Your Followers are NOT Infants

November 4, 2019 at 10:24 am 22 comments

Channeled by Brenda Hoffman for

Summary of Brenda’s November 1, 2019, channeled “Creation Energies” show at  You’re likely clearing some last pieces of earth or personal caretaking issues. Such is so in preparation for 2020. Even though you don’t believe it is possible, your political, environmental, and personal fears will end as the emerging energies are shifting all. Those following have solutions you can’t yet imagine.  Please Note: The sound quality of this week’s BlogTalk channel isn’t the best because I used a cell phone instead of a landline.

Your Joys are Related to Old 3D Fears is the title of last week’s “Brenda’s Blog” – her weekly channeled blog for

Brenda’s “Creation Energies” show and “Brenda’s Blog” contain different channeled information.

Dear Ones,

You probably feel that all is not well in your world. Even though we have addressed this issue on several occasions, you continue to worry about your future and that of the earth. For indications are that leaders you once held in esteem are not worth the energy to help them maintain their status. And those you once feared are more evident daily.

So it is there is little for you to attach to other than your inner-world for all else seems counter-intuitive, mean, and self-serving. You assumed that at this stage in your transition, you would be encased in a bubble of joy that excluded those who did not agree with your beliefs.

Even though you no longer believe that separation is possible, such is yet to happen.

You completed each difficult transition phase with hopes that joy would be evident with the next step. But you are so worn out now you no longer expect joy, merely more struggles as has been true for earth eons. Your current reality is that your life is not as pleasant, as was true before you initiated your transition. You are noting the underbelly of the earth and its inhabitants without the sunshine you once believed was a requirement.

Surely, you could not suffer as much as you have during this transition, including the loss of family and friends, without a reward. So it is you no longer care if that reward is of 3D or 5D. You merely need some indication that all you achieved is worth a reward.

Instead, you feel lonely, sad, angry, and yes, fearful. What if there are no rewards? What if the remainder of your earth life is to be in this nothingness without highs, joys, or fun? What if you pushed yourself almost beyond endurance to this flat life that is opposite of what we and others prophecized?

Such is not true. But until you receive some indication to the contrary, you are losing faith that anything is changing. So it is you are becoming surly in your inner anger. Anger and angst, directed at yourself. “Why was I such a fool to believe that I changed the world?”

Those of you in a different place – either before reaching this emotional block or after doing so – cannot understand the angst of your spiritual brothers and sisters. For you are cool, calm, and collected, knowing that all is well.  All is well, but extremely difficult to prove if you are experiencing your dark night of the soul or clearing of your final fear dust bunnies.

You forerunners are in the midst of the earth’s sea change from 3D to 5D. Yet, you are sensing or experiencing a more in-depth 3D than you once thought possible. Part of your discomfort is sensing the general upheaval of all earth beings.

Your views are so different from the general population that you have little in common with them, nor do you wish to find commonalities with most outside your circle. Even those within your circle are starting to demand your help – if not, physically, then emotionally. Those followers expect you, caretaker supreme, to help them through their phases. The same phases you struggled through without knowing where those struggles would lead or end.

Of course, you are angry and fearful. For not only are you in void time, making final preparations for 2020, but those followers connected to you, physically or emotionally, want you to carry them across their finish line. So it is, that whenever you sense a sparkle of joy, a follower either within your immediate circle or those you connect with empathically, call out for help with their issues.

So it is you are having difficulties believing there is a finish line.

Both your rest and nurturing time is limited. Exhaustion similar to your experiences during the first years of your child’s life. When your child cried, it was your duty to determine why they were crying, no matter how tired or busy you were. You were on-call 24/7.  You are falling into that same pattern believing you must care for others – even if you merely sense them – 24/7.

Stop caretaking. Stop feeling sorry for followers. Make them pick up their toys (clearing their fears) instead of doing it for them.

Of course, this command seems nasty, given that no one seems to be asking for your help. Need we remind you that you are both a consummate earth caretaker and Universal sensitive? So it is you are likely sensing cries for help more than you are physically experiencing them. You, with your sensory portholes wide open, catch the emotional cries of beings who do not wish to do their transition work.

