda

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  • 24. Michael  |  August 17, 2021 at 3:46 pm

    Thanks once again Brenda, and You of the Universes. It’s very nice to read another harmonious segment of your channels. It’s a new day, a new week, for me a new beginning. Instead of riding into the sunset, it’s like looking into the sunrise.

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    • 25. LifeTapestryCreations  |  August 17, 2021 at 7:20 pm

      Dear Michael,
      Your phrase, “Instead of riding into the sunset, it’s like looking into the sunrise” is so beautiful and so appropriate for where we are. Thank you!!!!!!
      Blessings, Lots of Love and Ongoing Creation Sparkles,
      Brenda

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  • 26. Karen  |  August 18, 2021 at 3:57 pm

    Thank you for this Brenda as I so needed the supportive understanding. I attempted to start a (temp) job this morning at a recycling center. The outside of the building was less than appealing as well as pungent smelling. I told myself, give it a try, the office area will probably be different. NOT. The smell, even in the building was so offensive even as I wore my mask. Had to go to the bathroom, which was filthy. I came back and told the lady owner that I just can’t do this job, that I am sensitive to smells (which I am) and it’s just too overwhelming for me. I was only there 40 minutes. Have to laugh (now) and found it amusing that I spoke up for myself, something I never really did in the past. This time it was a no-brainer…I absolutely HAD to speak up for myself.

    I am SO thankful for the guidance to understand this situation that came through this message for me. Interesting how the situation had to be so “strong” in order for me to speak up for myself.

    Heartfelt thank yous to you and your guides.

    Karen

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    • 27. LifeTapestryCreations  |  August 21, 2021 at 2:26 pm

      Dear Karen,
      What an empowering message. Thank you. Kudos and more kudos for daring to stand up for yourself!!!! I’m so proud of you. YAY!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
      Blessings, Lots of Love and Ongoing Creation Sparkles,
      Brenda

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