You’re the Adult

September 12, 2022 at 11:33 am 13 comments

Channeled by Brenda Hoffman for Life Tapestry

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Dear Ones,

It is time to divert your attention from what was to what will be.

Many of you follow and believe in the world chaos reported through your media. You bemoan this fearful action and that angry statement believing there is nothing else to discuss.

Of course, such is not true. You have merely retained your bad news eyeglasses. So you enjoy watching the chaos instead of observing the love peeping out worldwide.

Perhaps you believe that the last statement is false, that nothing loving is displayed or will be displayed. Or maybe you decided to wait until love is fully evident before you end your belief in the worst world outcome. It does not matter because, with or without your support, the earth has moved into a loving stance.

The difference is you have not. Perhaps you believe you will switch from fear and anger to love when this happens in your life or is displayed via your media. Maybe you do not believe a loving life is possible while of earth. It does not matter.

All that matters is that you are not fulfilling your personal needs for love.

The earth shifted beyond 3D. In so doing, the earth needs to spin off the fear and rage that has been building for eons. So it is that the minority of earth humans who now promote fear and rage are spinning faster and faster. Encouraging those of you accepting minority fear-mongering to believe they are the dominant earthlings.

Love is always gentler and, most often, less noisy than fear.

So the current earth love is a peaceful sensation that seems to be dominated by fear and rage. The earth can be equated to a parent observing their toddler display a public temper tantrum. That parent has three choices – to allow the temper tantrum, to divert the toddler’s attention with more appropriate action, or capitulate to the toddler’s demands. Those of you following the news with fear or anger are, in a sense, yielding to the toddler’s demands.

Those earth beings who wish to remain of 3D are not going quietly into the night. Their 3D behavior was always much like a toddler’s, as was true for all earth beings when the earth was of 3D.

Of course, you may respond, “This or that 3D action is so unfair or wrong.” And you would be correct in a loving world. But those behaviors you find so offensive are merely 3D actions magnified a bit. Not a lot – just a bit. For what you are now observing has always been. You were merely so enmeshed in 3D that you could not notice – or might have been the instigator of similar actions.

Differences are only highlighted when there are two or more opposing viewpoints. Now that you have transitioned beyond 3D, the actions you might have once been part of seem inappropriate. That is not to say you were not enraged by similar activities in the past, but that you had no recourse. You were the toddler waiting for your parent to decide what action to take.

You have since become the adult. What do you want to do? What have you been doing with the temper tantrums of those remaining in the 3D mode? What are you going to do? Those are your action plans.

There is no right action for you are an independent being with skills and interests beyond 3D. But if you elect to remain within the realms of 3D tantrums, your current fear and rage will continue for some time.

ThreeD temper tantrums are becoming less appealing – as would be true if your toddler had several tantrums a day. Those who wish to remain of 3D are displaying what little power they retain with problematic behavior. It is your choice how you react to that behavior. If you decide to focus on that 3D behavior, you will expand the amount of time you are uncomfortable. If you ignore that 3D behavior, you will have the energy to turn to issues of interest and, yes, joy.

Let the toddlers throw their temper tantrums. They will do so whether or not you pay attention. But the less attention those 3D toddlers receive for their tantrums, the fewer tantrums you will observe. And the less 3D activity in which you will be enmeshed. So be it. Amen. To receive Brenda’s Blog, subscribe via Or, click the Subscribe Button on the upper part of her “Blog & Subscribe” website page ( and click the – Subscribe to Brenda’s Blog by E-mail – line. Complete your subscription by entering your e-mail address and accepting the e-mail confirmation. 

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13 Comments Add your own

  • 1. Inma  |  September 12, 2022 at 11:50 am

    Dear Brenda,
    Thank you for this clarifying message. It’s a perfect depiction of the best reminder in this seemingly tumultous time. I love the simile of the parent and the toddler.
    Lots of love,

    Liked by 2 people

    • 2. LifeTapestryCreations  |  September 13, 2022 at 2:53 pm

      Dear Inma,
      The parent and toddler image clarified so much for me also. What an interesting time to be alive on earth!
      Blessings, Lots of Love, and Ongoing Creation Sparkles,

      Liked by 1 person

  • 3. Ana Daksina  |  September 12, 2022 at 11:55 am

    It does seem that a critical mass has been reached. In the past, ignoring serious torment encouraged it, and now it seems to discourage it instead. A subtle change but a very powerful one.


