Stop Carrying Others on Your Path

August 26, 2019 at 10:50 am 23 comments

Channeled by Brenda Hoffman for LifeTapestryCreations.com

Summary of Brenda’s August 23, 2019, channeled “Creation Energies” show at BlogTalkRadio.com/brenda-hoffman:  Unlike the expected 3D aging of the physical body, humanity is now changing from the inside. Those inner changes are frightening, for they are unprecedented in earth history. You can’t yet envision humanity shifting from fear to love for most are expressing rage or fear as they do so. Even though you know what’s happening, you’re frightened at times too. 

Do You Believe You’re 3D or 5D? is the title of last week’s “Brenda’s Blog” – her weekly channeled blog for LifeTapestryCreations.com.

Brenda’s “Creation Energies” show and “Brenda’s Blog” contain different channeled information.

Dear Ones,

You are shifting from acquiescing to the needs of others to informing them of your thoughts and feelings. You are no longer the agreeable mime that others want you to be.

Of course, this information is not new. What is new is that you no longer feel guilty about your truth. You no longer wonder if someone’s feelings are hurt or worry that others might not care for you if you do not participate.

So it is you are feeling feisty, adhering to your inner principles even though others might be angry or bewildered by your actions.

For eons, you have known you are powerful. But you used that power to fit in instead of becoming. You were an easy target for anyone who needed something you could or would provide as a caretaker.

Now that you are exploring your inner-power, you are a stronger, more vocal being. Someone who no longer sifts through the needs and thoughts of others before finding your voice. So it is others are surprised – and not always pleasantly so – by your new demeanor.

Those impacted by your new voice might try to return you to who you were. And that is when you will surprise yourself and others with your declaration of freedom. The freedom to be without the constraints of who others want or need you to be.

This freedom, this voice will be raw without the sugar-coating of social graces. You are exhausted by the current earth chaos. So it is you are unwilling to roll back your thoughts and beliefs to those which better suit those around you.

You are rapidly discovering that trying to fit in, to be the nice boy or girl you were trained to be, is more uncomfortable than you ever imagined. A bit like those musically inclined finding it painful when they hear the wrong note in a song.

Those around you will want you to return to the kind, gentle person with whom they have always interacted. You are the caretaker of the world are you not? For that is what they expect of you. And that is what used to give you comfort – hiding behind a false caretaking curtain as you ignored your needs and powers. A bit like Clark Kent never entering the phone booth to become Superman.

Now you superwomen and men not only want to be discovered, it is necessary that you are. For the world, the Universes are waiting.

Likely, you have no interest in saving the world. By being yourself, you are saving the world. For until you force others to take responsibility for themselves, you will continue to pretend to be someone you are not.

Humans do not change until the discomfort is painful enough to do so. If you continue to catch others when they fall, they will never be uncomfortable enough to change.

Just as it is not appropriate for you to always pick up your children’s toys because it is easier, it is also no longer appropriate to ensure that others do not fail or fall. You are only responsible for you. And the same is true for all.

So it is that you are feeling exhausted, emotionally drained. Even though your caretaking role no longer feels right, others fully expect you to continue, so they do not have to take responsibility for their actions. Imagine those following you as children wanting you to pick up their toys – just as was true for you when you started your transition.

At the beginning of your transition, you constantly asked for direction and assistance, crying out that this transition was too difficult for you to bear. We countered with, “You’re your own guru” and thousands of other words encouraging you to become you.

So it is now that those following want you to do their work for them. They will try many emotional ploys to once again ensure you are engaged in their life. For how much easier it would be for them if you guided them through the rough parts by holding their hand and using your super-duper sword of light to cut through their pain? You wished for the same throughout much of your journey. And even though we often wanted to make it easier for you, we knew doing so would merely prolong your pain.

So it is for you now. You are no longer caretakers, your brothers or sisters keepers. You are you with new powers to explore. Powers that are you being you without the filters of who society or those following want you to be.

All involved in this transition must find their own voice. Such will only happen if all are allowed to do so.

