Flitting Between Relationships

July 30, 2018 at 9:32 am 23 comments

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Channeled by Brenda Hoffman for LifeTapestryCreations.com

Summary of Brenda’s July 27, 2018, channeled 15-minute “Creation Energies” show at BlogTalkRadio.com/brenda-hoffman:   You’re in control of the energies received from the Universes. Because energies never leave earth, as is true for snow, create in your inner or outer worlds whenever YOU feel it is right to do so. The escalating energies allow you to create rapidly and for those beginning their journey to transition more rapidly than was true for you.  

“Decide” is the title of last week’s “Brenda’s Blog” – her weekly channeled blog for LifeTapestryCreations.com.

Brenda’s “Creation Energies” show and “Brenda’s Blog” contain different channeled information.

Dear Ones,

Each of you is a unique individual existing under the totality umbrella. So it is you are beginning to experience your uniqueness in ways you never before experienced while of the earth.

Many of you are lonely. Not because you are truly alone, but because you did not step outside social boundaries in your previous earthly existences. So you wait for approval that will never arrive.

For you are transitioning to the rebel status required for a unique being. In time, that rebel label will be honored – but not yet.

So you feel alone and odd. Much like the fable of the ugly duckling who discovered he was a lovely swan.

You might contend that some of your political leaders are displaying uniqueness. The difference is that most have not extended their uniqueness to the umbrella of totality. So it is they are unique, but without the heart, you have consciously mastered.

You will know who your co-harts in this new world are by the feelings of rightness when you are with them despite their different callings or actions. If their actions are from the heart, you will easily accept their differences. If their actions are from their mind without heart, you will find it difficult to be with them.

So it is you are deeper into your heart than you thought possible a few days ago. You no longer need others telling you who is right for you, you will just know. But by adding the ability of just knowing you remove many people from your interactions. Hence your loneliness feelings.

Many of you believe such is not a reward but a punishment.

Instead, one of your initial evolution pieces is the ability to understand people without words. To sense from deep within you that those who speak the “right” words might not mean them. And those who speak the “wrong” words might be more filled with love than you realized.

Words are becoming superfluous for you are beginning to sense beyond words. Almost as if you x-rayed into their beliefs and thoughts.

Such might mean you have more surface relationships or you ignore or refuse to interact with them. It does not matter. You are a unique individual beginning to search for those interested in adding additional skills to their skill set.

Your loneliness will be short-lived for you have added a joy button to your being that attracts like souls and detracts, unlike beings.

Do you remember when you started a new job, you were attracted to some of your co-workers but not all? Or when you moved to a new community, you became friends with some but not all of your neighbors? So it is now. But this attraction is different for it is based on inner-sensations instead of commonalities such as children of a similar age.

Even though your new connections will not necessarily be as now expected, these connections are deeper than those of the past for they are based on inner feelings.

Many of you wonder how you can detect these inner feelings. A question similar to your teenage daughter asking how she will know when she’s in love.

Even though you perhaps hope such connections will be forever, such is not to be for you are now excited about flitting from one sensation to the next. Your new connections will jettison both of you onto the next crossroads of creation.

For you are now so focused on your path that nothing or no one is more important to you. Such a statement likely frightens you for you are already lonely, and you want some stability in your being, some sense of belonging to earth in a loving fashion.

The shift now happening is not localizing your love or abilities, but expanding them globally. That concept might seem frightening now, but once you are in full swing of inner-directed activities, you will function with joy as you flit from experience to experience using different skills, time frames, dimensions, and qualities.

You are not a ‘stick in the mud’ personality. A portion of your 3D lack of joy was your need to fit in a tiny box of shoulds. Now you fly into new adventures and connections daily or in your sleep state.

Perhaps knowing that you will no longer form deep and lasting relationships is a frightening thought for that is what you clung to in your earthly existences. Your energies are now directed to what gives you joy. Even though that might mean a few lasting relationships, you are designed for adventure and love – which you will find when you look within.

Perhaps such predictions do not seem loving. They are in terms of who you are now. For you must interact successfully with cells of different types, just as is true for the human body within the womb. If some of those cells refuse to interact with a variety of other cells, that infant is born with physical or mental difficulties. So it is you are returning to the womb of sorts to interact with any who will further develop your new being only to leave them with love as you move to the next cell pod.

Think of bumblebees. Even though they deeply love the flowers they interact with, their role is to return to the hive with information about flower locations and to help create honey.