Transition work is not easy, as you well know. But you completed your work so that those following were capable of completing theirs WITHOUT your assistance. They are not frail infants who must be cared for. Followers are earth adults and Universal beings. They, just as was true for you, want the easiest route possible – which they know you can provide. For you are capable of holding their pain as they explore their new life. But doing so is harming you emotionally and not helping them complete their transition.

Many of those following are looking for helicopter parents like you to pull them through difficult pieces only they can complete. So it is those of you who are overly sensitive are in a quandary for you are natural caretakers.

Both you and those following must leave this enabling path.

You have created the superhighway those following can branch off of. By doing so, you completed the most difficult part of 5D path creation. Stopping to create a unique path for those following reduces the number of 5D forerunners completing their roles.

Stop caretaking – emotionally or physically. You cannot create a reward for yourself if you are enmeshed in the progress of those following.

Nurture yourself knowing those following are no longer infants, but instead middle school children who want you to do their homework, and cook, and clean for them. They want you to do it all.

It is time for you to say, “NO.” A loud NO that needs to reverberate to those surrounding you physically and those leaking into your empathic being because they are frightened.

Just say, “NO.” So be it. Amen. To receive Brenda’s Blog, please click the Subscribe Button on the upper part of her “Blog & Subscribe” page and then click the – Subscribe to Brenda’s Blog by E-mail – line. Complete your subscription by entering your e-mail address and accepting the e-mail confirmation.

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Your Joys are Related to Old 3D Fears You’re a New Earth 5D Toe Dipper

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  • 1. Eliza Ayres  |  November 4, 2019 at 10:30 am

    Reblogged this on Blue Dragon Journal.


  • 3. Inma  |  November 4, 2019 at 1:00 pm

    Dear Brenda,
    I couldn’t describe myself better than your channelling does.
    Lots of Love,

    Liked by 2 people

  • 7. janis´¯`·.¸ʚįɞ  |  November 4, 2019 at 1:49 pm

    Wow, Brenda!
    This made me cry at the beginning then laugh at the end!
    This helps me so much today!
    Love this and YOU!
    Thank you, Bren!

    Liked by 1 person

    • 8. LifeTapestryCreations  |  November 4, 2019 at 5:56 pm

      Dear Janis,
      I’ve thought of myself for a very long time as a member of caretakers anonymous working in a caretaker bar! Isn’t it so easy to slip back into that role???
      Blessings, Lots of Love and Ongoing Creation Sparkles,

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      • 9. janis´¯`·.¸ʚįɞ  |  November 5, 2019 at 1:42 pm

        A “caretaker bar”…ha!
        Good one, Bren!
        😊 ♥️


      • 10. LifeTapestryCreations  |  November 5, 2019 at 2:24 pm

        I’m not sure when I started using that phrase, Janis, but it makes me smile every time I do. Caretaking is so easy for me – until I process what I want or need.

        Liked by 1 person

      • 11. Marta  |  November 8, 2019 at 10:26 pm

        Dear Brenda,

        I worked in that bar 😂😂😂. I used to be a caretaker, savior and enabler. Our roles are changing. We helped and lit up a way but it’s time we are finally free and happy from burden and suffering. Many of us didn’t even have the ideal family so we’ve been through one of the hardest missions since we were born.

        Indeed, only we can do our inner work and so those who come behind must do so as well.

        Thank you Brenda and your Spiritual Support for this message. It is a balm to the Heart.