But we forewarn you that just as was true for you in your dark night of the soul and phases thereafter, those following will expect you to help them carry their burdens. That is not your role. Your role is to allow them to see and sense the outcomes of daring to be free.

You are not a caretaker. You are not their parent. You are not their guru. Your role and only role is to be free of the social and personal constraints that dim the light necessary to shine more brightly than hate and fear.

Allow those following to find their place, their joy. For their joy is no longer your responsibility even though you may have played that role in this life and many others. They must find their path which they cannot do if you carry them on YOUR path – slowing or halting your growth. So be it. Amen.

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  • 1. Oracles and Healers  |  August 26, 2019 at 10:58 am

    Awesome. Thank you, Brenda. Sharing.

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    • 2. LifeTapestryCreations  |  August 26, 2019 at 11:20 am

      Ron, we definitely have a mutual admiration society. Your Council channels are always enlightening for me. And as always, thank you so much for reblogging my channel on Oracles and Healers oraclesandhealers.wordpress.com

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  • 3. Jean Mary Elizabeth  |  August 26, 2019 at 12:27 pm

    soooo right on

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    • 4. LifeTapestryCreations  |  August 26, 2019 at 3:21 pm

      Dear Jean Mary,
      For me too!!!!!!!
      Blessings, Lots of Love and Ongoing Creation Sparkles,
      Brenda

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  • 5. sue-bell  |  August 26, 2019 at 12:39 pm

    Oh Brenda – I can’t tell you how much this resonates with me and my current experience of engaging with the world! Thank you so much for sharing – this has helped so me so much to make sense of what I have been feeling – which wasn’t actually making a lot of sense until I read this.

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    • 6. LifeTapestryCreations  |  August 26, 2019 at 7:01 pm

      Dear Sue-Bell,
      And I can’t tell you how pleased I am that this channel resonated for/with you. It’s so much fun for me to know that my channels ease or explain someone’s discomfort.
      Blessings, Lots of Love and Ongoing Creation Sparkles,
      Brenda
      PS This was an AHA channel for me too!

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  • 7. elizabethsadhu  |  August 26, 2019 at 2:36 pm

    Reblogged this on elizabethsadhu and commented:
    Oh my gosh, how perfect is this?

    I had a man (the only guy) in my exercise verbally attack me this morning in a way that had me sobbing. After sitting with it, I think he was tweaked by my brassy and loud self. WE have been in that class for 2 years together. He accused me of constant tantrums and being unkind and slamming doors. I was aghast that he saw me like that. But I am being me which included none of what he said. I do speak my mind and joke around a lot; I find pretty much everything funny. And I am certainly not wanting to hurt anyone’s feelings.

    I think I was hit with an example of the patriarchy shifting…..trying to hold on to the old paradigm. Women, stay in your place.

    I am so so so tired of getting castigated and yelled at and fired and laid off and and and for BEING ME. And what about all those other lifetimes? 🙂 I think I will rest.

    Thanks Brenda, this is beautiful and so timely, as always.

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    • 8. LifeTapestryCreations  |  August 26, 2019 at 7:07 pm

      Dear Sweetie,
      Being us isn’t always easy. Not because it’s wrong, but because it’s frightening to those who don’t dare be themselves. I remember my parents telling me on numerous occasions that I shouldn’t laugh loudly or at all. Then I married the man who not only loved that aspect of me, he referred to me as a fun, Goldie Hawn. Right personality, wrong place. But darn those wrong places can be hurtful.
      Blessings, Lots of Love and Ongoing Creation Sparkles,
      Brenda

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      • 9. elizabethsadhu  |  August 26, 2019 at 7:24 pm

        Thanks sweetie. Remembering we are often mirrors for others. I have had quite a few people tell me I laughed too loud. Ha! So happy you found the perfect hubby who got you. Yay for those guys. ♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️

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    • 10. janis´¯`·.¸ʚįɞ  |  August 28, 2019 at 12:52 pm

      ❤️ Elizabeth ❤️

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  • 12. Claire Caron  |  August 26, 2019 at 3:21 pm

    Thank you Brenda. Me too. It has been my experience lately. But I found it so hard to say no and not feel guilty specially for close family members. And yet, I have expressed yesterday my truth to a person I would never have dare to do so… not so long ago!
    A beautiful week to you Brenda and to all!!!