Your role is similarly focused. So even though you will meet many of the heart along the way, your role is to forge ahead on your path. Something that might seem odd at first, only to discover that 3D connections mean little in comparison to your new Universal cell connections.

You are now searching for others of like nature. Not to complete you as was true in 3D, but to push you further along your path. Those connections will be stronger but short-lived for both of you will focus on your new you need instead of 3D needs.

You are changing the earth. Such cannot happen if you confine to your life to the few people who have always been in your life. Now you wonder about the happy gardener who finds joy in displaying flowers for all to see. Those who support that role will appear as needed. For that gardener will be the like the flowers bees pollinate. So be it. Amen.

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Decide Should You Go or Should You Stay?

23 Comments Add your own

  • 1. dreamweaver333  |  July 30, 2018 at 10:13 am

    Reblogged this on dreamweaver333.


    • 2. LifeTapestryCreations  |  July 30, 2018 at 10:46 am

      Thank you so much for reblogging my channel on Dreamweaver333 dreamweaver333.com


  • 3. Eliza Ayres  |  July 30, 2018 at 10:39 am

    Reblogged this on Blue Dragon Journal.


  • 5. Gil Cleeton  |  July 30, 2018 at 11:13 am

    My teachers of educational psychology in college stressed the importance of language, but my gut-feeling was that words might be a little too important, and that other feelings, and body language, were a little neglected. Gilbert Highet said that we should educate feeling as well as thinking.

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    • 6. LifeTapestryCreations  |  July 30, 2018 at 2:31 pm

      Hi Gil,
      One of my professions in Minneapolis, before I retired, was as a counselor. After four or so years of doing so, I was comparing techniques with the other counselors and asked if they were as amazed as I was when words didn’t match what I sensed the clients were really worried, etc. about. My co-workers didn’t know what I was talking about. The first inkling I had that I sensed emotions and words weren’t necessary. And now we don’t necessarily need to educate as it seems it’s happening automatically. YAY!!!
      Blessings, Lots of Love and Ongoing Creation Sparkles,

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      • 7. elizabethsadhu  |  July 30, 2018 at 5:13 pm

        Oh yes…….my whole life I have had this sense and it was often VERY confusing to me until I realized that I am an Empath…….and I have to trust what I am getting, what I am feeling……pretty much no outside confirmation was given EVER!


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      • 8. LifeTapestryCreations  |  July 30, 2018 at 5:32 pm

        Hi Sweetie,
        I should have guessed something like that when in high school and I realized I sometimes could tune into the person who created a test – like I thought everyone could. So now we’re being joined by millions of others. We’re becoming the norm. How cool is that!

        As for letting go of those who no longer resonate with us – yes! One more step toward becoming us.
        Blessings, Lots of Love and Ongoing Creation Sparkles,

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  • 9. Delfina Gasoido  |  July 30, 2018 at 12:55 pm

    Oh Dear Brenda, the fable of the ugly duckling is my favorite tale.
    I liked it as a child, and as I grow and deepen more in its hidden message (in the uncensored version, of course) I still like it more.
    In fact last year at Christmas that was my gift for a few special friends. A complete, beautifully illustrated version of this tale.

    So little else to add to what you say.
    This feeling of loneliness is true. Of not fitting more than superficially with my surroundings.
    And see if I’m alone these days, that even my husband is absent. It is making the “Camino de Santiago” a centuries-old pilgrimage route and very famous in Europe since medieval times. He’s been ten days out, this Sunday is over and I’m going to pick it up in Santiago de Compostela, a place next to what in the Roman Empire was called “Finisterre”, which literally means the place where the earth ends, that’s where the Atlantic Ocean and still missing centuries to discover the “New World”.
    So everything has a wonderful and magical symbolism, on Sunday, after being “alone” for 17 days, I will go to the end of the known world ….. maybe I discover from there the longed for “New Earth” … 😉
    I will have you informed!!!
    Love, blessings and sparkles

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    • 10. LifeTapestryCreations  |  July 30, 2018 at 2:38 pm

      Hi Cristina,
      I’ve read two books about the Camino de Santiago pilgrimage. You have to be proud of your husband for walking that path. From what I’ve read, it’s a wonderful way to find yourself and your soul.

      As for being lonely, you’re right in the swing again. I’m not so much lonely as not wanting to be around many or any people other than my husband. And a feeling that where we’ve been living for five years isn’t right for me anymore because so many connections are superficial. We’re busy packing for our move next week and both concentrating on that.