        Your Service to Gaia and all is much appreciated 💙🌈🐬🌷✨


      • 12. LifeTapestryCreations  |  November 10, 2019 at 6:56 pm

        Dear Marta,
        I think lots of us worked in those bars! And the same goes for families. Just remembering how much we’ve experienced, suffered through, and persevered is most definitely multi-volume books of knowledge!
        Blessings, Lots of Love and Ongoing Creation Sparkles,


  • 13. Becky Reed  |  November 4, 2019 at 2:04 pm

    Thank you so much, Brenda. Per usual, I resonated with much of this. And I said a loud NO! (mentally) at the end and felt a surprising release of tension. Good to know! I’m almost always alone so figured I am not drained or leaned on but forgot about the invisible leaners. Many blessings and gratitude to you ❤

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    • 14. LifeTapestryCreations  |  November 4, 2019 at 5:59 pm

      Dear Becky,
      I released a similar tension after channeling my BlogTalk show, Friday. Today’s Brenda’s Blog just added to that release.

      I’m so pleased that your “NO” resonated so well and so deeply. YES!!!!!
      Blessings, Lots of Love and Ongoing Creation Sparkles,

      Liked by 1 person

  • 15. Delfina Gasoido  |  November 4, 2019 at 3:18 pm

    OMG, that makes me feel good!!!!
    It is liberating, especially for someone like me who takes care of everything and everyone … even if they don’t ask me … I have a bad habit of offering myself.

    Liked by 1 person

    • 16. LifeTapestryCreations  |  November 4, 2019 at 6:11 pm

      Dear Cristina,
      I think most of us are natural caretakers even if it isn’t healthy for us or those we feel the need to caretake. I changed careers from counseling street people to corporate marketing when I realized I believed I was so much stronger and wiser than those I was counseling. Caretaker supreme or what??? Even so, I’ve caught myself over and over again repeating that mistaken thought process throughout the 35 years since. What a burden for me and those I felt the need to caretake!
      Blessings, Lots of Love and Ongoing Creation Sparkles,

      Liked by 3 people

  • 17. elizabethsadhu  |  November 5, 2019 at 1:07 pm

    Reblogged this on elizabethsadhu and commented:
    I love this! Thanks Dearest Brenda Joy(ce)!!

    Just say, hell no!
    Pick up your own damn toys. heehee

    Every time I think I am done with care taking, I learn something new. And it is good. It helps that my beautiful all grown up children are very independent. It helps that my dear hubby doesn’t expect me to cook, clean or etc. He encourages me to RELAX!!!! Even the dance committee that I am on, won’t let me do some things (when I try to volunteer) because they know I am an overachiever (caretaker) ha!

    I mostly feel pretty darn good and remind myself (a lot) that I am not in 3D anymore……So appearances are deceiving, eh?

    Life is pretty frickin awesome! AND the less I DO, the more I KNOW. WE don’t have to do a damn thing anymore……BECAUSE we are HERE…….

    Thank you lovely cadre/kindreds/Brenda for all being here.


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    • 18. LifeTapestryCreations  |  November 5, 2019 at 2:16 pm

      Dear Sweetie,
      So true – both the knowing and the accepting!
      Blessings, Lots of Love and Ongoing Creation Sparkles,


      • 19. elizabethsadhu  |  November 5, 2019 at 2:44 pm



    • 20. LifeTapestryCreations  |  November 5, 2019 at 2:18 pm

      Thank you so much, Sweetie, for reblogging my channel on ElizabethSadhu


  • 21. AliceinW  |  November 5, 2019 at 8:48 pm

    Loved this. OK. I have learned my lesson about caretaking but no one comes knocking for my side of the story either and that’s fine too. I’m just trudging onward. I did read one description about what we’re experiencing now and the analogy was something like this: in 3D we had limited choices and had to work and wait for things. In 4D choices come easier and faster but we’re picking through leftovers. 5 D is what we’re all coming into but we’re not quite in that experience yet. 😑. PS- I keep hearing 2020 is the ticket but what exactly?

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    • 22. LifeTapestryCreations  |  November 6, 2019 at 10:37 am

      Dear Alicein,
      I haven’t seen that dimensional comparison, but it’s definitely interesting. I keep channeling about 2020 and I don’t know what that means either. The good news is that my channels and all others that mention 2020 are on an extremely positive note. Time will tell!
      Blessings, Lots of Love and Ongoing Creation Sparkles,



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