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    • 13. LifeTapestryCreations  |  August 26, 2019 at 7:09 pm

      Dear CLaire,
      YAY!!!!!!!!!!!!!! You have to be so proud of yourself. Daring to express your truth to anyone is a major step. I know doing so is difficult especially at first. So don’t be hard on yourself if you express your truth slowly in your mind, but at your pace in reality.
      Blessings, Lots of Love and Ongoing Creation Sparkles,
      Brenda

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  • 14. dreamweaver333  |  August 26, 2019 at 6:06 pm

    Reblogged this on dreamweaver333.

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    • 15. LifeTapestryCreations  |  August 26, 2019 at 7:11 pm

      As always, thank you so much for reblogging my channel on Dreamweaver333 dreamweaver333.com

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  • 16. AliceinW  |  August 27, 2019 at 2:33 pm

    “Your role and only role is to be free of the social and personal constraints that dim the light …”. This entire message resonated with me and I find that the line above is my biggest hurdle right now because those who are still not awakened are operating with the social constraints and haven’t become comfortable with thoughts of change. So at this point I feel like a diplomat trying to stay on my path but negotiating new terms all the time for those who don’t understand that path. More lessons of Mastery, perhaps?

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    • 17. LifeTapestryCreations  |  August 28, 2019 at 7:08 pm

      Dear Alicein,
      Not an easy time for many. Do what you feel comfortable doing and ignore the rest or bow out of the situation. I know – easier said than done right now. Diplomacy is wonderful – until we lose ourselves.

      So many of us are sensitive to the feelings of others even without words. And the wonderful “service to others” people that we are, forget that we’re as important as those we’re doing a “tap dance” to protect. A big and not always easy lesson for most of us.
      Blessings, Lots of Love and Ongoing Creation Energies,
      Brenda

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      • 18. AliceinW  |  August 28, 2019 at 8:08 pm

        Agreed, Brenda. And maybe we’re starting to realize that just getting ourselves adjusted to the new energies is about all we can handle without getting out of balance by trying to help too many others. That’s a bit of what I am starting to experience.

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      • 19. LifeTapestryCreations  |  August 29, 2019 at 1:41 pm

        Dear Alicein,
        YUP, self-love is in the spotlight. That doesn’t mean we don’t feed the hungry if it feels right to do so. But it’s time to teach, show, expect others to learn to fish, to find their path.
        Blessings, Lots of Love, and Ongoing Creation Sparkles,
        Brenda

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  • 20. janis´¯`·.¸ʚįɞ  |  August 28, 2019 at 12:47 pm

    Wow…a lot of food for thought…I haven’t been a big caretaker but here lately I’ve become friends with someone who has a lot of issues and they see me the same way I think…now I’m thinking about the difference between a caretaker and someone who is available for support but not a caretaker…hmmm…
    Love the line about Clark Kent never entering the phone booth to become Superman!
    Thank you, Brenda!
    ❤️❤️❤️

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    • 21. LifeTapestryCreations  |  August 28, 2019 at 7:13 pm

      Dear Janis,
      I sooo know what you mean about defining for yourself the difference between caretaker and support. My personal boundary is when I get tired or bored listening (and people have always tended to share a lot with me because they must sense I like people) because they don’t want to solve or change their dilemma or they want me to do it for them.
      Blessings, Lots of Love and Ongoing Creation Sparkles,
      Brenda

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      • 22. janis´¯`·.¸ʚįɞ  |  August 31, 2019 at 1:44 am

        Yes, I see what you are saying, Brenda, and I appreciate your blog talk today that elaborated on it as well…thank you for sharing, Brenda… ❤ ❤ ❤

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      • 23. LifeTapestryCreations  |  August 31, 2019 at 10:00 am

        Hey Janis,
        Isn’t it great that we set it up so that we can all share, care, and support via the Internet! Go new world!
        Blessings, Lots of Love and Ongoing Creation Sparkles,
        Brenda

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