This Isn’t Rocket Science

September 5, 2022 at 10:52 am 10 comments

Channeled by Brenda Hoffman for Life Tapestry

“Who Do You Want to Be Today?” is the title of last week’s “Brenda’s Blog” – her weekly channeled blog for

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Dear Ones,

You helped shift the earth and personally transitioned far beyond 3D. Yet, you feel small instead of powerful or commanding.

You feel you have given up so much of your life – and for what?

Such is to be expected. A 3D infant does not feel powerful once birthed to 3D earth. Someone needs to feed, bathe, and change them. Even if that infant cries in emotional or physical pain, they do so, hoping someone will care for their needs. ThreeD infants have little power other than their dependency.

As a 3D adult, you also had minimum power without the assistance of others. No matter how creative your art, inventions, activities, or actions were, you depended on others to purchase, observe, or participate. Even though some of you became hermits, you relied on others for necessities such as food, gas, hunting equipment, tools, etc.

You are now shifting in reverse. You have the power of your life but do not yet understand how to use that power. It is as if you are crying for someone to feed you or change your diaper even though you are qualified to do so yourself.

You are no longer beholden to anyone or anything. A concept that is freeing but also frightening. For it means you are, in a sense, an isolated being. A concept you have fought against for 3D eons. Even though you no longer need to follow shoulds, you do not know what or who to follow.

The answer to that last statement is very simple; you are to follow yourself.

Following yourself does not mean you are stuck without interactions or companionship, but instead that you are more discerning than you were in 3D. For if you feel uncomfortable in a situation, that situation is no longer part of your being.

That last sentence means activities, people, and places you once held dear are no longer. A concept you have acted upon many times in the past few years in preparation for now.

With emotional pain, you shed family and friends who no longer felt comfortable fully expecting those empty slots to be filled with more compatible beings. Instead, you are once again deep within a shedding process.

The difference now is you cannot comprehend how you will replace those pieces of your heart that once seemed full. You are tired, empty, and beginning to believe this is your new life. A new life with as many do not and cannot feelings as was true when you first started shedding friends and relatives years or months ago.

So it is you are frightened and angry at yourself and the Universes with an inner cry of “Where’s my stuff, where are my people?”

This shedding process has been and likely continues to be quite painful because a large part of your 3D worth was based on your human connections and interactions. You now feel as if no one wants to play with you, or stated a bit differently, no one wants to play like you.

This shedding, this gutting of your 3D being, is more difficult than you anticipated before entering the earth in this lifetime. The first shedding wave that happened years or months ago was relatively easy compared to now. Those you first sent on their way were part of you but not as deeply ingrained as those you are currently shedding. So you feel as if you have nothing or no one left. As if you are by yourself on a desert island.

Even if you maintain some relationships, those relationships are not the intense relationships you once had. As if they are beings swimming around your heart, but not necessarily within your heart. You are lonely and alone. And despite this time being a prelude to your new life with new interactions, you are having difficulties believing such is so.

You are now ready for new interactions, for you have emptied your vessel of those beings and actions that are no longer part of your current life. By doing so, you are slowly discovering new interests that do not require interactions with 3D beings.

Even though you purchase food and clothing and likely remain in the same or similar physical community, your needs no longer include pretending to accept statements or actions to feel accepted.

Not playing that 3D exchange game is your discomfort, for you have yet to discover that you can exist on the earth without doing so. That you do not have to pander to or condone to maintain a friendship or action that no longer holds much interest. You are new and fresh, looking for new interactions in which you do not need to trade your inner being needs for companionship or any activity you once held dear.

You are new, finally allowing yourself to interact between dimensions, frequencies, and the rightness of being within you. You no longer have to wear the right clothes, say the right things, or live in the right environment to be part of a community you are partially comfortable with.

You are you. And the more you project that independence of being, the more easily you will adapt to new you – and find others of similar interests.

This shift is not rocket science; it is merely claiming yourself no matter how unlike 3D you it feels. You are no longer of 3D, and neither is the earth. So be it. Amen. To receive Brenda’s Blog, subscribe via Or, click the Subscribe Button on the upper part of her “Blog & Subscribe” website page ( and click the – Subscribe to Brenda’s Blog by E-mail – line. Complete your subscription by entering your e-mail address and accepting the e-mail confirmation. 

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10 Comments Add your own

  • 1. marybogdan  |  September 5, 2022 at 12:29 pm

    Yes, “claiming yourself!” That’s it! That says it all for me! Thank you, Brenda! 🎈🦋

    Liked by 2 people

    • 2. LifeTapestryCreations  |  September 5, 2022 at 12:37 pm

      Dear Mary,
      I suppose this is our “Hello ME!” moment.
      Blessings, Lots of Love, and Ongoing Creation Sparkles,

      Liked by 3 people

      • 3. marybogdan  |  September 5, 2022 at 1:31 pm

        Yes, that’s really what it feels like! Falling in love (again), with myself! Feels so good! Thank you for all inspiring words! 🎈🌻

        Liked by 4 people

    • 5. LifeTapestryCreations  |  September 6, 2022 at 6:01 pm

      As always, thank you so much for sharing this week’s channel with your MENSAGENS e PENSAMETOS readers.


  • 6. elizabethfarwell  |  September 6, 2022 at 2:53 pm

    Love it. Thank you dearest Brenda.

    So much has shifted for me and I’m wallowing a bit in my solitude. Loving it.

    We’ll see what comes next. I get inklings but mostly I just let those thoughts drift on by.
    I’ll know when I know. 💜💜🥳🥳😉😉💜💜

    Love you tons!

    Loving us all

    Liked by 2 people

    • 7. LifeTapestryCreations  |  September 6, 2022 at 6:04 pm

      Dear Sweetie,
      It seems that so much has shifted for me sometimes, and then a few minutes later as if all is the same. I love your comment, “I’ll know when I know.” And so it is.
      Blessings, Lots of Love, and Ongoing Creation Sparkles,

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  • 9. karena  |  September 7, 2022 at 11:38 am

    It definitely feels like it’s a taking back of our/my Power from all those who have forever told us what we NEED. I’m feeling it so powerfully right now – how we’ve been disempowered and manipulated through fear by others (the system of accepted beliefs in the 3D world) telling us what we need. And you said it – our “INNER BEING” NEEDS – and only we know what that is – moment to moment. So yes, it’s a re-claiming of OurSelves – and saying no more to anyone or anything that tries to hold us back from Who We Are!!! Grrrrrr. Roarrrrr. YES ! ! ! xooxoox

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    • 10. LifeTapestryCreations  |  September 8, 2022 at 3:20 pm

      Dear Karena,
      Yup! “Hear us Roarrrr!”

      “So yes, it’s a re-claiming of OurSelves – and saying no more to anyone or anything that tries to hold us back from Who We Are!!! Grrrrrr. Roarrrrr. YES ! ! !”
      Blessings, Lots of Love, and Ongoing Creation Sparkles,

      Liked by 2 people


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