    • 4. LifeTapestryCreations  |  September 13, 2022 at 2:56 pm

      Dear Ana,
      Our new world seems almost the opposite of our 3D world. Yet, we’re preserving and indeed, starting to thrive. YES!
      Blessings, Lots of Love, and Ongoing Creation Sparkles,


      • 5. Ana Daksina  |  September 13, 2022 at 3:57 pm

        Just one step at a time, I think so.

        In meditating on your subject this week I realized that I so habitually do indeed ignore provocation that even at moments of agonizing physical and emotional suffering I’ve been told later that I’d been evaluated by strangers as “serene.”

        I’ve realized with much relief that in no instance, including simply calling my tormentors on their actions either privately or publicly, have I done so in any other effort but for the greatest good of all in that situation ~ notably for control and containment of potentially very destructive ones.

        Nor, I’ve noticed also, is it suddenly that willfull ignorance is the sole effective method for remaining afloat amid the increasing turbulence about us ~ but that the balance has shifted toward it’s effectiveness in some very tangible ways.

        The metaphor of the dark elements spinning faster because they’re actually losing grip is an awesome one, as are so many with which you equip us.

        Thrive for all of us, darling!


      • 6. LifeTapestryCreations  |  September 14, 2022 at 3:20 pm

        Dear Ana,
        We’re all thriving as we begin to remember who we truly are – fun, joyful, loving sparklers.

        Can you imagine how lonely and frightened those fully enmeshed in 3D must be or soon will be? Their role selection is helping us tremendously by showing us what we don’t want. But I’m pleased I didn’t opt for the 3D route in this lifetime.

        Blessings, Lots of Love, and Ongoing Creation Sparkles,


      • 7. Ana Daksina  |  September 14, 2022 at 4:54 pm

        Oh, darlin’ ~ if I hadn’t kept it strictly in the front of my mind that my tormentor’s path is an even more miserable one than the one he carves out for me, by now, I would have lost my marbles completely!

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  • 8. Kim  |  September 12, 2022 at 1:41 pm

    It’s absolutely crazy times out there. It’s difficult not to pay attention to it. I completely get why I shouldn’t, however. Some days it’s incredibly easy to turn my consciousness to the things my higher heart wants me to observe, and some days it’s an up hill battle with nothing but obstacles in the way trying to keep my consciousness out of the 3D realm and in my higher heart instead. It is a journey. No doubt about it. One moment at a time is all that can be done, with a whole lot of self Love and self forgiveness involved along the way. One moment at a time… 😌✌🏼♥️


    • 9. LifeTapestryCreations  |  September 13, 2022 at 3:02 pm

      Dear Kim,
      You’re describing me and I’m assuming many others, “Some days it’s incredibly easy to turn my consciousness to the things my higher heart wants me to observe, and some days it’s an uphill battle.” But as I indicated to Ana, we’ll succeed and eventually wonder why we ever found this topsy-turvy time difficult.
      Blessings, Lots of Love, and Ongoing Creation Sparkles,


    • 11. LifeTapestryCreations  |  September 13, 2022 at 2:31 pm

      As always, thank you so much for sharing this week’s channel with your MENSAGENS e PENSAMENTOS readers.


  • 12. elizabethfarwell  |  September 15, 2022 at 11:29 pm

    Thanks Brenda! “…..does not matter because, with or without your support, the earth has moved into a loving stance.”

    Focusing on loving.



    • 13. LifeTapestryCreations  |  September 19, 2022 at 2:36 pm

      Dear Sweetie,
      And away we go OR here we come!
      Blessings, Lots of Love, and Ongoing Creation Sparkles,

      Liked by 1 person


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