      Give your husband a big hug from me and enjoy taking in the ‘end of the world’ Sunday!
      Blessings, Lots of Love and Ongoing Creation Sparkles,

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    • 12. LifeTapestryCreations  |  July 30, 2018 at 2:39 pm

      Thank you so much for reblogging my channel on Living An Inspired Life paulamarchand.wordpress.com


    • 14. LifeTapestryCreations  |  July 30, 2018 at 2:57 pm

      Thank you so much, Zburand Printre Relatile, for reblogging my channel on Jawes Creator jawescreator.wordpress.com


  • 15. elizabethsadhu  |  July 30, 2018 at 5:11 pm

    This brings me huge relief. “Perhaps knowing that you will no longer form deep and lasting relationships is a frightening thought for that is what you clung to in your earthly existences. Your energies are now directed to what gives you joy. Even though that might mean a few lasting relationships, you are designed for adventure and love – which you will find when you look within.”

    I am so happy to let go of some of the old relationships…….letting go of the ones that don’t bring me joy. Oh yes. AND shifting some to less interaction and therefore more joy.

    YES!!!! “You are now searching for others of like nature. Not to complete you as was true in 3D, but to push you further along your path. Those connections will be stronger but short-lived for both of you will focus on your new you need instead of 3D needs.”

    Thanks dearest Brenda…….

    loving me and loving us all


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    • 16. sherri  |  July 31, 2018 at 12:19 pm

      since 2011 I have left a few unsatisfying relationships and have no desire to have those people in my life again. one in particular I suspected was fabricating incredible things in her life such as gifts given her and astonishing events, yet she was never able to provide tangible evidence of the gifts and was always vague about the events. good riddance. my sister thinks I should always keep friends, yet she always thought it important to be able to say she had hundreds of facebook friends. who needs that? another was very judgmental and was always saying “don’t you think?” that seemed to be her way of me approving her thoughts and actions. the burden of giving her fake approval was just too heavy, so I said bye bye.

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      • 17. LifeTapestryCreations  |  July 31, 2018 at 2:46 pm

        Hi Sherri,
        Yes, we’re shedding so many pieces of our 3D beings. Kudos to all for daring to become!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
        Blessings, Lots of Love, and Ongoing Creation Sparkles,

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  • 18. Iconoclast  |  July 30, 2018 at 6:38 pm

    Reblogged this on Infinite Shift.


    • 19. LifeTapestryCreations  |  July 31, 2018 at 2:44 pm

      Thank you so much, Iconoclast, for reblogging my channel on Infinite Shift Infiniteshift.wordpress.com


  • 20. PeaceNowFlower  |  August 3, 2018 at 12:23 am

    I have been in the womb stage a while. Currently I am playing new kinds of games and practicing dancing/singing. I have been able to work a bit more at my library job so will not have to do muscle work at a warehouse this Fall/Winter. I am going to be taking a hip-hop dance class at a community college. I finally took the steps to manifest the iPad Pro I wanted for two years, and also an Nintendo Switch which enables me to play new games. I am thinking of singing in mass on Sunday. I started drinking coffee again recently (as in just this week.) Even if I am attempting many changes, I am still very much in the ‘upgrading’ process. I exited my dark night in about 2012. It would be nice to know how much longer. Even if I have fit many lifetimes of ‘upgrades’ into this short time, at times I wander what I am upgrading for? What am I headed towards? How long is this car ride? Are we there yet?


    • 21. joyful light  |  August 3, 2018 at 5:16 am

      Love your questions!
      Thank you!

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    • 22. LifeTapestryCreations  |  August 3, 2018 at 3:43 pm

      Dear PeaceNowFlower,
      Wow, your life is expanding immensely. I wish you remembered how far you’ve come in a very short (Universal) time. So often during the past few years, you’ve thought your life was terrible and getting worse and now you’re reporting about dance classes, forward-thinking, and having fun. Kudos and more kudos for your achievements.
      Blessings, Lots of Love and Ongoing Creation Sparkles,
      PS. We’ll never be there as evolution/change is ongoing. How much longer and why are we upgrading only you can answer for yourself.

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  • 23. Mary Chisholm  |  August 3, 2018 at 10:51 am

    Inspiring message Brenda…even hubby did some aha’s after reading it. He’s more social than I am… still kind of looking for where he fits? I’ve become very insular and actually resent human intrusions. Our neighbourhood has shifted and become more quiet as well with each year. So much to observe as the ‘shift’ intensifies. eh? No need to respond Brenda as I know what moving is like ❤ ❤ <3d

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